SilverFox300
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- Dec 7, 2005
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Caution! Here's some ideas that I hope will help.
Dear Sin,
Please read this message from me with your man at your side. Don't read further - get him first!
Sin's man, tell Sin what you've done to her that you're not proud of and then tell her what you've kept secret from her. Keep doing this, back and forth, both of you, until you both feel good about each other. No doubt, this takes a lot of guts - do you have them? Do you really want her? to be with her? to love her?
If you do, you've got to get rid of your own withdrawal and attempts to make her smaller - you'd only want to do that to make something you've done against her look OK. See what I mean?
Think about it. What are you doing? What's the purpose of your abuse? What do you think you or anyone else is going to GAIN from being trash-mouthed to the gal that's trying to live with you and still is willing to have sex with you?
Start recognizing you've got a gem and treasure her! Stop abusing her or anyone else, including yourself.
You DO reap what you sow, so start sowing seeds, not shit! Unless all you want out of life is shit...
OK, 'nough said! I know you've got something she likes, so cultivate it. Get her to tell you what she likes and do it!
If you don't do something like this, the rift between you will only grow.
All the best to both of you - I love you both.
SilverFox300
sinnamongyrl said:
Dear Sin,
Please read this message from me with your man at your side. Don't read further - get him first!
Sin's man, tell Sin what you've done to her that you're not proud of and then tell her what you've kept secret from her. Keep doing this, back and forth, both of you, until you both feel good about each other. No doubt, this takes a lot of guts - do you have them? Do you really want her? to be with her? to love her?
If you do, you've got to get rid of your own withdrawal and attempts to make her smaller - you'd only want to do that to make something you've done against her look OK. See what I mean?
Think about it. What are you doing? What's the purpose of your abuse? What do you think you or anyone else is going to GAIN from being trash-mouthed to the gal that's trying to live with you and still is willing to have sex with you?
Start recognizing you've got a gem and treasure her! Stop abusing her or anyone else, including yourself.
You DO reap what you sow, so start sowing seeds, not shit! Unless all you want out of life is shit...
OK, 'nough said! I know you've got something she likes, so cultivate it. Get her to tell you what she likes and do it!
If you don't do something like this, the rift between you will only grow.
All the best to both of you - I love you both.
SilverFox300
