IDK or WTF is it with trying to have some MM or maybe MMF fun

I am not talking about hanging out or falling in love or something crazy. I have talked to a few guys and prob could have had a meet up or some cock sucking fun. Prob him doing me, and I am also bi curious so I am open for a few hours of playtime. BUT...BUT from what I have read on here it seems most encounters are just gonna be a quick BJ, him sucking me, and whoosh he will shoot home ASAP. OR...I get a jackhammer face fuck and he runs home to wife. What I am trying to say is what is so hard about making a casual male friend for once in a while sexy get togethers. We don't have to be best pals. I dont want to be best pals. Just a FWB. I am just gonna keep it a wild fantasy in my head. Sorry for venting. Lastly, trying the glory hole is out for me -- why risk getting a disease?
Not my experience …here was my first time…
https://www.literotica.com/s/first-time-sex-with-a-man
 
Same here. And mutual fun. I feel vers/top but the biggest fantasies are when everyone is enjoying everyone in equal measures. Oral for sure, I've done that. I think I would like it to be fucked. And feeling the shape of an ass against me when I'm fucking is amazing so I am pretty sure I'm going to enjoy fucking him as well.
yes all have fun. I would give oral to both of them. I want her to watch me and her man make out and suck each others cocks.
 
I still love pussy but sucking a man s cock is sooo hot. I enjoy giving a man pleasure. I love to swallow too.
Same…but I’ve also enjoyed swallowing cum from a guys cock, feeling it ejaculating into my ass, felt it running over my fingers when we both came from frothing, and had it sprayed over his a guys wife’s face and mine while she and I were kissing
 
I am not talking about hanging out or falling in love or something crazy. I have talked to a few guys and prob could have had a meet up or some cock sucking fun. Prob him doing me, and I am also bi curious so I am open for a few hours of playtime. BUT...BUT from what I have read on here it seems most encounters are just gonna be a quick BJ, him sucking me, and whoosh he will shoot home ASAP. OR...I get a jackhammer face fuck and he runs home to wife. What I am trying to say is what is so hard about making a casual male friend for once in a while sexy get togethers. We don't have to be best pals. I dont want to be best pals. Just a FWB. I am just gonna keep it a wild fantasy in my head. Sorry for venting. Lastly, trying the glory hole is out for me -- why risk getting a disease?
Know exactly how you feel, I have the same desire to find a guy who thinks like you and I.
 
I have a FWB that I hang out after with. I had prostate surgery so can’t have an erection (maybe in 2 years).

I go over and make out before sucking him off. If he’s up to it, he’ll fuck me too. His size feels perfect for my ass.

He said he has a friend he can introduce me to, but I want to get on prep and doxy first
 
I have a FWB that I hang out after with. I had prostate surgery so can’t have an erection (maybe in 2 years).

I go over and make out before sucking him off. If he’s up to it, he’ll fuck me too. His size feels perfect for my ass.

He said he has a friend he can introduce me to, but I want to get on prep and doxy first

I had insomnia last night, so I got on Lit. I happened upon your posts and read them. You may not feel such right now, but is so commendable that your honored your wife's wish for monogamy for 30 years. While you may not be a young man, having repressed the male attraction part of your sexuality for so long has released so many possibilities that the sexuality part of your brain is like that of a late teen's early twenties young man want to experience as much as possible on what you missed out on. I have seen that in a few people in similar positions. You show a lot of maturity in wanting to make sure you get on things like prep to protect yourself. You also seem to do well on accepting the hand your were dealt. ED sucks!!! I've dealt with it for a very long time due to my diabetes, heart issues, etc. I'm a 1959 model, so I'm probably older than you by a few...

For myself, I come from the opposite end of the spectrum. I always wanted just one guy to settle down with. It didn't happen until late in life. I've been with my guy for over 23 years now. I had many partners before him. It wasn't the life I wanted, but I had a very high sex drive and there was no one who really wanted to settle down with me. I think for me, I was always a loner that fact I think is even more so why I wanted just one man to come home to. For me, I find my relationship to be one of those things were I have fallen in love with him over and over again as special moments came up over the years. One of the most special moments was back in 2018 when I almost died from West Nile. I was in the hospital for 5 weeks and it was rather touch and go. When I finally woke up after about two weeks, there was my handsome, hairy, muscular, manily man crying over my hospital bed. He had taken a leave of absence to be at my side. He only went home to sleep, and take care of our pets and farm animals. It was a conflicting time for him as at the same time his mother was dealing with cancer. However, he realized that he is all I have in this world as my dad (who I was rather estranged from anyway had died 10 years prior, my mother who had her own problems had died a year prior, a grandmother who I had kept in touch with had died 12 years prior, and the grandmother who had raised me and loved me from the day of my birth had died 15 years prior.) Up until West Nile, I had kind of a warped concept of the sexes that women were like Virgin Mary's who if they accepted you as one of their own, would love you unconditionally, whereas men were so hot to have sex with, but either they would die on you one day (like my grandpa) or you would have to constantly earn their love and share them with whomever else caught their fancy at the moment -- so a man's love was like a time-share home.

My partner shattered that myth. We have our ups and downs, but man I love my guy. I love that he is the first person I see in the morning, and the last person I see when I go to bed. I love how I have to smell his bath towel multiple times to make sure I need to wash it as the man I swear has so little body odor. When in his sleep he will throw his leg over mine or his hand on my belly I wake up with an erotic buzz and wish to God I could have an erection work so that I could slip inside him and be one with him once again. I we kiss every time one of us leaves the house (except times like this when we have colds), and the last thing I see when he walks out the door is that wonderful ass. It is just too bad that two men cannot create life because if it were possible I would have kept him bare assed and pregnant.

Gay physical sex can be so very hot, but finding a man to love and be loved by is the closest thing to the divine. If I could have my erections back, but only on the condition that I get with other men for sex, I'd decline. For me, my erections in the long run always followed my heart, and it just wouldn't be as enjoyable except with my guy.

PS: I don't like terms like fag or even queer at all. Regardless, I think your son-in-law sounds like a prude. If you and your daughter have a good relationship, I don't know why he would have a legitimate reason to gripe -- unless there are children around hearing those terms.
 
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None2_None2 your statement above is absolutely beautiful and commendable. Thanks for sharing. Out of bad, your hospitalization with West Nile virus, came a ton of good, you're realization of what love is all about. I am so happy for you to have a man to wake up to and to have experienced the stability of a loving relationship. It is what I think we all seek but so few, especially gay men, rarely find. BTW, you're a great model year!
 
I am not talking about hanging out or falling in love or something crazy. I have talked to a few guys and prob could have had a meet up or some cock sucking fun. Prob him doing me, and I am also bi curious so I am open for a few hours of playtime. BUT...BUT from what I have read on here it seems most encounters are just gonna be a quick BJ, him sucking me, and whoosh he will shoot home ASAP. OR...I get a jackhammer face fuck and he runs home to wife. What I am trying to say is what is so hard about making a casual male friend for once in a while sexy get togethers. We don't have to be best pals. I dont want to be best pals. Just a FWB. I am just gonna keep it a wild fantasy in my head. Sorry for venting. Lastly, trying the glory hole is out for me -- why risk getting a disease?
I had a buddy who I sucked for over 20 years until he moved away, now I just play with my own cock
 
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