Interracial sex

[wildwesty]

this is dumb

You aren't responding to anything anyone says. It almost sounds like you are trying to sell the idea to yourself. To answer your question though and being part black it really is a matter of knowing what you are doing. A guy could have a monster cock but not use it properly and the girl would never come. A smaller cock when used correctly works just the same. Clearly putting so much emphasis on a huge black dick must mean that your husband really doesn't know what the fuck he is doing in the bedroom. I wouldn't want my girl to be fucked by anyone else and I know she wouldn't want me to fuck anyone else. But you have the freedom to enjoy your sex life. It seems like you were going for a little more support on this topic though.

 

[kinky shy girl]

Re: Re: i'm white

.....but love me for me, not because I'm black.

Thank you. Very well said.

As 1/2 of an interracial couple, I know that our choice to be together isn't due to some stupid fetish. We met, we clicked, we're together. Nothing more, nothing less.

 

[wildwesty]

Re: Re: Re: i'm white

As 1/2 of an interracial couple, I know that our choice to be together isn't due to some stupid fetish. We met, we clicked, we're together. Nothing more, nothing less. [/B]

That is great...I am glad the 2 of you are very happy with each other. I was the product of an interracial couple so I love the idea if it is for the right reasons.

 

[kinky shy girl]

Re: Re: Re: Re: i'm white

That is great...I am glad the 2 of you are very happy with each other. I was the product of an interracial couple so I love the idea if it is for the right reasons.

Thanks, wildwesty. It *really* annoys me when people try to reduce interracial dating as a "fetish." I get so aggravated when people hang on to racial stereotypes, e.g. "black mandingo" or the geisha asian girl or whatever. Sure, some people might consider it crossing the color line as "taboo" or a "fetish." Speaking for myself, I'm attracted to my partner b/c of who he is. not because whether I think his skin looks different from mine.

 

[hotlips77]

fetish

Well said, Westy and Kinky. Hubby and I have a wide circle of "playmates" who are our friends. They come from all walks of life, and that's what it is "life.
I don't recall the posters that were out some years ago, the ones that looked like mod art, but if you focused you could see an entirely different and beautiful 3D picture. People who can't focus and see the person only see the shell, how sad they make conclusions and opinions based on that.

 

[wildwesty]

that is how it should be

I am glad there are some mature people here who take this topic seriously unlike some others. But hey, it's fine. I am pretty sure we made our point since she hasn't posted anything else, so yeah, we are the shit.

 

[jjdubhthaigh]

Blonde on Black

Ok just for the record I am male and I do approve of interracial fucking since I have been doing it since I was 18 , I have fucked sever black woman and to be honest the best sex i ever had was from a black woman , I also took critisism from my older brother since this was looked down on then , anyway Interacial yes I married a filipina not a white woman because women of color always excited me , on night my wife came home from her weekly bingo night and while we were fucking told me she do anything if i let her fuck this black guy she made freinds with at bingo , she brought it up at the wrong time maybe cause during sex it was kinda a turn off she's hopping on my cock begging for black cock it just rubbed me wrong at the time , besides she was pregnant at the time with our son , another time and i think i would of gone for it tho.
Anyway more power to you ladies who like men of color cause black pussy is great too.

 

[wildwesty]

Re: Blonde on Black

Ok just for the record I am male and I do approve of interracial fucking since I have been doing it since I was 18 , I have fucked sever black woman and to be honest the best sex i ever had was from a black woman , I also took critisism from my older brother since this was looked down on then , anyway Interacial yes I married a filipina not a white woman because women of color always excited me , on night my wife came home from her weekly bingo night and while we were fucking told me she do anything if i let her fuck this black guy she made freinds with at bingo , she brought it up at the wrong time maybe cause during sex it was kinda a turn off she's hopping on my cock begging for black cock it just rubbed me wrong at the time , besides she was pregnant at the time with our son , another time and i think i would of gone for it tho.
Anyway more power to you ladies who like men of color cause black pussy is great too.

You missed the point. We are complaining that it is treated as some kind of a fetish just like you treat it. By all means if that is how you get down then go for it, you have the freedom. However, just because the guy is black doesn't always mean his dick is going to be huge. In fact I think the cock size has very little to do with it...I think it is more along the lines of forbidden fruit or something like that. The point that myself and the few other people were trying to make is that to us this is not a fetish but about love just like any other relationship. Treat it for real, not some fetish.

 

[hotlips77]

Re: Blonde on Black

jj, I'm glad you approve of interracial sex, Gee to think I missed getting my four stars from you.
I fell in love and married my hubby not because he's white but because he was everything I was looking for.
I didn't go to bed with my friend Richard because he was black [or British] but because he is a great person AND good in bed.
I haven't been eating my best friends pussy since we were in our teens because she's black but because you will never find a more loyal friend or caring lover.
Now I've probably been in and out of bed with more people of all colors, ethnic, and religious backgrounds than you could even know. It's not the color you bring to the table [bed] but what you're willing to give of yourself. All of the people I've mentioned only wanted to make me feel special and in return I did the same. That's when you have great hot passonate sex.
But, as Westy said, you're free to do your thing, I just hope you learn to expand that knowlege. You're so close. HL77

 

[sweetie_sultry_sub]

Hey there Blonde & Kim...I have nothing against white on black in either form although I have never had a black woman. I would like to do both of you with my white cock though.

glad to see you are still alive you hot thing you, I have missed you and glad to see all is well.

 

[sweetie_sultry_sub]

Re: Re: Blonde on Black

jj, I'm glad you approve of interracial sex, Gee to think I missed getting my four stars from you.
I fell in love and married my hubby not because he's white but because he was everything I was looking for.
I didn't go to bed with my friend Richard because he was black [or British] but because he is a great person AND good in bed.
I haven't been eating my best friends pussy since we were in our teens because she's black but because you will never find a more loyal friend or caring lover.
Now I've probably been in and out of bed with more people of all colors, ethnic, and religious backgrounds than you could even know. It's not the color you bring to the table [bed] but what you're willing to give of yourself. All of the people I've mentioned only wanted to make me feel special and in return I did the same. That's when you have great hot passonate sex.
But, as Westy said, you're free to do your thing, I just hope you learn to expand that knowlege. You're so close. HL77

Very well said..... hats off to you.

 

[wildwesty]

fetish or not?

So, in reading some of the posts it really seems that the whole fetish thing of having a black man because his cock maybe very large isn't really true. I think that most people agree that it really is a matter of attraction to that person not because he is black but because of the reasons that anyone is attracted to anyone else, which is how it should be. Am I way off base here or is everyone pretty much in agreement?

 

[hotlips77]

Re: fetish or not?

So, in reading some of the posts it really seems that the whole fetish thing of having a black man because his cock maybe very large isn't really true. I think that most people agree that it really is a matter of attraction to that person not because he is black but because of the reasons that anyone is attracted to anyone else, which is how it should be. Am I way off base here or is everyone pretty much in agreement?

I don't know about anybody else, but I have to know the person a little first. That's not to say when I was younger, everyone I fucked I had their bio. But the last 20 yrs. all the people I've been with I knew as a person and if I decided to climb in the sack with them, it was because I liked them for who they were. Black, white, Asian, Indian, and everyone in between have been and still are my friends.

 

[ladyraeharrison]

Wow, touching topic. Love a person for who they are, not for the color of the skin. And if the stick ain't hitting the spot, then its the driver, honey, not the color.

 

[cuzinevil]

Re: Re: Re: i'm white

You are so right. My best friend has also been one of my lover's since we were teens. She's smart and beautiful who just happens to be black. I think she could say the same about me!!

And the two of you are beautiful together!



And I find another thread I like .......guess who's here?! he he

 

[hotlips77]

Re: Re: Re: Re: i'm white

And the two of you are beautiful together!



And I find another thread I like .......guess who's here?! he he

Hi Cuz,

I'm not surprised to see you over here.

 

[Vay]

When I saw the first page of this thread, I was put off by it. Just felt so...stereotypical. But the 2nd page...wonderful. So I had to leave my 2 cents.

Yes, I'm black. My first girlfriend was black, but I've only had sex with white women. And not because they're white, but because we clicked on that level. Quite frankly, I don't see colors when I meet someone. Something I feel more people are doing now. And it's a damn good thing.

And done_got_old...just had to say I love your comments!

 

[hotlips77]

welcome

When I saw the first page of this thread, I was put off by it. Just felt so...stereotypical. But the 2nd page...wonderful. So I had to leave my 2 cents.

Yes, I'm black. My first girlfriend was black, but I've only had sex with white women. And not because they're white, but because we clicked on that level. Quite frankly, I don't see colors when I meet someone. Something I feel more people are doing now. And it's a damn good thing.

And done_got_old...just had to say I love your comments!

Welcome Vay,
Like you, I almost clicked out before I read too far, but now I'm glad I stayed. I think you'll find some very interesting and on the ball folk over here. Pg 2 is definitely the start of this thread.

 

[Vay]

Yeah, if this thread were larger than 2 or 3 pages, I probably would've given up on it. Glad I didn't. Interesting stuff hidden amongst the...tripe...

 

[wildwesty]

There are lots of us that hold this black/white fetish thing to be a very big deal. I love the fact that so many people don't think of it as a fetish but more as a way to click with someone. If you are with another race because the 2 of you get along...that is 1 thing...but if you are with them because black men have big dicks, or for another reason, I think priorities need to be checked. Welcome Vay...I see that the threads creator is still silent.

 

[Vay]

Thanks for the welcome, westy. Now here's a thought...

I was at work today, playing with nipples of course (gotta love my job ) And this thread popped into my mind. So I thought I'd ask a question to the group. Ok, we know that most of those among us here are cool with interracial relationships as relationships, but (and this is geared to those who have or are in one) has anyone gotten any flak about being in one? In what way? How did you deal with it?

I have had some...not much, but some. What disturbed me though was that it wasn't my from my friends. Then again my friends are good friends like that who share similar views and ideals and interests (would we really be friends otherwise?). I've got some stares from strangers before (some with malicious eyes, others with curious glares), but the only verbal flak I've gotten has been from my own family. Specifically my mother and one of my sisters. They dislike the fact that I date white women in their minds exclusively. This is not the case, it's just that those whom I've decided to pursue relationships with have been white, 'cept for my first girlfriend ages ago. I've expressed my views of "why does it matter?" and have been given some "reasons". But my history has dictated different views to me than the history of my mother and sister, so I don't really hold their "reasons" to my own.

Just wanted to ask a serious question to make this thread more interesting.

 

[hotlips77]

grief

Vay,
My first exposure to sex with another girl was with my then [and still ] best friend when we were in our early teens. She just happened to be black, just happened to live next door, just happened to be best friend anyone could want.
Our families got along and there were no problems, till we both got to middle school. Because of her, I had a lot of black friends and vice versa. That's when I started hearing comments if whoever I walked to class with was anything other than white.
But like you Vay, my friends were my friends and we were cool, so what the others said didn't matter.
Years later in England, I met a young black man, Richard, who I lived with for a couple of months. Over there I had no problem. A few years later he came to the US and stayed. He is still one of my closest friends [and my hubby's]. But to walk in some where over here I could see the stares and heard the comments. As my hubby says, people with narrow minds have no business in our circle of friends.

 

[Vay]

Re: grief

Vay,
My first exposure to sex with another girl was with my then [and still ] best friend when we were in our early teens. She just happened to be black, just happened to live next door, just happened to be best friend anyone could want.
Our families got along and there were no problems, till we both got to middle school. Because of her, I had a lot of black friends and vice versa. That's when I started hearing comments if whoever I walked to class with was anything other than white.
But like you Vay, my friends were my friends and we were cool, so what the others said didn't matter.
Years later in England, I met a young black man, Richard, who I lived with for a couple of months. Over there I had no problem. A few years later he came to the US and stayed. He is still one of my closest friends [and my hubby's]. But to walk in some where over here I could see the stares and heard the comments. As my hubby says, people with narrow minds have no business in our circle of friends.

I agree! I just wish they weren't everywhere (the narrowminded folk)

 

[spyman]

two cents

Hi all,
Just had to add a little support to what my wife [hotlips] has been saying. I also want to add my agreement with Vay, that the narrow minded are everywhere.
Personally, I have had the pleasure of being with just about every race, creed and religion there is, [in and out of bed]. Because of my experiences, I have a vast array of friends and lovers. When HL and I married, I brought her into my friends and she did likewise. I can only say, that you cannot grow as a human being, without discovering the other man's culture, thoughts and dreams. We both shudder to think how boring our life would be if we did not have the experiences with all of our friends. Even though, anonymity is the key on these threads,[ and the net in general] we feel that we have made friends here and cherish the thoughts and opinions of all. Having had my say, I'm looking forward to chatting with interesting people.

 

[NaughtyKelly]

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