Ladies, do you think it's cheesy when...

[GracefullyYours]

...a man says, " I want to make love to you."?

At my work Christmas party a few nights ago, I was semi-drunkenly discussing seduction techniques with a few female co-workers. When I mentioned the phrase, they looked at eachother, laughed and told me. "No one calls it 'making love' anymore."

So has any man ever said it to you? I admit I've used it a few times in the heat of the moment. Is it just semantics to say fucking or making love? Is there a difference between how you fuck someone and how you would 'make love' to them?
Opinions ladies, pls!!!!

What?!?! Many men have said it, I say it, and I love it. It has a different connotation than, "I wanna fuck you" and "Let's have sex." Although...I like hearing those too.

 

[_Virginia_]

Unless it's someone that I really care for romantically (and vice versa), yes I think it's cheesy.

 

[NaturistLouise]

Making Love involves my entire Body, Mind and Heart.

Fucking makes me think of "Put in, take out, repeat if necessary".

You summed this thread up so eloquently.

 

[mtlm39]

Thanks for all the thoughtful responses. I finally published my first story here! Inspired by some of your views. It's called "MAKING LOVE INSIDE HER". Pls check it out and let me know what you think!
http://www.literotica.com/s/making-love-inside-her

 

[Saphs]

The two terms mean very different things to me. Making love is slow, sensual, romantic and meaningful. To fuck someone is fast, passionate and thrilling.

I think it's a nice thing to say. I like the more explicit terms, but if we're being romantic, making love will work.