I'm looking for a master or Daddy

[Little_Lily]

Hi there...

Okay so I have been debating on whether or not I should post on here for a while and after much consideration I'm going to go for it.

So my name is Lily, I'm eighteen years of age and I'm quite new to the whole BDSM world.. so what i am looking for is an experienced (30+) Daddy or Master. It's something I have been considering for a while now and I think it's what I need in my life.

So let me tell you a little bit about myself: I'm very shy and well for looks I'm quite small and petite... 5"3 long dark brown hair that's died black at the minute, brown eyes with green bits in.. Erm I'm quite pale and slim (I used to be into gymnastics and swimming a lot) What I'm looking for in a dom is someone who is very strict... firm but fair as I think it's what I need and I know that I can be a little bit of a brat sometimes, so I need someone who can handle that.. Someone who will put there own needs above my own.

And in return I will give up control of my life and make you as happy as I can.

I would prefer someone from the uk for the sake of time differences but I will not exclude other countrys... and someone who will be able to talk to me quite a lot... eventually I may be willing to voice chat :/

and I'm not just talking about sexually I mean all the time!

Msn is my preffered Im but I'm willing to use others so send me a pm.

 

[strictm4fsub]

PM sent!

 

[Little_Lily]

Bumping

 

[Kurgan]

pm sent...

 

[SoulSearcherNC]

bump.

 

[Bob Sharpe]

Lily

Are you receiving you PM's Lily ?

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

And in return I will give up control of my life and make you as happy as I can.

18 and new to BDSM? Hmm. Wonder if that will attract any HNG's? (Horny Net Geeks)

You might want to hold off on giving up control of your life. Just take things slow. Don't get swept up in all the new emotions and feelings and do something you might regret. Learn about yourself, learn about BDSM, and especially learn about what you are looking for in a partner.

Don't feel like you have to do ANYTHING just because a "Dom" tells you to. You are no less submissive if you say no.

 

[manxman22]

pm sent ... read it and do as you are told

 

[Little_Lily]

18 and new to BDSM? Hmm. Wonder if that will attract any HNG's? (Horny Net Geeks)

You might want to hold off on giving up control of your life. Just take things slow. Don't get swept up in all the new emotions and feelings and do something you might regret. Learn about yourself, learn about BDSM, and especially learn about what you are looking for in a partner.

Don't feel like you have to do ANYTHING just because a "Dom" tells you to. You are no less submissive if you say no.

Hi,

thanks for that, and yes I do realise that perhaps that was a bit much for me to put in a first post but I did mean eventually not that I would give up all the control straight away.

Anyway thank you for the advice

-Lily

 

[Primalex]

You are no less submissive if you say no.

Then... where is the difference to a non-submissive woman?

 

[JSensei]

Then... where is the difference to a non-submissive woman?

Apparently that means that you think submissives should have no limits and should just do whatever they're told. After all, if they were REALLY submissive, they'd never say no, right?

 

[Primalex]

Apparently that means that you think submissives should have no limits and should just do whatever they're told. After all, if they were REALLY submissive, they'd never say no, right?

Apparently, you have no clue what I'm thinking.

Instead of asking silly questions that you could have answered yourself with a little background check, you could try to answer my question.

 

[JSensei]

Apparently, you have no clue what I'm thinking.

Instead of asking silly questions that you could have answered yourself with a little background check, you could try to answer my question.

Not to troll you, but it seems you have no idea what I was thinking either.

But I'll humor you.

What is the difference? There IS no difference. She's just a submissive woman with limits. Just because she says no to any whim you have does not make her any less submissive. She just knows what she wants.

 

[Primalex]

What is the difference? There IS no difference. She's just a submissive woman with limits. Just because she says no to any whim you have does not make her any less submissive. She just knows what she wants.

What is the difference to a Dom then? If a submissive says No to everything, is she still submissive or dominant?

 

[JSensei]

What is the difference to a Dom then? If a submissive says No to everything, is she still submissive or dominant?

If a dom keeps asking her to do things that she does not want to do, then I would say there is a very good possibility that he's doing a poor job of it. It's a partnership. You work with her to provide what both of you want and need.

The question is, what is she saying no to?