I Need To Forget Him

[Chicklet]

Thank you.

I'm just angry, mad, sad, hurt, crushed, lost....

my behavior probably proves his point


pet

omg i know this feeling.

comfort in your direction, beer in the fridge.

 

[the_pet]

I actually feel a little bit better about it all now. I'm so glad i posted. Everyone's comments made a huge impact on how i feel about this now. The facts are still the same but i've made a definite shift in perception. Thanks so much for picking me up and brushing me off


(the ice cream and the chocolate didn't hurt either)

http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o180/onesilentfeather/leash.jpg

pet


.... and everytime i've thought of him i imagine a pair of scissors cutting the leash and his piece falling limp in his hand....
Sir Winston was right.... i don't need to forget this, i need to remember this

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I actually feel a little bit better about it all now. I'm so glad i posted. Everyone's comments made a huge impact on how i feel about this now. The facts are still the same but i've made a definite shift in perception. Thanks so much for picking me up and brushing me off

(the ice cream and the chocolate didn't hurt either)

.... and everytime i've thought of him i imagine a pair of scissors cutting the leash and his piece falling limp in his hand....
Sir Winston was right.... i don't need to forget this, i need to remember this

I am glad to hear you're feeling a bit better about it; however, it may come crashing back down at you again when you least expect it. The process of grieving doesn't usually follow a completely set pattern of discrete steps - often it's two steps forward, one and a half back, one forward, one and a half back, two forward, one back, etc. The thing to keep hold of in those times, if they come, is that you are a strong person and you have a support network willing and able to help you pick yourself off and brush yourself off.

We didn't do that - we just put out a hand. You took the hand, pulled yourself up, doffed your hat, and swatted the dust off the seat of your britches. And guess what? If you stumble, that hand will be there again, and you'll take it again, and you will get past this, as painful as it might be. There will likely always be some pain associated with the memories of this time, but it will ease, and there will come a time when you can look back at it and say, "Yes, it hurt, but I learned from it, and because of it, I am a better, stronger person."