Husband caught cheating

[pink]

Does anyone else want to bop this girl upside the head, besides me?

 

[pointless]

i'd prefer it if she simply bopped herself.

 

[Lancecastor]

Does anyone else want to bop this girl upside the head, besides me?

Compassion for dogs, but none for people?

 

[Saint Peter]

The dog never cheats.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

The dog never cheats.

The fucker left with my woman and truck...



Now, let's sing that song backwards so I can get all my stuff back!

 

[Lancecastor]

The dog never cheats.

They don't stalk her on the phone either, I guess.

Maybe she's been onto something all these years after all.

 

[torchthebitch]

<<<<<<<<<<<<

Or in this case "bastard".

 

[neci]

go get tested.

 

[takenmytime]

Your profile said you wanted to spice things up - I think he took you up on it. Now you can make your move and have his girlfriend come over and spice things up. They you can have a friend and then spice things up some more.
There had to be a reason you thought you had to spice things up. What did you do to spice things up before this?

I would though get documentation first so that you can do better if things don't work out that he started it ---- if he did.

 

[James65]

His cheating and why he cheats is something only he can tell you,you need to stay with him or leave...very simple choice and sitting on the fence asking strangers who know zero about you or your hubby is foolish, really don't get your feeling hurt just make a choice and go forward!
drama has no place in making a choice that will change your life forever!
And for your own sake never go into a Baskin and Robbins ice cream parlor.

 

[warrior queen]

go get tested.

^^^^^^^^^^ this.

Oh, and for the record, once a cheater, always a cheater.
My voice of bitter experience is showing.

 

[blunt_trauma]

i believe in one off mistakes.
to err is human...
but one off mistakes don't last two months.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Are threesomes and triad relationships really that difficult as an alternative? Cheating can be avoided if you really want to avoid it.

I just wanna know what porn star she looked like that made it an offer he couldn't refuse.

 

[warrior queen]

i believe in one off mistakes.
to err is human...
but one off mistakes don't last two months.

A kiss is a one-off mistake.
Actually making the decision to remove clothing for sex is not.
Unless you're at a nudist camp, in which case I agree with you.

 

[neci]

Are threesomes and triad relationships really that difficult as an alternative? Cheating can be avoided if you really want to avoid it.

I just wanna know what porn star she looked like that made it an offer he couldn't refuse.

http://www.topnews.in/files/images/Ron-Jeremy_0.jpg

 

[IrezumiKiss]

http://www.topnews.in/files/images/Ron-Jeremy_0.jpg

http://www.shiftybloke.net/gallery/Funny/lolcat/I_LOLed.jpg

 

[1sickbastard]

Do you have kids?

If not, get a divorce. You can still love him as a single lady.

If you have kids, I don't know what to tell you.

 

[renard_ruse]

Its the 21st century, what's the big deal about "cheating"?

Virtually ever other sexual activity that was traditionally considered wrong has become socially accepted or normalized, except for "cheating" and prostitution. Well, also child molestation, but that is to protect the wellbeing of children so its really a separate category.

Basically, God thinks all fornication is wrong and your husband will have to answer to God for fornication, but so will you and everyone else if they have ever fornicated before or after getting married. That's not what we're talking about in this case. We're talking about human judgementalism over "cheating", not God's standards of perfection. In short, getting so worked up over "cheating" is really just about petty jealousy more than anything else.

 

[Peregrinator]

Its the 21st century, what's the big deal about "cheating"?

Virtually ever other sexual activity that was traditionally considered wrong has become socially accepted or normalized, except for "cheating" and prostitution. Well, also child molestation, but that is to protect the wellbeing of children so its really a separate category.

Basically, God thinks all fornication is wrong and your husband will have to answer to God for fornication, but so will you and everyone else if they have ever fornicated before or after getting married. That's not what we're talking about in this case. We're talking about human judgementalism over "cheating", not God's standards of perfection. In short, getting so worked up over "cheating" is really just about petty jealousy more than anything else.

God who? Which God?

 

[BoyNextDoor]

Take him back. Fuck his friend(s). Do things with him (them) you normal deny him.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

God who? Which God?

Ganesh? Aphrodite? Pele?

 

[fgarvb1]

He's says he's sorry, that he did it because she looks like a porn star and she approached him. Which obviously makes me feel like shit! I want to be with him but I dont know where we can go from here.

OK then.

First lets think about this a bit.

He likes strange pussy and is getting some. For how long or how many we don't know, maybe he never stopped from before you two were married.

You should make it clear that you can get some sex on the side too. Have you thought about a more open relationship?

Is it the sex or trust violation the main problem?

Remember whatever you decide(and it is up to you you are well within your rights if you wish to divorce him) and can live with is OK.

You will get over the intense anger but what then?


And remember you are allowed to be a little crazy.

Peace be unto you.

 

[renard_ruse]

God who? Which God?

God.

 

[Peregrinator]

Ganesh? Aphrodite? Pele?

Why is it that people get away with saying shit like "God thinks..." and assuming that we all know which God they're talking about?