i have a masturbation question?

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[SweetErika]

How do you enjoy masturbation now?

I'd imagine you've already figured this out if you're old enough to be here.

Regardless, the answers are the same as the nearly identical thread you posted on sex: make enjoying the journey your destination and focus on stimulating your mind.

 

[subwannabe]

Can you get hard? I'm trying to figure out exactly what your problem is. Is it just a matter of mechanics? For example, you get hard and horny but due to your medical condition, you just can't do anything about it? Ejaculation and orgasm are basically two different words for the same thing, so you really only have one problem. If its a mechanics problem I don't really know how to help you unless, errr, you have someone help you. I don't really think it sounds like a physical problem, other than if you can't do it, you can't do it. I'm assuming that if you can get hard, you can have an orgasm if properly stimulated. I can't help but wonder if this is just more of an ego problem. Maybe you aren't really interested but maybe due to peer pressure (mostly from yourself) you just feel like this is some kind of goal that needs to be accomplished, whether you really want to or not. If that is the case, I wouldn't heap that kind of pressure on yourself. There is no law that says in order to be a man you have to be able to ejaculate.