none2_none2
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...A real lesbian doesn't magically decide to be a lesbian because she's had bad experiences with men. She's a lesbian because she's attracted to women and women only...
I don't like labels period, but they make life easier for other's so we tend to rely on them. As someone who for simplicity should best be labeled a gay man, I don't get this "only attracted" part. It almost harkens back to the old race ideals where one drop of black ancestry meant you were black.
While I wouldn't want a partner who couldn't make up his mind who he wanted to be with, I wouldn't feel any less hurt if he wanted other men or other women. I cannot complete with anybody else but myself. Just like I cannot grow a breast/vagina if that is what a partner wants; I cannot change a lot of things. If a parter wants someone younger, older, taller, shorter, stockier, skinner, hairier, smoother, etc, I simply cannot be someone other than who I am.