Jailbait, were you ever?

[lushlucid]

It's sad you think that. I don't feel like a baby machine (in face I wanted children WAY more than he did), and I've never consider my marriage a business transaction. If something were to happen to K, I'd allow my heart to heal and find another man to marry. Marriage, for me, is about companionship. It's about having someone who's with you through everything. Another oxen in the yolk, pulling at the burdens of life.

If you read the context of my post i was actually talking about ancient times, not modern times.

 

[callinectes]

That's what you think, haha.
Btw it's cheques.

Maybe it's cheques down under, but in the US it is spelled checks.

Oh, I'm sure some stuff goes on at the barn, but it is a far more controlled and healthy environment than many others. Besides, one never knows when someone's mother, trainer, or older riders will show up. They will all bust the kids if they are misbehaving! LOL

 

[sexycaz22]

When I was 11 years old, I crushed after older men, 7 or 8 years older than me. At the age of 11, I was (and is) very mature than other girls (or boys) my age and related well with the older men.

At 13 years old, I was involved in a great and long relationship with an older guy (although it was NOT a sexual relationship), he taught me quite a lot and I loved him with all my heart. When he left school, it broke my heart very much and even now, I miss him a lot and we lost touch not long after that.

I knew a few people who have lost their virginity at 12, 13 or 14 years old. Some of them with other people same age, others with a older guy of 17 or 18 years old. And I didn't see anything wrong with it at the time, and I still don't see anything wrong even now. However, I would have liked for them and for my future children to know more about safe sex and love in a relationship, and I would encourage them to NOT have sex until they were ready.

But then I might be telling a different story when I eventually have children!!

By the way, I still have not lost my virginity...the right guy have not came until now.....