Ladies: What kind of women do you prefer?

[PricelessT]

BiBunny, what you are facing is that some want to categorize that whole spectrum as bisexuality. As I made clear once before, bisexuality is not defined consistently...even among researchers. That's why we have "true lesbian" debates like this. Some people believe that you have to be equally or close to equally sexually attracted to both sexes in order to be classified as bisexual; others believe that even a little sexual attraction to the sex you do not favor makes you bisexual.

I have come across many in the gay/lesbian community who identify as gay instead of as bisexual because they are predominately gay and it would take a blue moon for them to have sex with/date the opposite sex.

 

[BiBunny]

Well if you have heterosexuals on one end of the spectrum and gays and lesbians on the other end, what do you suggest we call people who aren't either? (BTW, if you had FF sex then they weren't heterosexuals, for at least a little while! )

You're right, they weren't straight.

On FetLife, they use "heteroflexible" and "homoflexible." I think they're useful terms.

 

[PricelessT]

You've either got some serious reading comprehension problems or you're blinded by your hatred of me.

Neither. What you have shown, like often, is that you failed to comprehend what I wrote. But since you act like I spew nothing but ridiculousness, it's expected. So whatever.

BTW, I was raped, I wasn't "attracted". Also, I'm glad you have Stella agreeing with you, but as a bisexual, she doesn't get to be determining who is a lesbian either.

I'm sorry that you were raped. I truly am. I have experience with that subject, and won't go into any further detail than that. I will say that I don't think Stella quite identifies as bisexual and that I've had more than her agreeing with me.

 

[Stella_Omega]

others believe that even a little sexual attraction to the sex you do not favor makes you bisexual

If someone wants to believe that of themselves, then I am perfectly willing to support their right to define themselves that way. But if someone who fucks around once every few years -- or whatever measure of time they consider "A blue moon"-- wants to define themselves as lesbian, or gay, or straight-- I won't argue with them about that.

On FetLife, they use "heteroflexible" and "homoflexible." I think they're useful terms.

Yeah, I could call myself homoflexible these days, it feels pretty accurate. For me.