I want to approach a man at a bar...

[ash423]

Be proud HT peeps! I successfully got three numbers, a few drinks, a few invites to parties, and even took someone home. Last night was just the confidence boost I needed!

 

[klippert]

Be proud HT peeps! I successfully got three numbers, a few drinks, a few invites to parties, and even took someone home. Last night was just the confidence boost I needed!

Please do kiss and tell... this is Literotica after all...

 

[Tmmldr]

Be proud HT peeps! I successfully got three numbers, a few drinks, a few invites to parties, and even took someone home. Last night was just the confidence boost I needed!

Stick with the confidence, stay away from confidence games.

 

[travelboy]

just sit down - say hi my name is x... would love to just have a chat!

people are people. we all like chatting. the more basic and HONEST the intro the better.

I pick up everywhere just being natural and honest.

 

[shadowheaven]

See what confidence can do for you! WTG!!!

 

[ash423]

Haha confidence... And a few drinks lol.

 

[shadowheaven]

Gotta have the drinks! I am the same way. Even though married I get nervous when someone approaches me. I find it easier with a drink in hand!

 

[Tmmldr]

I always did better with two drinks in hand.

Pretty soon a nice girl would do me the favor of taking one off my hands.

Now, if a girl tried that....

 

[Somehowyou]

Not every man wants a tall blonde so just own it and work what you have. The happier and more you put out there, the more you will get in return.

I want a tall blond but I will settle especially if I know you will put out...that's the take away here.

How about working on some pick up lines....Hmmmmm? what is an effective pick up line for a woman to use on a man?

"Lets go"

That one would work if you were trying to pick me up.

 

[ash423]

Haha settling is not something I need to hear, even if its true.

 

[infinity706]

I don't know about settling. There's quite a few guys that prefer "less breakable" women. That's how one of my brothers put it. Of course, none of the 3 married skinny chicks and I don't remember any of them ever dating one.

I don't really care, though. Skinnier women tend to be more energetic and flexible, but the bigger women are so soft and nice to cuddle up with. I really like a variety. Of course, I'd prefer if there were more variety at strip clubs, too. Sure, a 250 pound woman probably can't spin around a pole, but the men and women that would like to fuck her wouldn't really expect it, anyway.

 

[Somehowyou]

Haha settling is not something I need to hear, even if its true.

Without knowing how overweight you are it is hard to say. I will say that it seems to me that most woman believe they are fat and it just isn't true. They do not give themselves enough credit. The waifishly thin model does little for me. But remember, you have to love yourself first. If you are grossly overweight and it makes you uncomfortable there is only one thing to do. Diet and excercise.

As far as the setteling comment, we all settle in life. For example, Megan Fox still refuses to date me and she will not return my calls. So I have set my expectations to be much more practicle.

There are very few woman that go out on a Friday night with the idea that they are going to get laid and strike out. This is certainly not true for men.

Good luck

 

[Somehowyou]

Be proud HT peeps! I successfully got three numbers, a few drinks, a few invites to parties, and even took someone home. Last night was just the confidence boost I needed!

I just read this. Good to hear!

 

[Ex Princess]

Be proud HT peeps! I successfully got three numbers, a few drinks, a few invites to parties, and even took someone home. Last night was just the confidence boost I needed!

Congrats! Keep up the good work and stay positive. Meeting men is always exciting and fun.

 

[ash423]

Ok guys. Vegas is coming up this weekend... Any suggestions? I am going with two amazing girlfriends, both tall skinny gals. Any advice?