Ladies, Can You Pleas Straighten Me Out Here

[CandiCame]

Last example is Candicame: he wasn't sure he was even gay when he first go here, but now he's decided he's some uber gay stud. He also is a stalker and a liar. He stalked Girlysmiles by sending her NUMEROUS sexually explicit PMs, even after both privately and publically being asked not to. After being asked to read them by GS ( she didn't post them only because that is against forum rules) I called him on them. He made some weak ass quasi-excuse and then proceeded to go yuck it up with is buddies on the General Board and tell them I wanted to fuck him. Can you see how offensive that would be to any woman, especially someone he knows has no interest in men?

Or, how this went in reality;

My first day on the board, I noticed that people were being very rude to girlysmiley, so I sent her a PM saying that it seemed to me that she was being called out, and that it wasn't right. There was nothing sexually explicit in it. Then I went to work.

I came back and she had posted on the same forum she was being called out in and asked me not to pm her, so I sent her one last message containing an apology. She then went on and on about how those two messages were offensive, despite containing no offensive material. I asked if she would just like to post them, to clear my name, but a moderator told me that this was against the site's rules. Why it is still even brought up confuses me, both then and now. I learned that you could not try and be nice to her, because apparently any attention at all, even something as simple as, "I don't think people should be picking on you" means that you want to fuck her.

I don't remember a pm from you, but I assume that what I responded was similar to what I posted above- you know, the truth.

Likewise, if you read the post that you linked to, you will see that what I was discussing was how absurd the entire situation was. How odd I thought it that she and girlysmiley thought I wanted to fuck them when there was no indication for it- and other males who post frequently talking about the same thing. We thought it odd that they got that opinion when none of us ever indicated anything even close to that desire. The fact that she got anything else from it is... confusing to say the least.

As far as me being a gay stud- notsomuch. I'm a Pansexual stud. EVERYONE loves Candi. Everyone but you, it seems.

You know what kinda irks me about candicame? How hypocritical he is. You know I love you candicame but you're a hypocritical bastard!

Amy. I called cc out when he was posting about his mother.
He went ON and ON about her, the disrespectful little... Talking about her substance abuse problems etc., etc. over on the General Board. Lots of shit that I don't want to repeat.
The whole time he was going ON about her, he was here on the GLBT forum, posting all about his little mushroom slash ecstacy slash marijuana parties!

Being the super-cool chickybabe that I am - I asked him if he'd thought about getting some help. Poor kid has had a bit of a shit run lately. Medical condition. Drug addiction. Being fired from his job etc, etc. The response? "Oh yeah she likes me. Mwahaha. She reads all my posts, she's a stalker." Or summat like that.

Cc - why are you calling me "the butterfly lady" ???
Like you haven't replied to my posts before. Like you've never sent me PMs... LOL *ribs*

I think that's just a cultural thing- that hypocrisy. That's not to say that it isn't hypocritical, just that around here, that particular, clan hypocrisy is not only valued, it is expected. You can say anything you want about your mother, but if anyone else does, then you respond with anger. It's just a cultural thing- collectivist, yes. Hypocritical, yes. I own up to it. I totally do it all the time, not just with my mother, but with anyone I like. However, I do not see it as a character flaw, because culturally, it is normal, and harms noone.

As for the second paragraph, I'll leave it to anyone who has read the posts of both people involved to see if they take away the same thing as GS here from that conversation.

I call you "the butterfly lady" frequently because I remember your avatar better then your name because I have a phobia of butterflies. I honestly don't care enough about most posters to remember their names- I usually go by avatar- the bad thing about that is that when they change them, it fucks with me.

 

[girlsmiley]

It's brought up because you are the LAST person to be pointing out flaws.
Like entricity said, why bother? I'm not going to post links or go ON like you are about PMs, alright? Unlike some, if Amy has something to say, she'll say it to your face. She won't run and yuck it up with her little "buddies" on the GB.
Just own your shit Candi. Own it and leave Amy alone.

That's it. Nothing to see here folks

Have a great day everyone!

 

[Stella_Omega]

My first day on the board, I noticed that people were being very rude to girlysmiley, so I sent her a PM saying that it seemed to me that she was being called out, and that it wasn't right. There was nothing sexually explicit in it. Then I went to work.

I came back and she had posted on the same forum she was being called out in and asked me not to pm her, so I sent her one last message containing an apology. She then went on and on about how those two messages were offensive, despite containing no offensive material. I asked if she would just like to post them, to clear my name, but a moderator told me that this was against the site's rules. Why it is still even brought up confuses me, both then and now. I learned that you could not try and be nice to her, because apparently any attention at all, even something as simple as, "I don't think people should be picking on you" means that you want to fuck her.

No good deed goes unpunished...

You however, can post your own messages publicly, as long as they don't violate privacy or any of the very few other rules of literotica.

 

[girlsmiley]

No good deed goes unpunished...

You however, can post your own messages publicly, as long as they don't violate privacy or any of the very few other rules of literotica.

PMs are not allowed to be posted. Read the forum rules and stop being a shit stirring cunt, alright? Etoile's already told him, so how bout leaving it at that, hmm? Stella?

 

[CandiCame]

No good deed goes unpunished...

You however, can post your own messages publicly, as long as they don't violate privacy or any of the very few other rules of literotica.

ARE YOU SERIOUS!?!?!

I really wish I had known this before I cleared my messages! It would have cleared everything up at once!!!

The moderator with the buroque avatar told me that you couldn't even post them with the original author's permission! I was afraid of being banned!

It's all over now, I suppose. *shrug*
BTW, Stella- whycome you were so quick to believe that I would do that?
Why am I
so
fucking
typical?
Just out of curiosity. I'm not sure that I've ever been called "typical" before. I always liked you... I don't know what I did to make you think that I would be a douchebag for no reason- I might be stupid and I might be catty, but I've never been a complete dick for no reason. A lot of people here are mean to me, but you really helped me through a difficult time and were always really nice and supportive. It kinda hurts my feelings, coming from you.

 

[girlsmiley]

I can forward them to you. Not a prob.
Just don't be surprised when Etoile tells you off for posting 'em, K?

 

[CandiCame]

I can forward them to you. Not a prob.
Just don't be surprised when Etoile tells you off for posting 'em, K?

Etoile! That was her name.

Wait, you still have those? From, like, months ago?

Aaaaaw! I think that was my first pm from way back when I was all new and naive to the site! It'll be like getting bronzed baby booties. I think that you might have even been the first person I pmed.

That kinda makes me feel all fuzzy inside.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I didn't assume, I said "IF this was true."

And IF you had-- if in fact you've done this-- and in a way you have, in this very thread-- than yes, it's so very typical of the kinds of insults hetero men hand out to lesbians-- which is why some lesbians don't bother to hide their anger and hatred anymore-- and they get blamed for that.

If in fact it isn't true, and Safe Bet and GS are just shouting wild accusations out there-- it's kind of what I expect from GS. but it kind of surprises me that SB would do that.

it isn't as though anyone needs to make shit up. There's plenty of real insults and injuries at hand.

 

[girlsmiley]

Etoile! That was her name.

Wait, you still have those? From, like, months ago?

Aaaaaw! I think that was my first pm from way back when I was all new and naive to the site! It'll be like getting bronzed baby booties. I think that you might have even been the first person I pmed.

That kinda makes me feel all fuzzy inside.

See? Haha! You just can't help yourself!

Ask me nicely.

 

[CandiCame]

I didn't assume, I said "IF this was true."

And IF you had-- if in fact you've done this-- and in a way you have, in this very thread-- than yes, it's so very typical of the kinds of insults hetero men hand out to lesbians-- which is why some lesbians don't bother to hide their anger and hatred anymore-- and they get blamed for that.

If in fact it isn't true, and Safe Bet and GS are just shouting wild accusations out there-- it's kind of what I expect from GS. but it kind of surprises me that SB would do that.

it isn't as though anyone needs to make shit up. There's plenty of real insults and injuries at hand.

I guess that I'm just not understanding what I'm doing wrong- it isn't me going out of my way to be a jerk- I really don't understand.

I frequently get GS and SB confused because they're so similar- if one would do it, then the other probably would as well. I'm nearly convinced that they're alts of each other. *shrugs* Maybe that's just in regard to me.

She did accuse me of wanting to have sex with her. I explained that I didn't. I think I have a right not to want to have sex with someone based on their personality. Hell, I personally think that someone can not want to have sex with someone for any reason- regardless of how shallow and unfounded it is- I might not understand it. I don't understand why you would not want to have sex with someone because of their past partners (who are buried, in the past) for example. But that doesn't mean that I deny them the ability to do that. Hell, you can not want to fuck someone because you don't like the cut of their jib.

Having said that- I've always wondered what a jib is and how it is SUPPOSED to be cut.

 

[CandiCame]

See? Haha! You just can't help yourself!

Ask me nicely.

It is a shame you don't like cuckolding though- you would be good at it. We've lost what I can only assume is an amazing dom.

You positive you don't need an outlet for some of that anger?



I mean, I don't clot.
It's pretty awesome.

 

[girlsmiley]

It is a shame you don't like cuckolding though- you would be good at it. We've lost what I can only assume is an amazing dom.

You positive you don't need an outlet for some of that anger?



I mean, I don't clot.
It's pretty awesome.

^^^ projection.

What's cuckolding, precious?

 

[CandiCame]

^^^ projection.

What's cuckolding, precious?

It's not projection somuch as it is... well, what it is.

Kinda what he was asking about earlier- I meant it as a general term for guys who like it when people are mean to them.

On an unrelated note: I found a pic that I think explains my relationship with the rainbow flower chicky.

http://i.saucesome.net/NDV.gif

 

[Stella_Omega]

I guess that I'm just not understanding what I'm doing wrong- it isn't me going out of my way to be a jerk- I really don't understand.

I'm not sure if you are doing anything wrong, and in fact I think i was thinking of something twister said, not you.

I frequently get GS and SB confused because they're so similar- if one would do it, then the other probably would as well. I'm nearly convinced that they're alts of each other. *shrugs* Maybe that's just in regard to me.

Semiotic subtext says they are two different people.

She did accuse me of wanting to have sex with her. I explained that I didn't. I think I have a right not to want to have sex with someone based on their personality. Hell, I personally think that someone can not want to have sex with someone for any reason- regardless of how shallow and unfounded it is- I might not understand it. I don't understand why you would not want to have sex with someone because of their past partners (who are buried, in the past) for example. But that doesn't mean that I deny them the ability to do that. Hell, you can not want to fuck someone because you don't like the cut of their jib.

Having said that- I've always wondered what a jib is and how it is SUPPOSED to be cut.

Haha as it happens I know this one.. a "jib" is one of the many many sails on an old-time Wooden ship, and it could be shaped a bunch of different ways. The ships carried a few of them, to be hauled out depending on which way the weather was going, and captains had long and loud arguments about the best shapes to use for different shaped ships and different winds...

(I wrote some Age Of Sail porn a few years back)

 

[CandiCame]

Haha as it happens I know this one.. a "jib" is one of the many many sails on an old-time Wooden ship, and it could be shaped a bunch of different ways. The ships carried a few of them, to be hauled out depending on which way the weather was going, and captains had long and loud arguments about the best shapes to use for different shaped ships and different winds...

(I wrote some Age Of Sail porn a few years back)

OMG- that means that in my head it can be a pirate thing! I fucking love pirates- you have no idea how happy that makes me!

I like the cut of your jib- and the style of your mustache.

 

[girlsmiley]

It's not projection somuch as it is... well, what it is.

Kinda what he was asking about earlier- I meant it as a general term for guys who like it when people are mean to them.

Hypocrite, much?
You say I'm mean and you're having a dig at Amy??
Sheesh cc!
I can be a nice girl to nice people.


Anyho, gotta run.
Behave yourselves

 

[CandiCame]

Hypocrite, much?
You say I'm mean and you're having a dig at Amy??
Sheesh cc!
I can be a nice girl to nice people.


Anyho, gotta run.
Behave yourselves

Call me a dirty skulldigger!

 

[Stella_Omega]

OMG- that means that in my head it can be a pirate thing! I fucking love pirates- you have no idea how happy that makes me!

I like the cut of your jib- and the style of your mustache.

If you want some POTC slash... Old School-- hella good literature-type writing-- PM me for the link

 

[Etoile]

The moderator with the buroque avatar

Etoile! That was her name.

Buh?

It's all over the forum, yanno. Like when you view the list of threads in GLBT, or the list of forums on Lit...

 

[CandiCame]

Buh?

It's all over the forum, yanno. Like when you view the list of threads in GLBT, or the list of forums on Lit...

It's not you, hun, it's me. I really, really have a hard time with names. It works that way in RL to- I remember things better in pictures. I can watch an entire movie or read a whole book and forget which name goes with which character. When you're reading, it's a pain in the ass. Especially if it's something like the "13th Story" or "13th Tale" or whatever it's called about the Twins- twins always have similar names anyway.

*Sweatdrop*

I remember avatars way better then names and often refer to people by their pic. It really fucks with me when folk change them up. It makes me stop a minute and go, "Who is that, now?"

 

[Safe_Bet]

It's not projection somuch as it is... well, what it is.

Kinda what he was asking about earlier- I meant it as a general term for guys who like it when people are mean to them.

On an unrelated note: I found a pic that I think explains my relationship with the rainbow flower chicky.

http://i.saucesome.net/NDV.gif

stu·pid *(stpd, sty-)

1. Slow to learn or understand; obtuse.
2. Tending to make poor decisions or careless mistakes.
3. Marked by a lack of intelligence or care; foolish or careless: a stupid mistake.
4. Dazed, stunned, or stupefied.
n.
A stupid or foolish person.
[Latin stupidus, from stupre, to be stunned.]


Yeah. That would be you, dude.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

stu·pid *(stpd, sty-)

1. Slow to learn or understand; obtuse.
2. Tending to make poor decisions or careless mistakes.
3. Marked by a lack of intelligence or care; foolish or careless: a stupid mistake.
4. Dazed, stunned, or stupefied.
n.
A stupid or foolish person.
[Latin stupidus, from stupre, to be stunned.]


Yeah. That would be you, dude.

I only entered this thread to do two things...

*gropes and hugs Amy*

There. Am out.