how to start a cockold relationship

[peeked_curious]

I've been interested in for a while in starting cockold relationship with my husband, I've watched some porn in relation to it. I know it's either you're dominate or you're not, but it's not that I lack some of the tools that are needed. I am pretty dominate.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

I would imagine that the first step would be to discuss it with your husband and see if it interests him as well...

 

[peeked_curious]

I would imagine that the first step would be to discuss it with your husband and see if it interests him as well...

We've discussed, we've started and tried a little and mostly it turned us both on that I forced him to do something. I've done strap-on sex with him which he enjoys and face sitting.

 

[literal]

We've discussed, we've started and tried a little and mostly it turned us both on that I forced him to do something. I've done strap-on sex with him which he enjoys and face sitting.

sorry to be ignorant with the lingo..cuckold?

 

[SweetErika]

sorry to be ignorant with the lingo..cuckold?

You must not be that ignorant since you spelled it correctly.

Exact definitions vary, but cuckolding usually involves the wife having sex with other men while "forcing" the husband to watch and denying him sex (or at least penetration of her orifices). Humiliation is a common theme. Sometimes D/s is involved. Google it for more info.

Peeked, have you discussed the specifics of what you're interested in utterly in depth? For instance, have you two made a plan for everything, including potential consequences (physical, emotional, relationship), and made agreements?

Can you give us more of an idea on how you define "cuckolding" and what tools you think you lack, as well as what type of advice you're seeking?

 

[peeked_curious]

You must not be that ignorant since you spelled it correctly.

Exact definitions vary, but cuckolding usually involves the wife having sex with other men while "forcing" the husband to watch and denying him sex (or at least penetration of her orifices). Humiliation is a common theme. Sometimes D/s is involved. Google it for more info.

Peeked, have you discussed the specifics of what you're interested in utterly in depth? For instance, have you two made a plan for everything, including potential consequences (physical, emotional, relationship), and made agreements?

Can you give us more of an idea on how you define "cuckolding" and what tools you think you lack, as well as what type of advice you're seeking?

I guess more or less I got the wrong impression from the porn I've been watching. Cockolding as the were showing didn't involve the woman having sex with another man just the thought of having sex with another man. That is kinda hard to explain with out directing you to the porn itself. It's a Goddess Starla video. She puts a strap-on on her husband/ submissive and pretends it's her ex-boyfriend's penis and goes about having sex that way, saying things.. so on and so forth.
http://www.*********.com/Femdom-Imaginary-Cuckold/video174689/

I don't believe in bringing another person into the bedroom, so I guess maybe cockolding is not the correct relationship we're going for. Maybe I was the ignorant one in that case. I'm looking for a more D/s relationship.

 

[literal]

why is this link not working? i mean what goes instead of those *******?

 

[peeked_curious]

*********.com

why is this link not working? i mean what goes instead of those *******?

it's *********.com

 

[peeked_curious]

it's *********.com

for some reason the site isn't being written out. I'm sorry guys,
it's ********* dot com

 

[literal]

hahaha this is funny..can you break them up in to 3 words?

 

[SweetErika]

I guess more or less I got the wrong impression from the porn I've been watching. Cockolding as the were showing didn't involve the woman having sex with another man just the thought of having sex with another man. That is kinda hard to explain with out directing you to the porn itself. It's a Goddess Starla video. She puts a strap-on on her husband/ submissive and pretends it's her ex-boyfriend's penis and goes about having sex that way, saying things.. so on and so forth.
http://www.*********.com/Femdom-Imaginary-Cuckold/video174689/

So, in other words, the people in the vid are fantasizing about and roleplaying cuckolding.

I don't believe in bringing another person into the bedroom, so I guess maybe cockolding is not the correct relationship we're going for. Maybe I was the ignorant one in that case. I'm looking for a more D/s relationship.

Maybe D/s roleplaying or a D/s relationship with cuckolding roleplaying, humiliation, etc.

Have you checked out our BDSM forum, including the BDSM Library sticky at the top of BDSM Talk? If not, that might be a good place to start and get ideas. A BDSM checklist (there are tons of them out there, if you google it) can be immensely helpful, too, if you haven't already gone through a comprehensive one together.

Otherwise, I'm still unclear as to what you're looking for help with. D/s, Femdom, BDSM, etc. are vast areas/topics, so it'd help if you could narrow it down a bit for us.

why is this link not working? i mean what goes instead of those *******?

The word in the link has been censored by the site admins, most likely because they've had trouble with habitual spamming from that site/domain.