Spouse/SO admits a secret fantasy—did you love it or hate it?

I wonder if she actually does have a fantasy, but thinks it's so shocking that you'd be shocked or disgusted; 'I want to be (gently) raped by a (freshly showered, muscular, oiled) motorcycle gang!'... Or could be a sexually repressive upbringing- just guessing here, but maybe try a counselor for either or both.
Thanks
I believe a sexually repressive upbringing and probably a lesbian fantasy or a history of lesbian want but because of the upbringing can’t let that be expressed or even acknowledged
 
So my very conservative and somewhat prudish wife were playing one of those card games for couples and the card “Share a secret fantasy” got drawn from the stack. Now, my wife is very self conscious and very tame these days, but in the last (before kids) has let loose a few times. So to get her talk about sex topics and fantasies…it’s extremely rare and difficult to get her to open up. So it was her turn and she tells me that she’s fantasized about bringing another woman into our bed. 😳 that’s just the beginning. She continues hinting that she’d want to play with herself while watching me and this mystery woman go at it. Wtf?! Now I’m getting hard. Lol! I asked her, “you get turned on thinking about me messing around with another woman right here in our bed next to you while you touch yourself watching us??”
“Well I’d join in after a bit, but yes.”
Holy shit! Told her that’s the sexiest thing I’ve heard her say and that she had gotten me super hard. I pushed my luck a little further and told her how hot it would be if she directed our play by telling us what to do to/with each other while she watched. Suck him here, lick her there, fuck her harder, etc etc. She said “yeah, that’d be fun.” My wife said this. Crazytown. It will never happen in real life, but so super sexy to talk about.

So my question to you people of Lit…has your spouse or SO every disclosed a fantasy to you and how did you receive it? Did it turn you on? Turn off? Did you share your fantasy with them and what was their reaction? (Side note: my disclosure of fantasies with her have not always gone this well. 😳🤣)
What my wife has admitted to I love it. There's been quite a few confessions in the last 10 years. We carried through with those fantasies as she did for me. I fuck her friends. Her 25 year old son told me to go after his ex girlfriend because he knew I thought she was sexy. I wouldn't ever do it if he wouldn't have told me to. She's a little whore and we talked and she's agreed to have sex with me and my wife. We don't have a date yet but it's on.
 
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What my wife has admitted to I love it. There's been quite a few confessions in the last 10 years. We carried threw with those fantasies as she did for me. I fuck her friends. Her 25 year old son told me to go after his ex girlfriend because he knew I thought she was sexy. I wouldn't ever do it if he wouldn't have told me to. She's a little whore and we talked and she's agreed to have sex with me and my wife. We don't have a date yet but it's on.
Weirdly hot!
 
What my wife has admitted to I love it. There's been quite a few confessions in the last 10 years. We carried through with those fantasies as she did for me. I fuck her friends. Her 25 year old son told me to go after his ex girlfriend because he knew I thought she was sexy. I wouldn't ever do it if he wouldn't have told me to. She's a little whore and we talked and she's agreed to have sex with me and my wife. We don't have a date yet but it's on.
I hope you keep us updated 🙏🏼💪🏻
 
Yes… with one guy that I dated for a long while, hearing about his secret fantasies was my favorite thing (and lucky for me he had a lot:)). The intimacy of him feeling comfortable enough with me to be vulnerable, and admitting to increasingly kinky fantasies and desires and experiences.. so intoxicating for me!
 
You just said a lot there. My wife said I make it easier for her to tell me her fantasies. More people than not that I know I don't have a problem telling them what I like though. But if a person can make it easier for you to communicate and your relationship stays in fact that's accomplishment. I've known my wife since 2003 though. I knew she was a bit of a sex fantasy freak well before we even started dating to so there is that. Hell I lived right next door to her older sister in 2003 and my wife which was just a friend then would come over to mine and my roommate's place with her husband. They came over one night and she was hitting on me and my roommate right in front of her husband who she has the 25 year old son with. My roommate and I went to the kitchen and we were discussing how to handle it. You could tell her husband was mad but he's not a violent person. I told my roommate, Marc if she hits on us one more time I say we grabbed one of her arms and tell Matt, her husband to leave. She didn't do it again when we returned to the living room. Because if she did I was going to lead her straight to the bed and March and I was going to get her from behind and front at the same time then switch ends. We planned it out. I told her what I was going to do if she would have hit on us again the very next time I seen her. She said you should have done it anyway. She said I would have fucked both of you. She was having problems with her husband at that time. I do believe she actually would have too. That's how well I know my wife. She doesn't pull that shit with me though. Like I said. We don't screw around on each other. We both plan it and agree on it. And we make sure we now know anyone else we bring into that circle.
 
An early boyfriend (one of several boys I was seeing) confessed that his ‘fantasy’ was to FaceTime his best buddy while we were having sex.

I’d already done plenty of videos and photos by then, but the idea of live-streaming it all seemed pretty hot. (Oh my naïveté!🤦‍♀️)

So I let him set up his little iPhone stand and we’d do it for his ‘friend’, who was supposedly stuck at home horny and sick with cancer. We were both at school, of course, so we’d sneak off for quickies. Kincaid has a huge campus so there were always empty rooms and discreet bushes.

(Us hard at work in the pool changing room 🤭: https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME1ANW9G.)

After a few days of this, it occurred to me that his voyeuristic ‘friend’ was actually a bunch of older guys paying to watch him fuck a pretty girl at school.🤬

Needless to say, I broke it off straight away. But the commercial aspect really piqued my interest. I realised that I very, very much liked the idea of having sex for a paying audience. It wasn’t long before I was streaming on Snap and Omegle and bringing in some serious cash.

EDIT: By request, another shot from that week - backdoor backstage in the Kincaid student theater https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME1ANXL7.
 
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Nothing is going on my asshole. 😂 Unless it's a colonoscopy tube and camera.
While I think I understand your reluctance, you should know (if you don't know already), that those delicious spasms you experience during climax are caused by contractions of your prostate gland... If, when you're on the verge of cumming, you allow your SO to insert a WELL-LUBED finger & massages your prostate, the strength of the climax will make you feel like you've gone to heaven! (& I promise it won't make you gay!)
 
While I think I understand your reluctance, you should know (if you don't know already), that those delicious spasms you experience during climax are caused by contractions of your prostate gland... If, when you're on the verge of cumming, you allow your SO to insert a WELL-LUBED finger & massages your prostate, the strength of the climax will make you feel like you've gone to heaven! (& I promise it won't make you gay!)
It’s feels so good
 
An ex of mine,whilst having sex, told me that she wanted to try pissing on me. She was amazingly beautiful, I was punching above my weight. I had never even thought about it before and the idea didn't really do anything for me but I walked to the bathroom with her and got in the bath. She stood over me and started to let her hot piss squirt out over my face, into my mouth and down my body. It was a turn-on slightly at the time, but she got embarrassed and thought I didn't enjoy it but I found myself thinking about how hot it was afterwards and would get so hard thinking about it. I kept thinking about it and so next time we met I reversed the roles and watched her have hot piss pouring into her mouth, over her face and down her petite Swedish body. I would love to enjoy that feeling again.....
So sexy to think about
 
While I think I understand your reluctance, you should know (if you don't know already), that those delicious spasms you experience during climax are caused by contractions of your prostate gland... If, when you're on the verge of cumming, you allow your SO to insert a WELL-LUBED finger & massages your prostate, the strength of the climax will make you feel like you've gone to heaven! (& I promise it won't make you gay!)
Would be wonderful to experience with you
 
Ex loved playing" who would you fuck and why"...hot!
This is hot! Would you stick to celebrities and famous people or was it open to anyone? To talk about people you know or are close to could be problematic, at least for my wife. Lol! A very different reaction if I say ‘Scarlett Johansson because her great boobs and ass’ vs saying ‘your friend Katie because of her magnificent tits and wicked smile’. Lol!! First one is just fantasy but with someone you both know and have contact with….that would get me in a lot of trouble. Yes, it would be hot to talk about people you both know, but too much trouble. 😆😆
 
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