I'm Lonely >< But I'm Picky! ><

[Chicklet]

I'm frustrated today because this guy I like came into my restaurant.

He asked me out at work one night and I said yes, and after he made two dates with me and canceled both, we finally ended up having breakfast together. I thought it went great. I have a really really hard time reading other peoples behavior and feelings, so I dno't really know exactly what he thought of me... he smiled, and made comments about a next time. So I took that as a good sign.

We went out for dinner about a week later, after he canceled another date again. The restaurant was really loud, but I talked anyways, practically shouting. He said nothing. NOTHING. The whole time he hardly said two words! wtf? Then he said he'd like to chat via text message, and never responded to my texts the next couple of days.

So, I assume he doesn't like me. Then he comes into my restaurant today. Alone. And takes a table where he can see me in the kitchen... so I come over to him, he hardly says anything again, and leaves without really saying goodbye. But if he didn't like me would he bother coming into the restaurant?

All I can assume is that he's as socially stunted as I am.

(for anyone wondering, he has NO piercings, NO tattoos, actually dresses formal/casual, and is studying Law wtf... also, I have a feeling that if I ever got him into my room, he'd get all excited by the whips until he realized I don't know how to use them.)

 

[Chicklet]

I'm going to continue the rant!

My ex sent me a picture of his dick yesterday >< and flirted with me all afternoon until I gave in and requested sexual intimacy heh...

"Sorry, I'm busy this weekend."

<3 sadists. </3 assholes.

 

[Chicklet]

AMEN SISTAH'

ps

ammre,

if you were male

and a top

and lived on the opposite coast...

i'd totally hook up with you

 

[Marquis]

Is that so terrible?

No.

You should be attracted to the people you fuck.

 

[intothewoods]

I've really been trying to do this. I think the problem is that even if I don't think someone's a moron, my mannerisms are such that people think I'm an uptight 'see you next tuesday...'

I don't know why I have so many issues with people >< I can't read them, I can't interact with them well, I don't think I even know how to flirt. My boss says I'm nuts, of course I know how to flirt, but really I have a hard, hard time opening up to someone that I don't know well. By that I mean, I have never been able to open up to someone I don't know well.

I used to be just like you. Here's the thing - if you just smile and channel your inner flirt a little, men will be all over you. It's strange. I never realized this until recently, but men aren't that complicated.

 

[Chicklet]

No.

You should be attracted to the people you fuck.

thank you!

 

[sirhugs]

such a shame I'm too old to do more than but cream....er, I mean dream....yeah, that's what I meant

 

[djsfun2]

Lonely

First, I want to say that you are absolutely gorgeous!!!!!! I love all of your pics. You should post more. Second, you just haven't met the right man yet. When you do you will know it and you'll probably meet him when you least expect it like the rest of us. Good luck in your hunt for perfection.

 

[myinnerslut]

I never realized this until recently, but men aren't that complicated.

yep yep

 

[Chicklet]

Thank you again

 

[Evil_Geoff]

*pouts* You never did say if red hair qualifies as "dark"....

 

[Chicklet]

*pouts* You never did say if red hair qualifies as "dark"....

lol

geoff, i typically am not attracted to redheads, but i would make every exception needed for you

 

[MasterMischief]

I never realized this until recently, but men aren't that complicated.

I think the reason women have such a difficult time understanding men is that they assume we think like they do.

 

[Netzach]

ps

ammre,

if you were male

and a top

and lived on the opposite coast...

i'd totally hook up with you

hey for the record my ifs lists are shorter for both of you.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

lol

geoff, i typically am not attracted to redheads, but i would make every exception needed for you

I think I'm in lust!

 

[DVS]

I think I'm in lust!

Man, I think she's flirting with you. Go for it!

 

[sirhugs]

I think I'm in lust!

we're all in lust with Chicklet...just a mark of our good taste

 

[Chicklet]

we're all in lust with Chicklet...just a mark of our good taste

lol

I think I'm in lust!

again with the wrong parts of the country, though.

hey for the record my ifs lists are shorter for both of you.

...oh?

 

[chris9]

I figure as long as I'm not over the ex there is no use looking for a new one. Even though seeing that we weren't a very good match I guess it'd be quite easy to find someone 'better'. I just don't think it'd be fair to whoever to still be thinking 'better' instead of 'good for me now'.
Anyways, I finally learned to do the getting to know someone new conversation. It's still a bit of a trial not to ask where they travelled before, where they are going (too many travellers in the last two months), but I'm getting somewhere. It's a practice thing really.

By the way, flirting with southern men is easier. Most of them can't talk to a woman without flirting. Now someone teach me how to flirt with the rather boring Germans...

 

[HottieMama]

By the way, flirting with southern men is easier. Most of them can't talk to a woman without flirting. Now someone teach me how to flirt with the rather boring Germans...

No kidding..Southern men could charm a nun or of her habit...i it.

 

[chris9]

No kidding..Southern men could charm a nun or of her habit...i it.

Oh, just a BTW and to make sure I'm understood the way I meant it, I wasn't talking Southern US or Europe. I don't know about the US, I do know that Southern Europeans are more *charming* (rather macho-ly arrogantly flirting) than Northern ones.
Some of the Ecuadorians seemed to have a *melt tourist girls* look. With their dark sparkling eyes...

I wanna go back!!!​