Is it feminine for a man to enjoy...

[stlpenguin]

I guess I don't see why it has to be feminine or masculine to enjoy anything in particular... Come to think of it, I'm not sure what makes ANYTHING other than a penis or a vagina "masculine" or "feminine" to begin with.

... but then, I'm floating here on the GLBT boards because I'm not exactly the poster-child for gender identity as it is. *shrug*

 

[Jenna2641]

All I can say is it feels good!!! So much so I went and had my nipples pierced. And let me tell you. That don't feel good. After I recovered, it was nice, but if I knew it was going to be that much pain, I would have never done it! Let me tell you, those needles are staying away from my ears!!! Hugs, Jenna

 

[infinity706]

My first ignorant thought was if a man is allowing a woman to be agressive by sucking his nipples or licking his ass it is gender reversal and therefor feminine.

These may just be old ideas. Growing up in the 70s women never licked or chewed nipples on men. In fact you would think men of that period had been sanded smooth before each sexual encounter. Ass licking was just unheard of for either gender (Pussy eating was a big favor you did for the woman...we were fairly stupid back then).

The first time I saw a woman licking a mans ass was in a Russain amatuer porno and I loved it. I thought it was so subversive and naughty.

Anyhow, when a woamn is being agressive, working a man's tit, eating his ass or even pegging him with a big ol' strap-on, does that make her the man and him the girl?

Isn't this really the kind of discussion you have with your aunty who has only had sex one way because she had to? Or your old world uncle who has never had to satisfy anyone but himself?

Well, even in porn from the 20s, there still seems to be plenty of pussy eating, although few women shaved back then.

Oh, and I do know one woman that doesn't enjoy having her nipples played with. She's still fine with it, though.

 

[purpleflower]

All I can say is it feels good!!! So much so I went and had my nipples pierced. And let me tell you. That don't feel good. After I recovered, it was nice, but if I knew it was going to be that much pain, I would have never done it! Let me tell you, those needles are staying away from my ears!!! Hugs, Jenna

I hear you about the pain and I was told that it hurts worse for guys than girls. I had mine done the first time and my hubby was playing with them hours later. When I lost them (due to having to remove all the metal from my body for an MRI, grrrr) I got them done a second time, believe me you don't want to do that, it hurts much worse the second time. I love them though so it was well worth it.
Fenderman hasn't really said one way or the other if he enjoys it but if he did I would be happy to oblige him....I agree with if it feels good do it!!!!

 

[LadyC]

I hear you about the pain and I was told that it hurts worse for guys than girls. I had mine done the first time and my hubby was playing with them hours later. When I lost them (due to having to remove all the metal from my body for an MRI, grrrr) I got them done a second time, believe me you don't want to do that, it hurts much worse the second time. I love them though so it was well worth it.
Fenderman hasn't really said one way or the other if he enjoys it but if he did I would be happy to oblige him....I agree with if it feels good do it!!!!

Did Fenderman pierce you nipples? I pierced my husband's nipples. Also his foreskin and his scrotum. The latter hurt like hell. I may add a second ring to it. You sound like an interesting couple, a couple I'd like further contact with. PM me.

 

[Martin1110]

In the movies...

there is much more ass rimming on males by the women then there is any nipple play on the men (by the way, I am talking about strictly straight porn). My nips are deader than a doorknob and so it really doesn't do anything for me. However touch my hole and I am a goner. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that male nipples are not thought of as being an erogenous zone and probably half the guys (if not the majority) are like me, there isn't any sensation. I wonder if that isn't true for women's nipples too: some are sensitive and others not.
About the nether hole, it would be interesting to know if most men aren't electrically charged there, but there's that psychological barrier of crossing the line as somehow being a gay thing.
I might add that I am envious of guys whose nips make them see stars. The more erogenous zones there are the better and I couldn't give a hoot whether it is straight, bi or gay.

 

[Aronkim]

Gimme that old time perversion. It's good enough for me.

Well, even in porn from the 20s, there still seems to be plenty of pussy eating, although few women shaved back then.

Oh, and I do know one woman that doesn't enjoy having her nipples played with. She's still fine with it, though.

God, Yes! I do love porn from the 20s. And they did seem to be quite versitile (and oral).
I don't know why, but there is just something charming about a man with a handle bar moustache and sock garters going down on some virtuous lass in sepia tones.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

having his nipples sucked and pinched. I absolutely love it. It gets me off way too quickly if she doesn't watch it..

It seems the more the nipples get played with the more sensitive they get.
The more atune they become to arousal.