Kinks - how open are you about them?

[SCRob95060]

Recently had an electrocardiogram, the nurse asked if I wanted her to shave my chest. I’ve had this procedure before, never did anyone suggest shaving. Being the kinky guy I am I said yes.

She’s halfway through when I ask how far down does she shave? She smiled and said, I’ll shave as much as you choose to bare.

I pulled my pants down to my knees. She only said, very nice.

Without another word she proceeded to shave my cock and balls. Handling my penis gently, without stroking. When she was done she carried on with the electrocardiogram, I pulled my pants up and that was that.

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.

Pretty open!

Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.

Family, no, it's none of their business. I do tell my distant relations who are older than me about my romances, but not the details.

To keep them informed.

Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.

My kinks are real, some I have not tried but if my partner and I both want to try them, we will make an effort.

I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.

I only wish to include willing participants but I have definitely had sex in front of willing voyeur adults.

Happy to oblige both them and my partner.

But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

I only really want to share with willing adults, but if someone asks me anything i am an open book, unless they're younger than me and not someone I can date, i.e. family or a guy.

If this isn't someone who has any business knowing about my personal life I don't want to talk about it with them, I don't want them to get turned on or fantasize about me.

 

[bondandmoneypenny]

I guess this is a kink of sorts....I like to watch Bond and myself (and whomever else is playing) using mirrors. Cameras are fun too, but we haven't used them often. We sorta like the live action aspect of mirrors.

MP

 

[ILuv2Taste]

I have been pretty forthcoming about sharing my kinks on the Lit Forum and recently have begun to share them wife my wife.
Surprisingly she has not been shocked and has been eager to experiment and so far to this point has responded in the positive.

 

[smoothwiener]

Pretty open, but a lot honestly depends on what they are, everyone has their own limits as to what they will and won't do.

 

[BobbyandtheCabin]

I told one friend when we were drunk, and he later revealed as a knee jerk reaction he went home and told his mrs not to have her hair down in front of me. I was a bit pissed off to be honest . The guy's mega adhd too so i get to the incriminating part of my stories and then his attentions gone before the clarification or redemption

The mrs knows, and has very little interest, much to my chagrin.

My kink is well maintained hair on a woman (i.e. head hair!).
Pretty inoffensive, and easy to satisfy by willing participants... had a brief stint of chatting with some online who were really intrigued and tried to fulfill it for me. That was lovely and not something I'd ever experience (made me realise how disinterested my past lovers have been in my needs and what I liked).

 

[Samantha47]

It wasn't that I was reluctant to explore the kinky behavior. Most of my extreme kinks have evolved over the years, so when I think of the opportunities I had as a younger man to enjoy them, they weren't what I wanted back then. An example is ladies pee, I did sample it as a young man but I didn't develop a love of a woman's golden wine until I was around 65.

I love peeing now

 

[LuridStoryteller]

I have a pretty strong/powerful family/taboo kink, that I indulge and discuss only on this site. I did twice confide in friends of mine about the origins of said kinks (a near-miss taboo encounter that, I believe, rewired me). One of them took it in stride, the other was so horrified I have never again brought it up with friends. Would love to be able to have face-to-face discussions about it, but doubt I'll ever completely trust another person with certain bits of information

 

[BillyWalrus]

Yesterday my trans gf's niece was with us and we were chatting. She asked what kind of food I like to eat and my gf (she is Filipina), promptly says, "Filipina sausage!". OMG, tell her everything will you? We all laughed but now I wonder if she suspects the sexual relationship between me and her aunt.

 

[liqueur]

I love peeing now

I love it that you love it.

 

[liqueur]

Yesterday my trans gf's niece was with us and we were chatting. She asked what kind of food I like to eat and my gf (she is Filipina), promptly says, "Filipina sausage!". OMG, tell her everything will you? We all laughed but now I wonder if she suspects the sexual relationship between me and her aunt.

She knows...

 

[BillyWalrus]

She knows...

Yeah, at the very least she knows that I suck her aunt's cock.

 

[tnnikon]

"Kinks" are just desires. If consenting adults are okay with it, no one else should be concerned.

 

[IndianaBrad]

I am open about some, others not so much

 

[StoneCold1974]

I'm very open about mine.

 

[maveric74]

My kinks have evolved over time as I have grown older and understood sexuality and the difference between love/lust, making love/fucking etc. It's mostly private and only shared with someone that is understanding, respectful and wanting something along the same lines. As a teenager, I was naive and satisfied with touching boobs, fingering a pussy and a blowjob. As a man in my 20s and 30s, I was mostly in medium term relationships so the sex was normal but not kinky. In between breakups, I was more interested in having sex as much as I could. Only in the last 10 years or so, I've started to understand, accept and really embrace my love of kinks. Have had a couple of wonderful experiences as a result but not nearly enough. Neighbours, friends and family would be shocked if they knew so happy to continue doing so without awkward social inter-actions with friends, family or neighbours.

 

[PatrickJames11]

Working on it lol

Love to show off a little, which is why it’s great to have Lit as an outlet

 

[StoneCold1974]

My kinks have evolved over time as I have grown older and understood sexuality and the difference between love/lust, making love/fucking etc. It's mostly private and only shared with someone that is understanding, respectful and wanting something along the same lines. As a teenager, I was naive and satisfied with touching boobs, fingering a pussy and a blowjob. As a man in my 20s and 30s, I was mostly in medium term relationships so the sex was normal but not kinky. In between breakups, I was more interested in having sex as much as I could. Only in the last 10 years or so, I've started to understand, accept and really embrace my love of kinks. Have had a couple of wonderful experiences as a result but not nearly enough. Neighbours, friends and family would be shocked if they knew so happy to continue doing so without awkward social inter-actions with friends, family or neighbours.

I love watch my wife get gangbanged by at least 3 BBCs. It's just hot as hell to listen to her scream as they pound her. She lets me have threesomes with some of her bi girlfriends. Sometimes she joins. Sometimes she watches us fuck. We have experimented a lot. I'm straight though.

 

[BInowGay]

Pretty much anything but Scat or pain

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Love talking about them with anyone who is open and playful

 

[Breastobsessed84]

My wife is not into any of the shit I am. So in real life, not open. Here, or a weekend away, very open.

 

[Uncut1969]

My wife is not into any of the shit I am. So in real life, not open. Here, or a weekend away, very open.

Me also in same boat unfortunately

 

[pumper71]

Outside of forums like these, not at all. I divulge no info of either my girls or my own private lives or tendencies to anyone due to our strict professional lives.
However, we have been savvy enough to recognise who is a par for the course between us and still are. Its surprising who you can get to know in the right scenario.

 

[Erosfan]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

"I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life."

Pretty much describes me. I don't share much of my kinky stuff with acquaintances, just my lady. She is okay with me being naughty/risky in certain public settings.

 

[Samantha47]

"I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life."

Pretty much describes me. I don't share much of my kinky stuff with acquaintances, just my lady. She is okay with me being naughty/risky in certain public settings.

Sounds so sexy