Is this sick?

[Jade]

Hmmmmm


I like to have fantasies about people like you being infertile and people that deserve the gift of parenting being granted fertility....

but alas... life is so fucked.

 

[Thor's Hammer]

I'm hardly a prude, but that is the most disgusting thing I have read in a long time.

NO. IT IS NOT NORMAL. You need professional help, and soon.

 

[Ian1]

It makes me feel good to see that EVERYONE here is in agreement on this. I have felt no need to mention this until now, but I am a United States Army Infantryman and just returned from Kosovo. I saw a lot of things that saddened my heart and occasianally disgusted me, not to mention the occasanal physical dangers I endured, the point is upon reading your post I became almost short of breath and nearly reduced to tears. I pray you are playing some joke here, but fear you are serious. I defend your freedom, and that includes your freedom to GET SOME FUCKING HELP! So stop asking us is this normal and ask a therapist, please for your childerns sake, and your own.

 

[Cg1369]

This is, without a doubt the sickest thing i've ever seen on the board. I don't post often, true, but when something punches my button I do. Lady M, I sincerely hope you have sought help. And I agree with the VAST majority of the posters, you need help. I simply cannot phanthom a mom masturbating as she breast feeds. Nor a Mom thinking of her hubby having sex with a baby. No matter if Mom is from WV or anywhere else. It's just plain sick and disgusting. SAeek Help lady, if you haven't already. You need it.

 

[Guest]

sick? SiCk? SICK??????

by all the darkest gods, woman, get some help. you need it. you don't want to do that to your daughter. I know, my father wasn't exactly a pure thoughted person. i still have nightmares. i tried to kill him with a fork, for gods' sake! I won't touch him at all an hate him with all my soul. you want to do that to your children?

WHERE'S MY FUCKING SWORD? AND WHERE DO YOU LIVE???? *silences Willow and tells her friends to be quiet*

you really need help.

i mean, yeah, an empty mini M&M tube was my best friend at age 12, but _I_ fantasized about my older brother's friends, or my sister's male friends. or even some cute 8th grader in school. NOT MY LITTLE BROTHER! OR MY LITTLE SISTER! I may have been horny, but if you want incest, then consider having been fucked by your dad when you were a little girl. and how you would have felt about it as a little girl. and whether or not you want to do that to someone. cause if you do, i'll let Willow go after you with his sword. it's cursed, too.

GET HELP. NOW!!!!!!

 

[morgainefairy]

it just figures i was already feeling ill BEFORE i read this thread. now i may need to lie down!

there is no more of a selfish act i could imagine. how could sexual gratification be worth ruining a life?

most people don't like to admit it, but most people have been abused, so previous abuse is no excuse for this one. these thoughts are so far from acceptable.

you want to fuck your kids? ask them when they are 18. think you'll have a chance then? i don't think so.

the word for the day is....RESPECT.

 

[Silverlily]

My first husband was a sick, sexually abusive dunk. Thanks to the military, we spent most of our marriage apart and the abuse didn't start until we were finally living in the same house. He excuse was always "I couldn't help myself". I put up with it for less than two weeks, but what pushed me to finally kick him out was the realisation one day my daughter would hear those words.

There is NO EXCUSE WHAT SO EVER for having sexual fantasies with children, yours or anyone else's. Get help before you ruin their lives.

BTW - on the off chance this was simply an attempt for attention, you still need help.

 

[scylis]

i humbly offer my services.....

can i kill her??
pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeese!!!
let me kill her!!!!!

 

[GoMyr]

Lady M:
I agree wholeheartedly with everyone on at least one point: Your fantasies should not be acted upon, nor should any child ever be initiated to sexuality, they learn too quickly already, and usually not in the best of circumstances. Fantasies are important to us, however and can be a healthy conduit for those feelings that we may not want or be able to live out in real life for whatever reason. You should tell your husband what you feel (presumably the two of you are truly partners in all aspects of your lives). Maybe the two of you can work out some sort of "game" that involves only the two of you and leaves the "real" children blissfully unaware of your carnal desires.

Good Luck, you've got some real soul-searching to do.

GoMyr

 

[Guest]

My first instinct to this is, I'd like to hunt you down and get you the hell away from those kids. My second thoughts were, I pray that your husband doesn't have the same problem as you, because then how would you ever be convinced to get help?

My final thoughts are as follows.

I judge you, yes. I can not help but judge, and perhaps if I was indifferent I could say something of more value...but though I judge, I also have sympathy for you, because something equally as disgusting and horrid as what you fantasize about, was probably executed un to you as a child.

The fact remains, it is NOT normal. It is very dangerous. Do you love your children?
Would you do anything to protect them from harm?

Then please, if you do, get help. It doesn't mean you'll lose them....just....get help.

 

[Xander]

You know, when I first saw this thread I had the sudden urge to lock you up, and keep you away from anything resembling a child.
But I only posted what I felt should be said at the time, and kept myself from giving you the hammer. However, now as I return to the thread and once again read what you've fantazise about. I have to say this.

I pity you, and you should honestly get some help.

Sex with children is one of the most horrible things you can do to a child.

If it was only a fantasy, then so be it. I am in no position to tell people what they should fantazise about, nor will I ever do that. But the remark about mastrubating while breast feeding. WTF!!!

That to me only proves that, this is a little more than a fantasy.
I beg you! prove me I'm wrong. Please!!

And to get hot of the thought of your husband having sex with a 4 year old. Now, if that isn't twisted, I have no idea about what is.

I can only profoundly point this out: GET HELP!!

 

[Slut_boy]

Let's assume that she did get the point - well then in that case (and I must stress that this is a seperate point that I am making) - I would like to comment on Siren's point that the act of breast feeding is one of love and nourishment.

I agree, and I can't help wondering though (as we get older) when the line between love and sex becomes thinner, the massive role that breast feeding might have played. For example, is it possible that we find a womens breasts so sexy because at one time in our lives we associated them with love, affection, nourishment and comfort.

The key to my submission there is .... "as we get older".

 

[Gingersnap]

Slut boy breast feeding is supposed to be a bonding experience between mother and child. It is a sensual experience to enhance the love of the child for mother and mother for child. IT IS NOT A SEXUAL EPISODE!! Lady M has a serious problem. I would be happy to talk with you about the theory you have but not on this thread. Please please Lady M get some help now. Your unresolved issues are going to fuck up your child. The child you hold in your arms is looking to you for protection from expoiltation. Please stop the fantasies and sexual activity while nursing. Take the advice to pump your breasts and feed him that way. Then get the help you need. You have some problems to discuss with a good therapist.

 

[Nexxus]

Lesse. A GUEST writes in a seemingly sick thread about some pretty deranged fantasies and no one remotely thinks its a scream for attention? How gullable are we? I don't think this person really exists and would not be surprised if it turned out to be the rantings of a member who likes to draw attention to themselves. I know I'm the most cynical person on the planet, but this doesn't really seem real.

Nex

 

[*Eve*]

You're right Nexxus, it is very possible, but let's hope that none of the registered members on this board have to stoop that low for attention.

 

[Evesdemise]

How thoroughly insiteful, Slut boy

I would like to comment on Siren's point that the act of breast feeding is one of love and nourishment.

is it possible that we find a womens breasts so sexy because at one time in our lives we associated them with love, affection, nourishment and comfort.

I believe that is exactly the reason that breasts are a focal point for both men and women. I enjoy mine very much, and having them paid attention to is a huge turn-on for me.As for Lady M or what ever was her name, it is never, ever, in my opinion, a positive action to involve any child to promote any adult's happiness. In short, I feel that using a child to gain ANYTHING is the absolute worst thing another human being can do. But I also agree that although posting here the fantasies that are a child's nightmares made real, one thing is proven to me; that if this person legitamately feels that the actions on her part warrant a question of right and wrong, there may still be hope for the child. I pray this is the case, because no child ever asked to be born, and they are gifts to anyone that has them in their lives. They should never be considered possessions for purposes of self-gratification.

 

[Laurel]

it is never, ever, in my opinion, a positive action to involve any child to promote any adult's happiness. In short, I feel that using a child to gain ANYTHING is the absolute worst thing another human being can do.

VERY well put. And that doesn't apply just to sexuality, either.

 

[insideShiraz]

This is a board...

Get real people.

The opening thread was probably some guy writing on the board. Remember the story of Solomon and the 2 women fighting over a baby. Both claimed it was theirs but the wise king knew which was the real mother. A real mother would never have fantasies about letting their husband near a 4 year old daughter. But women feeling sexual arousal while breast feeding is not uncommon. It is to be found in books such as The Red Lamp of Incest and in journals of human sexuality/behavior, e.g. That was probably just some guy wanting to hear about incest.

insideShiraz

 

[Bobtoad777]

my 2 cents worth. although it is nice to fantasize in a story about such things putting it into actual practice can tend to be disturbing and slightly repulsize.

 

[Naked Hunny]

HOLY SHITTER!!

Mr. Toad and I agree on something!!!

 

[Bobtoad777]

i knew you would grow to love me Naked Hunny