How to state your sexuality. . .

[KerrBear85]

I absolutely hate how websites require you to state your sexuality. As if we all fit into three neat little categories. Are you straight? Are you bi? Are you bi-curious?

Well what if you're mostly straight but you kind of like women. You wouldn't say that you are bi because you prefer guys and only play with women for the attention it provides for the men who are watching. You are not bi-curious because you've already been with a woman, so that curiosity has already been met. So do you just put straight? But isn't that kind of deceiving because you will play with women? ~sigh~ They need like "kind of bi" or something. Or even "kind of straight" for those who have the opposite sexuality, those women who prefer women but will have sex with men.

 

[cromsgirl]

I like fetlife's heteroflexible.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

i like that, heteroflexible! makes more sense than metrosexual - which i never quite understood...

where do guys who might have some bi interest, but limited to certain activities - like only be sucked off, but not reciprocating - fit? or only if with a woman present/participating?

the big challenge with multiple choice answers - "race" is another one that fails to reflect realities of peoples' mixed heritages.

 

[GS61]

Interesting.. I agree our sexuality is not that easy to but your thumb on. We like what we like and do what we are not afraid too. Deciding a special title for it is silly.

So if you are sexual good enough. Have fun and leave the labels to canned goods.

 

[Shadowann2]

Scientific reaserch has proven that no one is 100% straight, or 100% gay. Everyone falls somewhere between the two extreams. They should just have a sliding scale where you can move a marker between GAY on one side and STRAIGHT on the other, to reflect where you feel you are!

 

[coastal-boy]

I wonder who's watching this thread and going to use one of the ideas that pops up to make millions of dollars?

 

[Shadowann2]

I wonder who's watching this thread and going to use one of the ideas that pops up to make millions of dollars?

Damn! Should I edit?!

LOL

 

[bisexualsmoker]

I absolutely hate how websites require you to state your sexuality. As if we all fit into three neat little categories. Are you straight? Are you bi? Are you bi-curious?

Well what if you're mostly straight but you kind of like women. You wouldn't say that you are bi because you prefer guys and only play with women for the attention it provides for the men who are watching. You are not bi-curious because you've already been with a woman, so that curiosity has already been met. So do you just put straight? But isn't that kind of deceiving because you will play with women? ~sigh~ They need like "kind of bi" or something. Or even "kind of straight" for those who have the opposite sexuality, those women who prefer women but will have sex with men.

I agree with you. It's all fucked up!

 

[infinity706]

Scientific reaserch has proven that no one is 100% straight, or 100% gay. Everyone falls somewhere between the two extreams. They should just have a sliding scale where you can move a marker between GAY on one side and STRAIGHT on the other, to reflect where you feel you are!

Yeah, but then, you still have the couple married chicks I know that certainly like pouncing on their husband on a regular basis, but mostly lust after and fuck women. They both like to put the slider all the way over on the lesbian side of the scale.

 

[emap]

Yeah, but then, you still have the couple married chicks I know that certainly like pouncing on their husband on a regular basis, but mostly lust after and fuck women. They both like to put the slider all the way over on the lesbian side of the scale.

Of course nothing infinity says should ever be considered.

[Trout smacks Infinity]

Honestly, I don't think I've ever seen a personal site that has straight bi and bi curious only, what happened to gay?

So yeah they should have a slider, or perhaps they should drop that entirely and simply have what you want to find, what you are, three choices on that one, well really four since MTF is different from FTM. I mean really, we've so gone beyond straight and gay, we passed straight gay and bi, why the heck do we even need to put one, just simply have what we are, what we want and then well what exactly we are looking for in a person or group.

 

[cryforme1v]

good subject

I'm not entirely sure.
I consider myself straight, but i like boobies.
I have never and dont think will ever kiss a girl much less have sex with one, but i love boobies!

 

[human_male]

Scientific reaserch has proven that no one is 100% straight, or 100% gay. Everyone falls somewhere between the two extreams. They should just have a sliding scale where you can move a marker between GAY on one side and STRAIGHT on the other, to reflect where you feel you are!

I've always thought this. I don't know where I am on the scale, it seems to move around.

I cannot be quantified!

 

[human_male]

Well what if you're mostly straight but you kind of like women. You wouldn't say that you are bi because you prefer guys and only play with women for the attention it provides for the men who are watching. You are not bi-curious because you've already been with a woman, so that curiosity has already been met. So do you just put straight? But isn't that kind of deceiving because you will play with women? ~sigh~ They need like "kind of bi" or something. Or even "kind of straight" for those who have the opposite sexuality, those women who prefer women but will have sex with men.

I think in the situation of mostly prefering men but are willing to play with women for the benefit of men watching, that would most closely fit straight. Straight, and very charitable of you I must say.

You could say something in your add that you're mostly straight but will consider women under certain circumstance.

 

[infinity706]

Of course nothing infinity says should ever be considered.

[Trout smacks Infinity]

Honestly, I don't think I've ever seen a personal site that has straight bi and bi curious only, what happened to gay?

So yeah they should have a slider, or perhaps they should drop that entirely and simply have what you want to find, what you are, three choices on that one, well really four since MTF is different from FTM. I mean really, we've so gone beyond straight and gay, we passed straight gay and bi, why the heck do we even need to put one, just simply have what we are, what we want and then well what exactly we are looking for in a person or group.

Well, nothing emap says should ever be considered because she's almost as slutty as I am.

 

[albertaboy]

Where would straight but enjoying gay/bi porn fit in on the scale?

 

[jamievmvm]

I like heteroflexible too and will start using it. Of course the more interesting question is whether I am male, female, transgender or any other configuration available. No one ever asks about that. So who's curious and about what?

 

[moonriverkitten]

I like fetlife's heteroflexible.

I was super impressed with fetlife's options, heteroflexible was perfect for me! I am straight in relationships, but doesn't mean I don't sometimes want to play with girls too! hehe

Some of their other options that I don't see a lot of places (for anyone that is interested) were:

straight, heteroflexible, bisexual, homoflexible, gay, lesbian, queer, pansexual, fluctuating/evolving, asexual

Definitely a plethora of options! yay for fetlife!!

 

[infinity706]

I actually tend to like trysexual.

 

[MisterSir]

Where would straight but enjoying gay/bi porn fit in on the scale?

Not straight, for a start.

 

[Shadowann2]

I actually tend to like trysexual.

That was my "line" forever!

My fiancee was the first person I ever heard use the word, "heteroflexible," and I really like that too! It really fits some people I know!

 

[infinity706]

I don't think I can ever get away with heteroflexible when I've had sex with over 150 guys.

 

[Hoardingenergy]

I also like heteroflexible!

 

[SomecallmeTim]

heteroflexible works for me