i have a sex question

[Guest]

Dear Literotica Forum I have a sex question, I was born with a severe spinal cord disability and do to this disability i am not able to ejaculate and i am not able to have an orgasm. Since i am not able to do these two things how can i enjoy sex? sincerely and respectfully mg357

 

[DarkBee]

By first realizing that sex isn't all about the orgasm.

 

[pimpette_f]

By first realizing that sex isn't all about the orgasm.

WELL SAID! I have had lovers where I didn't get off and they said that they felt like a failure. I looked at them and said, "Just because I didn't get off doesn't mean I didn't enjoy myself!" It's all about connection and being sooooooo close to someone.

 

[NomadLady]

By first realizing that sex isn't all about the orgasm.

WELL SAID! I have had lovers where I didn't get off and they said that they felt like a failure. I looked at them and said, "Just because I didn't get off doesn't mean I didn't enjoy myself!" It's all about connection and being sooooooo close to someone.

Ditto the above sentiments....it's not about the finale...it's about the whole experience before in my book...

 

[JackVettriano]

Giving pleasure can be as rewarding.

For one reason or another, when you are stressed or have things on your mind, I dont always get to the finish line, every time. I can tell you though that some of my most memorable experiances have been when I have given a girl a time to remember. Watching listening to her reaction learning more about what works for your partiner is a real turn on and very exciting without having an orgasm.

I baught a girl a vibrator once and was terified if she would like it or hate me for buying it. I was also worried she might like it to much. We had a great time I learned a lot about how to please her and she learned a lot about herself. I will never forget that mind blowing day but I never had an orgasm but it was still such a thrill.

Sex is the one time taking part is what realy counts, not winning the race.

This is only my opinion but I hoe it helps.

 

[old_scratch]

Dear Literotica Forum I have a sex question, I was born with a severe spinal cord disability and do to this disability i am not able to ejaculate and i am not able to have an orgasm. Since i am not able to do these two things how can i enjoy sex? sincerely and respectfully mg357

While the physical stimulation of sex is great, it is more about the emotional connection with your partner. Regardless of whether a couple orgasms or ejaculates, the emotional closeness is the most fulfilling part of the relationship.

 

[bumlicker]

you can watch

you can watch me bang your wife

 

[sunandshadow]

Some people find the smell and taste of a partner almost orgasmic by itself. Similarly, listening to a partner pant, moan, beg, etc. You may also be able to experience physical pleasure through your nipples, neck, back, and mouth if the spinal damage is low enough to not affect those.