I didn't answer your p.m. because.....

Yes, this.

Or because I may have time to read, but not necessarily engage right now.

Related noob question: If you get a PM from a guy, and you can tell by pic/profile/posts that you aren't interested, is it more polite to just ignore it, or to respond "sorry, you're not my type?" Which would guys prefer?
Not that I randomly PM women...but it is always polite to reply. Of course there are cases of vile dirty and nasty uninvited PM's that do not deserve a reply
 
Related noob question: If you get a PM from a guy, and you can tell by pic/profile/posts that you aren't interested, is it more polite to just ignore it, or to respond "sorry, you're not my type?" Which would guys prefer?
I believe that the received wisdom is that you don't owe anyone a reply, but that it's polite to reply to a thoughtful message, even if it's to say "no, thanks". If you've obviously just received a copy-and-paste message, though, or if the author clearly hasn't even bothered to check out your profile before sending, then I'd suggest that you save your energy. It might only take a small effort for you to reply to each one, but that becomes a huge drain when multiplied by the number of spammy messages.
.
 
Serious answer- I get busy and forget....if you sent me something I swear I will get back to you eventually. Mad cow.....

Snarky answer- I forgot on purpose.
 
D(.)(.)

Either me or my husband answer every PM we get when we have time. Some are for me and others for him. Even if he answers I try to get back if it's personal. We have no secrets so if you ask me things he will know.
I don't think his guns are loaded or his knives very sharp!
We do have a life outside Lit.
Some PM's are crude and short. Your answers will probably be the same.
We're here for fun and to learn. When we were younger we didn't use all of these codes. If a man wanted to see my boobs he'd just ask.
 
...because you did one of three things:

Pissed me off.
Made me roll my eyes.
Or made me consider switching teams.

And there's also the sometimer's thing that kicks in... aka being overwhelmed and short on time. :)

Honestly though, I get to most of them. :heart:
 
Pm's

I don't have the problem of a busy inbox, to the ones I send and don't get a reply it's case of 'whatever' frankly
 
Your message was 2 words, your profile is blank, and your only posts consist of you commenting "hot."

Not enough information to go on.
 
Yes, this.

Or because I may have time to read, but not necessarily engage right now.

Related noob question: If you get a PM from a guy, and you can tell by pic/profile/posts that you aren't interested, is it more polite to just ignore it, or to respond "sorry, you're not my type?" Which would guys prefer?

I prefer women to lie to me and tell me they want me, but because of scheduled surgery, they aren't available for the next month or so. That way, I feel wanted while the woman still gets to ensure I leave her alone. A win-win.
 
I probably had a great reason but since I've deleted it and don't remember who you are...does it really matter why?
 
I accidentally fell in to a volcano while I was hiking.

The repo men were at the door to take away our luv trailer.

"F*cking Keyboard"

I meant to type that my beard was in the way so I thought I hit submit...but we both know I don't do that :)
 
The repo men were at the door to take away our luv trailer.

"F*cking Keyboard"

I meant to type that my beard was in the way so I thought I hit submit...but we both know I don't do that :)

I didn't want to interrupt you and your girlfriend...you looked very busy with each other.
 
I was busy writing on this thread about why I didn't answer it, and then ran out of time and couldn't answer it.
 
I didn't want to interrupt you and your girlfriend...you looked very busy with each other.

Well you know Thursdays are for lipstick swatching. Very serious business.

Have you finished cataloging Mr. Tenants dick pics yet? Oh! Reminds me, I forgot to buy more disposable gloves.
 
Well you know Thursdays are for lipstick swatching. Very serious business.

Have you finished cataloging Mr. Tenants dick pics yet? Oh! Reminds me, I forgot to buy more disposable gloves.

I was out buying more socks...chat later?
 
Back
Top