Is 10 inches too big?

[SeraphicLaw]

Recently, I had a little outting with friends, and they discovered that I was rather well endowed. At first they were wondering how I've never had a girlfriend, now they're telling me I'm way too big to handle!

Is 10 really that big? I don't want to hurt anyone when I actually find someone who I feel is right.

 

[Missingmeds]

No it isn't to big, but you will need to learn how to use what you have properly. Some of the men would be better to explain that statement to you.

 

[Kissophile]

Recently, I had a little outting with friends, and they discovered that I was rather well endowed. At first they were wondering how I've never had a girlfriend, now they're telling me I'm way too big to handle!

Is 10 really that big? I don't want to hurt anyone when I actually find someone who I feel is right.

I believe that ten is exactly right. You are talking about the number of fingers or toes, right?

 

[ozbloke1980]

Yes as far as I'm concerned anything bigger than 8 should be registered.

 

[SeraphicLaw]

Re: Re: Is 10 inches too big?

I believe that ten is exactly right. You are talking about the number of fingers or toes, right?

No I am referring to my 10 inch penis, which is being referred to as 'freakishly huge' in college now...

It's not that I am not proud of my size, it's just that I don't wishto cause anyone pain that doesn't want to~

 

[SweetErika]

Yes, it's quite big. Not impossibly so, but your main concern is going to be hitting her cervix, which is usually painful. Go very slow, let her control the depth of the penetration (her on top is a good position for that), and make sure the condoms fit properly (not sure if that requires the larger size, but if you haven't already, you might want to try a regular one on to see how it fits).

 

[Bandit58]

Well i would have said yes it is to big before meeting GIL but now know it isn't impossible, you need to use lots of vaginal forplay followed by a very gentle insertion with little movement slowly & gently going deeper & listen to the lady for directions to how she is doing & remember to stop when she tels you that is enough & don't forget lots of lube.

just had another wicked thought stop pushing if her cheeks are bulging & her eyes are popping.

 

[boston_bbw]

A good friend of mine who is 9" after 12 years of marriage still gets told to go easy or lighten up by his wife. Somedays it seems better then others. He hates the idea of hurting her too. So proceed with caution but not impossible.

 

[Vixandra]

Find a woman who likes having her cervix hit during sex.
Many women don't care for the experiance because it can cause a sharp pain.

For others, like myself, having it hit is for lack of better words or smilies.

Still, be careful- you're not going to be able to just wham, bam, thank-you ma'am a normal woman without a good deal of foreplay or lube. But then again, the best lovers know that foreplay can be as important as anything else in sex.

 

[bytor2112]

start ass fucking women dude....

shove that massive missile straight up their asses..they will love it..

and...

start to get the word out every way you can about how big you are...soon chicks will be lining up to get a piece of you..

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Or just stop by my place. I'll be more than happy to show you how to use that monster! lol

 

[MissTaken]

start ass fucking women dude....

shove that massive missile straight up their asses..they will love it..

and...

start to get the word out every way you can about how big you are...soon chicks will be lining up to get a piece of you..

bytor wants it.

 

[Bridget69]

Funny to hear men complaining about being too big. Usually they complain about being too small. LOL!

 

[MissTaken]

Recently, I had a little outting with friends, and they discovered that I was rather well endowed. At first they were wondering how I've never had a girlfriend, now they're telling me I'm way too big to handle!

Is 10 really that big? I don't want to hurt anyone when I actually find someone who I feel is right.

Ten inches is a big responsibility!



Seriously, not only should you be gentle, but always be aware. Some women are tender or unable to accomadate as much as they typically do at certain times of the month. For me, ovulation causes some tenderness.

Also, learn to enjoy a mouth and a pair of hands during oral sex. Not too many women can or will want to deep throat ten and if they do, they may not last too long.

As for anal, she should be experienced and you need to patiently prepare her for the act. It isn't impossible, but needs to be engaged in slowly and carefully.

 

[forevervoyaging]

Too big? I doubt there is such a thing. I didn't check, but if memory serves that is probably only a certain percentage out of what medicine would call the "average" range.

(no, I'm not 10"! But I did have experience with a petite and very .. um..for lack of a better word "clenched" partner once, so I imagine the result was similar)


She had to be relaxed and aroused...and then things worked better than she could ever have imagined. Evidently there is a huge difference in what a vagina can accept based on how aroused a woman is and how "into" it she is. (If she is going, " oh that's too big oh my oh I can't oh oh"...well, that will probably be hard. Even if she is anticipating it.)

As for condom size, you probably will want to look into a larger size (esp. if thickness is proportionate to length).


You might even find someone who really likes bigger men and is used to it! If not, some work and patience and tender loving care will no doubt make everything work out fine.

 

[rydia57]

start ass fucking women dude....

shove that massive missile straight up their asses..they will love it..

and...

start to get the word out every way you can about how big you are...soon chicks will be lining up to get a piece of you..

Well ten inches would be to big for me... especially in the ass! LOL I like a nice all purpose penis 6-8 inches long.Goes everywyhere! Ahhhhh! But gee guy, I'm sure you'll be pretty famous around town.

 

[funwdi]

Did you measure it with your friends while fully erect? Just wanted to know...
Oh. And why?

 

[dollface007]

Find a woman who likes having her cervix hit during sex.
Many women don't care for the experiance because it can cause a sharp pain.

For others, like myself, having it hit is for lack of better words or smilies.

Oooh...me too. It's my favorite! (sigh....) Maybe I should resurrect my cervix thread.


Anyways, lube is your friend. Use lots!

 

[SeraphicLaw]

Did you measure it with your friends while fully erect? Just wanted to know...
Oh. And why?

It was almost fully erect, and because they forced me to.

I believe it's because I'm so modest (or so they say), and men like to brag about that sorta thing. While I am proud of what I have, I just don't like to brag about stuff... Then again, I shouldn't surprise anyone with that either

 

[car nut]

Well ive hit the cervix in pretty much every girl ive been with, and im about 7 1/2" so you better be ready to see em jump and push you back some lol. Good luck getting a girl to let it near her ass too! WOman look at me and say no way, not ever all the time, even woman that have done it a few times. The thickness is what will kill you with that, thats what scares em off for me.

Dont feel bad, once all the girls find out youll have all the experienced girls scratching at your door at night. Theyll be the girls that can take it and know what to do. Theyre usually the most fun too. Better buy stock in condoms is all i can tell ya.

 

[MidnightAngel]

I've had a lover on-again-off-again for nearly 20 years who is just a little over 10 inches (yes, I measured out of curiosity).

When we were both younger (18-20-ish) it did hurt; mostly because neither of us really knew how to make it NOT hurt. But once we both matured and got a little experience, it was WONDERFUL.

 

[ravenmx]

My ex was a little over nine inches and I found in some positions it was uncomfortable due to him hitting my cervix but in other postions it seemed like I did not get enough.

Try different positions you may find some that will be comfortable for both.

For us it was doggie style and me on top. The missionary position was always painful.

 

[Gil_T2]

It was almost fully erect, and because they forced me to.

I believe it's because I'm so modest (or so they say), and men like to brag about that sorta thing. While I am proud of what I have, I just don't like to brag about stuff... Then again, I shouldn't surprise anyone with that either

My only advice is to post an ad in one or more of the ADULT PERSONAL sites with a pic of your cock & ask only for ladies who might be able to help you out & can handle it, I bet you get lots of replies.

 

[phoenix1224]

Yeah... Your biggest worry is trying not to hit her cervix.

You might want to try looking at some of the sex toy websites... They have an apparatus (I'm not sure what it's called) that looks a bit like a doughnut that helps prevent going in too deep.

Just a thought.

 

[Lasz]

Be careful.

You might be in trouble for carrying a weapon of mass destruction.