Ladies, Can You Pleas Straighten Me Out Here

[Safe_Bet]

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You pussy!

Hardly. I would take issue with anyone, male or female, who consistently acted like a junkyard dog on the end of a chain.

And btw, my name's not "dude", and that's ludicrous.

For real, DUDE! You are a misgynistic freak that insults any woman who doesn't kowtow to your ass. Sorry, but in my case that just ain't gonna happen.

Is there ever a thread where safe bet doesn't come off as a c*nt with a tampon stuck up her ass?

Just curious.

One post since 2006 and that was it? Seriously, dude?

Bile? Silly you.
She is right, wrong forum. Don't get mad when the lesbian kicks you in the vagina for posting dumb shit.

Hi, GS! How are you today? Hope you are doing well. (BTW, this is just me being civil and polite to one of the few people here who doesn't act like a testosterone enraged, chest beating baffoon )

 

[girlsmiley]

Hi, GS! How are you today? Hope you are doing well. (BTW, this is just me being civil and polite to one of the few people here who doesn't act like a testosterone enraged, chest beating baffoon )

Hi hotstuff! I'm doing swell. I don't know Amy, sometimes I like beating on chests. Wif my lips

 

[twister947]

SB, I'm just no match for your intellectual firepower and wit...you're right, of course. Anyone can see I'm a witless, misogynistic homophobe of the first water, and you are well w/in your rights to play the vagina card.

Busted.

 

[girlsmiley]

Oh for crying out loud...

 

[Safe_Bet]

Oh for crying out loud...

Pitiful ain't it? :/

 

[girlsmiley]

Pitiful ain't it? :/

Woeful mate.

 

[twister947]

Pitiful ain't it? :/

What?

I copped to every single thing you accused me of...

 

[janeyruth]

What?

I copped to every single thing you accused me of...

She's an anomaly, twisty, a one-of-a-kind. One of those failed, high-risk-high-gain projects where they threw the mold away after they made her. I had Delbert, my transsexual analyst friend, review Safey's posts over the past six months on Literotica to see if sense could be made of this obviously-disturbed woman's psyche. Here is what Delbert (actually Delbert these days answers to Bertinilla. Cute, huh?) had to say:

mmm"I see here a cynical, hyper-sensitive, wasted woman, incapable of making
mmmany nourishing relationships and turning finally to a universe beyond
mmmreligion..."

Truer words were never spoken.

 

[Safe_Bet]

She's an anomaly, twisty, a one-of-a-kind. One of those failed, high-risk-high-gain projects where they threw the mold away after they made her. I had Delbert, my transsexual analyst friend, review Safey's posts over the past six months on Literotica to see if sense could be made of this obviously-disturbed woman's state. Here is what Delbert (actually Delbert these days answers to Bertinilla. Cute, huh?) had to say:

mmm"I see here a cynical, hyper-sensitive, wasted woman, incapable of making
mmmany nourishing relationships and turning finally to a universe beyond
mmmreligion..."

Truer words were never spoken.

SNERK!

I just can't tell you how much the opinion of a "lesbian" who likes cock every now and then (why DON'T you just admit you're bi Janeruth????) and her imaginary friend Dilbert means to me.

(I'll give you a hint though: I can't tell you how much because I could care less, K?)

P.S. It does make me happy that thoughts of me occupy such a big part of your life though.

 

[twister947]

P.S. It does make me happy that thoughts of me occupy such a big part of your life though.

It's because we love you, Buttercup.

 

[janeyruth]

Love. It's such a slippery slope, eh?

 

[Fondelum]

Wow. Y'all are exactly like two little boys patting each others back about how witty and brave they both are for having gotten away with writing stupid shit on the bathroom wall. Quelle surprise.

Time to take your pimply, punk asses back to the Fetish Forum and continue your immature shit there, boys.

Hey come on I write stuff on Bathroom walls all the time but they are obsessively handstyled TAGS

 

[CandiCame]

OK, now you've done it--you've finally gone and given me a boner that just won't quit. And while I am grateful, I feel I should point out that we never once discussed any terms--so if you are planning on billing me for any of this, you can just forget it.

Missy

I loled!

I KEPT waiting for you to say this- as a fetish sharer- I've got to say, I've had dozens of folk ask me why I don't put her on ignore, and it's the same damn thing. I've never seen anyone with so much unchecked anger, except potentially Tex.

It's hot.

For about... a week. Then it gets really annoying.

Is there ever a thread where safe bet doesn't come off as a c*nt with a tampon stuck up her ass?

Just curious.

Yes. There are a couple of threads, she can be civil, just not to males, it seems. In the thread for lesbians (I can't remember the name) she's often civil. She's nice to the butterfly lady. You're just seeing one unfortunate side of her personality.

No, she never is civil. I agree with that.

What astonishes me over and over is the way that people are so surprised that a lesbian would be that angry. It's almost... hurtful in itself, that surprise.

It's not that I'm shocked that a lesbian would be angry- it's that I don't see the need for anyone, regardless of gender or their position on the Kinsley scale, to be that full of bile ALL THE TIME. It defies logic. Statistically, there has to be a 5% chance that she's NOT in a bitchy mood.

Dude posted on the wrong forum. We both essentially said the same thing. My response was civil, hers was bitchy. You think I can't be bitchy? I COULD outcrazy her. I choose not to. She could also choose not to.

 

[Stella_Omega]

See....

It's easy for you to react nicely about a stupid question that was stupidly asked of lesbians about something that lesbians don't care about and don't want to know about.

You are not a lesbian.

It's quite probable that Amy is a very nice person most of the time-- just not to men who make stupid assumptions about lesbians. Which is most men who come to this forum, to be blunt, not to mention an awful lot of the "ladies."

And it's very probable as well, that Amy only shows up here when she has some anger to vent. Because it's so incredibly easy to find a target, what with the general assumptiveness of the people who show up looking to par-tay.

You'll notice that very very few actual lesbians bother with this forum at all. Women tend to not go where their sensibilities will be trampled.

 

[janeyruth]

Stella must have a part time job defending Safey. She probably gets paid by the post.

 

[Fmature2play]

Stella what you said makes perfect sense, as it often does coming from you but a question still begs to be answered: If a person exhibits a personality that is hostile, and even you said safe bet is never civil, are they not choosing to be hostile? My next question is why? Not just here but life in general. How many times have I had to put up my car window when I am in traffic and the blaring music beside me is almost more than I can stand? I WANT to scream at the top of my lungs how inconsiderate that person is and how I have rights not to have to listen to that but know what? They would actually enjoy seeing me getting upset and prolly turn it up louder with a sneer spread across their face. Thus I choose NOT to exhibit anger and simply go on with my life. I have found that letting anger and hostility dominate your personality will make one bitter and resentful. I certainly do not know safe bet but I am willing to bet she has many nice qualities but most won't ever find out sadly. As my own sexuality is evolving, I am finding that all of my desires for a relationship are with a woman and it isn't driven off of sex. I feel slighted that I have to go to a club that caters to our lifestyle just so I won't be looked at with disdain or even ridicule but I cannot and will not let that make me bitter. A minority group always has been and always will be subjected to discrimination but I cannot fight it with my teeth clinched and my fists closed. I smile and try to get them to know the real me. That is the best weapon I have. If I cannot change that opinion I have done my best and I get on with enjoying my life. Thanks to all the great gals that are on this forum and make it what it is.

 

[Safe_Bet]

@ Fmature2play:

You seem like a nice chick so I'll 'spain a couple of thing to you/about me, K?


You, I believe from the prior posts of yours that I've read are kinda new to "the life" (welcome, BTW). You, as you've stated, are discovering some of the challenges of coming out/transitioning/being out. Some of these "challenges" and the people who present them have annoyed/irritated/angered you, right?

I've been out my entire adult life (I came out at 11 y.o.). I've been dealing with these kind of annoyances/irritations/anger sources for decades. YOU may still be be willing to give them a pass. I no longer am willing to (be there, done that).

Now let's look at the sources of the "irritation".

"Twister": this is one of the bi dudes that perinially has an issue with any woman who doesn't agree that they have a right to fuck whomever they want. I disagree cuz I'm a lesbian. I DON'T have to have an interest. Don't get me wrong I'm no gold star (I was raped shortly after coming out - allegedly to cure my queers), but I'll be damned if I'll be told I have to.

Janeyruth: we've bonked heads because I take exception with somebody who currently "likes a little dick now and then" describing herself as a lesbian. You and I both know what a lesbian is and getting dicked every now and then ain't part of it. I admittedly get riled by her comments cuz I find posers offensive. Additionally, find her snide little comments especially offensive. For example, what she said about Stella. If Janeyruth and I have bonked heads in the past, then Stella and I have full speed headed butted. Stella was a friend of my late wife's, but she is not one of mine. Nonetheless, I DO respect Stella's honesty and many of her opinions (whether I agree with them or not). Even though it's prolly safe to say we dislike one another, I'd take a one Stella over. 1,000 fake, posers like JR.

Last example is Candicame: he wasn't sure he was even gay when he first go here, but now he's decided he's some uber gay stud. He also is a stalker and a liar. He stalked Girlysmiles by sending her NUMEROUS sexually explicit PMs, even after both privately and publically being asked not to. After being asked to read them by GS ( she didn't post them only because that is against forum rules) I called him on them. He made some weak ass quasi-excuse and then proceeded to go yuck it up with is buddies on the General Board and tell them I wanted to fuck him. Can you see how offensive that would be to any woman, especially someone he knows has no interest in men?

Bottom line is that I DO have a very low tolerance for certain kids of BS and I no longer hold my tongue when I see something offensive towards me or another woman. I've also been on these boards long enough that there are people who puposely come and make comments just to prove how manly/butch they are.

Guess what I'm saying is don't form an opinion till you've walked a mile or so I'm my shoes or I give you a legitimate reason to. I'm not the most "civil" person in the world (and my sense of humor can be quite snarky), but I'm not the bitch many of these people make me out to be.

 

[Stella_Omega]

...then proceeded to go yuck it up with is buddies on the General Board and tell them I wanted to fuck him. Can you see how offensive that would be to any woman, especially someone he knows has no interest in men?


If this is true, it is damn near inexcusable, Candi. You really should know better, and you've lost all the credibility of saying that you "chose not to out crazy her" when in fact you've ADDED to the load of crazy that the (Male) world dumps on lesbian women.

So.

Fucking.

Typical.

 

[Fmature2play]

Safe bet - I won't quote you cause my replies are often long winded and that would take up lots of un necessary room. First of all thanks for actually understanding my mixed up life. I have for some time admired women that walk it like they talk it. I have to go out of town with a "friend" when we want time together. I wish I had the nerve to walk down the street acting like I can in a club in uptown charlotte (one that caters to alt lifestyles) but I don't have that nerve.....yet. I think I was right in my estimation that you have many nice qualities. I have never in my life met someone that didn't. I am no Will Rogers but just my experience talking. Plus, I look for those qualities. On lit, I am a bit of a wise cracking sarcastic bitch at times and Stella took me to task and I agreed. Now I try to mix in an honest answer or opinion when I feel the need to also unload some of my wise cracking that amuses only me if no one else. I do get your frustrations. And on some things we will just agree to disagree but that's always gonna happen at times isn't it? As for the thing with candi - well perhaps you outed him in ways he hadn't already been outed and other Litsters will take heed.

 

[Safe_Bet]

...then proceeded to go yuck it up with is buddies on the General Board and tell them I wanted to fuck him. Can you see how offensive that would be to any woman, especially someone he knows has no interest in men?


If this is true, it is damn near inexcusable, Candi. You really should know better, and you've lost all the credibility of saying that you "chose not to out crazy her" when in fact you've ADDED to the load of crazy that the (Male) world dumps on lesbian women.

So.

Fucking.

Typical.

BTW, I need to make a correction: it wasn't on the GB, it was in this forum =

I was wondering this to- I also got accused of trying to fuck this same angry chick...

But, whatcha gonna do.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I was wondering this to- I also got accused of trying to fuck this same angry chick...

Um.

That's REALLY not the same thing as:

tell them I wanted to fuck him.

Not at all. Thanks for your honesty, SafeBet-- and I'm glad that I said "IF this is true" in my first response.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Um.

That's REALLY not the same thing as:



Not at all. Thanks for your honesty, SafeBet-- and I'm glad that I said "IF this is true" in my first response.

There was a HELL of a lot more to it then that, Stella. The fact of the matter was that NOTHING like that was ever said. He just made it up and then lied about it. (and no, they are not that different).

But, you just go ahead and think that it was no big deal all you want.

 

[Safe_Bet]

why bother.

I know. But thanks. <3

 

[Stella_Omega]

There was a HELL of a lot more to it then that, Stella. The fact of the matter was that NOTHING like that was ever said. He just made it up and then lied about it. (and no, they are not that different).

But, you just go ahead and think that it was no big deal all you want.

I don't know-- it's what you quoted. If you've got something else that shows what you're talking about-- that would be good.

Either way, it is still a big deal. A dude implying, in any way, sexual activity with a lesbian woman-- pisses me off like whoah.

But him claiming that he was accused of trying to fuck you-- and him saying you wanted to fuck him-- very, very, very different statements.

 

[girlsmiley]

There was a HELL of a lot more to it then that, Stella. The fact of the matter was that NOTHING like that was ever said. He just made it up and then lied about it. (and no, they are not that different).

But, you just go ahead and think that it was no big deal all you want.

You know what kinda irks me about candicame? How hypocritical he is. You know I love you candicame but you're a hypocritical bastard!

Amy. I called cc out when he was posting about his mother.
He went ON and ON about her, the disrespectful little... Talking about her substance abuse problems etc., etc. over on the General Board. Lots of shit that I don't want to repeat.
The whole time he was going ON about her, he was here on the GLBT forum, posting all about his little mushroom slash ecstacy slash marijuana parties!

Being the super-cool chickybabe that I am - I asked him if he'd thought about getting some help. Poor kid has had a bit of a shit run lately. Medical condition. Drug addiction. Being fired from his job etc, etc. The response? "Oh yeah she likes me. Mwahaha. She reads all my posts, she's a stalker." Or summat like that.

Cc - why are you calling me "the butterfly lady" ???
Like you haven't replied to my posts before. Like you've never sent me PMs... LOL *ribs*

And big smooches for you, Amy.
I think you're a strong, loving, beautiful person.
And also hot. Because I am a classy Aussie.