How you became bisexual

My bi journey began with my brother. We shared a bedroom.One morning I was awakened with my dick being caressed in a most delightful way. My brother was more sexually aware than me and I always thought he may be gay. Anyway as I became more awake I realised I was fully hard and enjoying what he was doing. He stripped off and got in my bed and without much effort completed the job by me spunking all over him. It was the best wank I had experienced. I nervously reciprocated but soon warmed to the task. I had him come in no time after beginning slowly and sensitively but ending up vigorously wanking him. It awakened me to sexy new horizons that I am forever grateful to my brother for. We had many wonderful sexual encounters after that morning trying a full range of gay sex.
 
I didn’t consider the possibility of seeing other men in a sexual way until I saw The Rocky Horror Picture Show. Tim Curry in a basque was the first thing that made me want to suck cock. I didn’t actually get to suck a cock until I was about 30, but I know I’ll always love it.
 
I didn’t consider the possibility of seeing other men in a sexual way until I saw The Rocky Horror Picture Show. Tim Curry in a basque was the first thing that made me want to suck cock. I didn’t actually get to suck a cock until I was about 30, but I know I’ll always love it.
It has an actual bj scene but its looking thru a sheet to a shadow figure sucking a cock. Forgot about that
 
I think I started to question things after I stumbled upon a trans video in an adult bookstore booth in my early 20s. I also used to sneak my mom’s nylons and garter belts and also I was flexible enough to be able to suck my own cock. Didn’t consider any of that as bisexual or gay, just stuff I did to feel good.
Fast forward 20 years. Happily married. Wife and I experiment with things like plus, prostate massage and strap ons. Still sneaking lingerie (she’d kill me if she discovered that). I started to watch more bisexual, gay and trans porn on the internet and here we are.
So I guess it’s been a long progression.
 
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I think I started to question things after I stumbled upon a trans video in an adult bookstore booth in my early 20s. I also used to sneak my mom’s nylons and garter belts and also I was flexible enough to be able to suck my own cock. Didn’t consider any of that as bisexual or gay, just stuff I did to feel good.
Fast forward 20 years. Happily married. Wife and I experiment with things like plus, prostate massage and strap ons. Still sneaking lingerie (she’d kill me if she discovered that). I started watch more bisexual, gay and trans porn on the internet and here we are.
So I guess it’s been a long progression.
My best friend seduced me at 15
 
It started for me when I found a picture of 2 naked guys wrestling or as the magazine called it "cockfighting". The story that went with the picture described how they would wrestle naked, and the loser had to offer up either his mouth or ass to be taken by the winner. This got me really excited, and I was horrified that it did. I kept denying it but also kept going back to it. I think some of the hostility directed at gay men is because someone sees those tendencies in themselves and can't accept it.
 
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My bi journey began with my brother. We shared a bedroom.One morning I was awakened with my dick being caressed in a most delightful way. My brother was more sexually aware than me and I always thought he may be gay. Anyway as I became more awake I realised I was fully hard and enjoying what he was doing. He stripped off and got in my bed and without much effort completed the job by me spunking all over him. It was the best wank I had experienced. I nervously reciprocated but soon warmed to the task. I had him come in no time after beginning slowly and sensitively but ending up vigorously wanking him. It awakened me to sexy new horizons that I am forever grateful to my brother for. We had many wonderful sexual encounters after that morning trying a full range of gay sex.
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Would love to hear from others on how they became bisexual. I was straight (or thought I was) until my early sixties. I always had difficulty in maintaining an erection and ejaculating during intercourse and had to assist with my hand. When computer porn became widespread I was extremely excited watching trans porn, especially trans fucking guys. Maybe this was a tell tale sign.
I started visiting adult bookstores with gloryholes and progressed from voyeur, to having my dick sucked, to sucking cock myself, to swallowing cum, then to intercouse through the gloryhole and eventually at my home.
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It has taken many years to acknowledge the truth, but I have very strong homoerotic inclinations and curiosities, and it all began when I was in 7th-grade and I had a crush (I used that word now, in retrospect), with a beautiful 8th-grade boy. I hope this is OK to admit here
 
I wonder as my opportunity to play with a guys dick came fairly early and somehow, the desire to fondle, kiss and suck on another didn't take hold. Why?
 
It started for me when I found a picture of 2 naked guys wrestling or as the magazine called it "cockfighting". The story that went with the picture described how they would wrestle naked, and the loser had to offer up either his mouth or ass
A recurring fantasy went along these lines, the difference being that the winner was the one who successfully pinned the other and then raped him. The organizers of the event, and a majority of the audience, were women.
... I kept denying it but also kept going back to it. I think some of the hostility directed at gay men is because someone sees those tendencies in themselves and can't accept it.
Exactly this. Hence the term “Homo/phobia”— it's not gay men the person is afraid of, but the homoerotic tendencies within himself. Unable to face those fears, he becomes angry, and the anger is turned outward and focused (projected) on those who represent for him his own hidden tendencies.
 
A recurring fantasy went along these lines, the difference being that the winner was the one who successfully pinned the other and then raped him. The organizers of the event, and a majority of the audience, were women.

Exactly this. Hence the term “Homo/phobia”— it's not gay men the person is afraid of, but the homoerotic tendencies within himself. Unable to face those fears, he becomes angry, and the anger is turned outward and focused (projected) on those who represent for him his own hidden tendencies.
2nd paragraph is very well stated
 
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