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Husbands - Who would you like to see have sex with your wife?

Please Explain it to Me

I’m sorry, I just don’t get it. Can someone please explain to me why they get sexually aroused by watching their wife having sex with another man? I admit it, I’m insecure and the jealous type. I’d love to see my wife seduced by another woman or seduce another woman. That would really turn me on. But having sex with another man? That’s something I don’t want to see unless it’s me doing it. I’m looking forward to your answers, please help me understand the appeal.
 
Gosh, this is a tricky question to answer. Apart from the rush of watching real people – real people whom you know – fucking, my pleasure would require that my wife was fucking someone whom she wanted to fuck. So I put that question to her. Who would she like to fuck – or, possibly, fuck again? And she said that she was probably past all that. Which brings me back to where I started: I just don’t know. :)
 
Multiple guys all making sure they cum inside her, Or.....one guy with a much bigger cock than me intensely fucking her in front of me until she simply can't take anymore orgasms
 
PleasePeesMe said:
I don't get it either.
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No point in asking here. I've tried, and yea some have tried to explain it but I guess its gotta be something you're into first and then 'discover'. I've always been the Bull in such situations, so its obvious what I'm getting out of the deal.
 
She is actually setting up something with a guy she used to work with. I would enjoy watching them together. He is younger and has a big cock. They have never had sex with each other, but have done some "fooling around."
 
ICraveCock said:
I’m sorry, I just don’t get it. Can someone please explain to me why they get sexually aroused by watching their wife having sex with another man? I admit it, I’m insecure and the jealous type. I’d love to see my wife seduced by another woman or seduce another woman. That would really turn me on. But having sex with another man? That’s something I don’t want to see unless it’s me doing it. I’m looking forward to your answers, please help me understand the appeal.
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It's no big deal that you don't get it or want it . A person either does or he doesn't . As you've described yourself as " insecure and the jealous type " it'll probably never be for you . I wouldn't sweat it if I were you .
 
Watching my wife enjoy herself and be completely satisfied is my fantasy. For her its the possibility of something new, different, or exciting. For both of us it may just remain a fantasy, but its exciting nonetheless.
 
curiouschattycouple said:
Watching my wife enjoy herself and be completely satisfied is my fantasy. For her its the possibility of something new, different, or exciting. For both of us it may just remain a fantasy, but its exciting nonetheless.
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You never know . It could happen out of the blue .
 
Like zoso said, it’s likely not for you if someone has to explain it due to your self described nature. However, like in many other fantasy settings, there are a plethora of stimuli one may find enjoyable or find pleasure (either for themselves or for their partner). Not that it’s all inclusive but in this typical scenario you have several basic dynamics from the male prospective.
1) the Cuckold - which is mostly a voyeur who also may receive enjoyment from being humiliated or insulted by his wife/partner having sex with another. This may stem from a sadistic tendency for belittlement or confirmed inferiority to the “bull” and/or the partner as a form of release from emotional, psychological or otherwise physical demeanor. (such as SPH - small penis humiliation) This scenario may also be for the partner to play a more dominant role and invoke a power dynamic which may or may not be necessarily “linked” with BDSM.
2) the Stag/Vixen Dynamic - where the Male partner is not an object of humiliation but rather prefers and obtains pleasure to see their partner enjoy any, many or all sources of enjoyment because they RECEIVE enjoyment in “seeing” their partner being pleasured and enjoying themselves sexually either with someone else (as a voyeur alone) OR by also taking part to contribute to their partners sexual satisfaction which they typically can’t do by themselves! (IE, Double Penetration, Spit Roasting, etc - without “pretending/role playing” with a dildo or other phallus apparatus.) This dynamic is mostly from a giving aspect since the vixen is the focus and everyone else (Stag/bull(s)) derive enjoyment from the Vixens pleasure and sexual fulfillment.
3) Pure Voyeurism - This is simply watching real life porn with someone they know and are very familiar.

The emotional, psychological and sexual derivatives from each scenario creates an exponential amount of additional entanglements because of the introduction of other people (who have needs as well). IE, Jharp who typically likes the role of “bull” and may or may not cater to the multiple scenarios above due to their own personal sexual interests.

Not intending to be so clinical, but don’t sweat it if it’s not your dynamic AND especially don’t judge others just because you don’t understand it or don’t “get” anything from it because of your insecure and jealous tendencies.

Find what works for you (and your partner) and have at it! But to elaborate slightly further, I’m guessing you’ve never even broached the subject with YOUR partner because of said tendencies. Unless you communicate (and your partner in return reciprocates) you may NEVER have a fulfilling experience.

In short, ask your partner! Suggest things that you wouldn’t even agree to, in order to know what is THEIR sexual motivation or fulfillment. You never know until you ask…You never understand until you listen…You never experience until you do it!

It likely doesn’t make sense to you but to others on this thread, I’m certain several chords have been resonated.

Yoda out!
(Do or do not! There is no try!)
 
Bumped. If your wifey is going to have a hot Saturday night with another person, who would you like it to be?
 
Anyone with a really thick cock. Im only 6.5 inches but im girthy, watching her struggle to accommodate and then cum on me is amazing, so to see her do that with another guy would be a dream
 
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Jcam1980s said:
Anyone with a really thick cock. Im only 6.5 inches butbim girthy, watching her strughle to accommodate and then cum on me is amazing, so to see her do that with another guy would be a dream
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Mmm yes! My wife’s current isn’t porn star huge. But he’s really got going on in the cock dept. Her first lover in the lifestyle was fucking hung though!
 
Nick0311 said:
Honestly whoever she wants. If she finds a guy she's attracted to and I get along with him, then have at it!
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Happy Sunday! We have our minor boundaries, but basically this is the same idea my wife and I have. She knows that when she meets a guy she likes, she has my approval to get naked and nasty with him.
 
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