is Erotic Couplings a tough gig?

[EmilyMiller]

Just be careful. Afore you know it you'll have an army of old men panting after your panties. Not that I would EVER do anything like that!


Comshaw

Welcome to my world on PMs .

Though as I always say, there is only a finite number and I’ve already annoyed all but the nicest ones, some of them as well .

Em

 

[Comshaw]

Welcome to my world on PMs .

Though as I always say, there is only a finite number and I’ve already annoyed all but the nicest ones, some of them as well .

Em

I often wonder how it is with a female author on an erotic site like this. I always assumed they would be inundated with unsolicited and sometimes downright creepy invites and suggestions. But I guess it gives you plenty to choose from, huh? Well, maybe not plenty, by the time you toss out the 95% it narrows down the field I guess.

Comshaw

 

[EmilyMiller]

I often wonder how it is with a female author on an erotic site like this. I always assumed they would be inundated with unsolicited and sometimes downright creepy invites and suggestions. But I guess it gives you plenty to choose from, huh? Well, maybe not plenty, by the time you toss out the 95% it narrows down the field I guess.

Comshaw

It’s really not so bad now. When I first joined I had to fight off wannabe doms with a pointy stick. Now they either got bored or figured out not to mess with me.

Having said that, I have a delightful crowd that I only talk to on PM. That’s mostly from when the forums got really toxic for me and I was in a bad way with mental health. So it’s not all awful.

I get messages from people who want to do to me what’s done to me in my stories, but that’s kinda sweet actually and goes with the territory given my content.

Em

 

[lovecraft68]

Just be careful. Afore you know it you'll have an army of old men panting after your panties. Not that I would EVER do anything like that!


Comshaw

She already has that here, just look at any of her threads. Makes me recall what my foster father said to me when it came to women. Have some goddamn dignity and act like you've see one before.

 

[lovecraft68]

Maybe I secretly am Laurel . I have had people say much more outlandish things about me.

Given it’s a guy meeting a pornstar he is obsessed with, hard to pitch as romance or first time .

Em

You know, if you made the porn star someone older who does a lot of mom/step mom/ milf porn you could hit in Mature. I have two I created for my stories. "Molly Minx" and "Dana Darling" and yes I like Alliteration. Feel free to borrow one if you want.

 

[Comshaw]

She already has that here, just look at any of her threads. Makes me recall what my foster father said to me when it came to women. Have some goddamn dignity and act like you've see one before.

I've seen more than a few, but it doesn't keep me from drooling over another one. What, me, dignity?? If you ain't never had it, you ain't gunna' miss it.

Comshaw

 

[EmilyMiller]

You know, if you made the porn star someone older who does a lot of mom/step mom/ milf porn you could hit in Mature. I have two I created for my stories. "Molly Minx" and "Dana Darling" and yes I like Alliteration. Feel free to borrow one if you want.

That’s kinda funny. My problem is that I wrote the story at the request of soemone here. And it’s about a specific pornstar. I know which one, but I had to obfuscate her a little bit. I was asked not to use her name or a similar name. Not a lot, but enough to create doubt as to her identity.

So I’m not sure the aging would work or be well received by the commissioner .

Em

 

[EmilyMiller]

She already has that here, just look at any of her threads. Makes me recall what my foster father said to me when it came to women. Have some goddamn dignity and act like you've see one before.

Most of the people on her are pussycats. The gloves come off in PMs.

It also sadly goes with who I am. As a petite blonde who likes sex, I’m entirely aware I’m a walking cliche and about what comes with that.

Em

 

[lovecraft68]

Most of the people on her are pussycats. The gloves come off in PMs.

It also sadly goes with who I am. As a petite blonde who likes sex, I’m entirely aware I’m a walking cliche and about what comes with that.

Em

The fact you're conditioned to not only expect, but accept this, is troubling, but understandable.
Raising daughters as well as being involved in certain causes has made me acutely aware of how shitty men are, and some don't even realize it, because they have been conditioned to think its okay as well.

Generations of misogyny aren't easy to overcome.

 

[Duleigh]

But I have my two worst scores now in EC. Is it LW-lite?

I've always treated EC as Romance Light, that's where I put my couples who are starting to fall in love, or couples who have been together for years. I average 4.7 in that category

 

[EmilyMiller]

I've always treated EC as Romance Light, that's where I put my couples who are starting to fall in love, or couples who have been together for years. I average 4.7 in that category

So it is just me *sigh*

Em

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Most of the people on her are pussycats. The gloves come off in PMs.

It also sadly goes with who I am. As a petite blonde who likes sex, I’m entirely aware I’m a walking cliche and about what comes with that.

Em

There is no strategy so effective as having your enemy underestimate you. Paraphrased from Sun Tsu.

 

[Smarthomanid2]

I attract trolls. I’m like troll-bait. Or was it jailbait? ‍♀

Em

Jail-Troll bait