Light BDSM videos?

[zoe8]

Hi. First post here. I tried to do a search of this forum but I couldn't find what I was looking for. Hopefully this is ok to ask here.

I was wondering if someone could suggest some light BDSM porn or videos? My husband and I just started playing around with some aspects of bdsm.. and right now we are just playing around but I would love to nudge him in the in the direction of being my master. I thought maybe some light BSDM videos would help. He knows how to fuck me and he is naturally dominant but I want him to dominate me more.

I see these BSDM 101 videos but I wasn't sure if they were too instructional. All I can think of is Home & Garden network... like they are going to break down fucking into some 3 step process... and well that's a turn off.

I'd use the power of the internet to find something but its hard to find milder stuff on the web. I try searching and I come across a fist somewhere were I don't want it to be and I'm turned off. My husband is much better at finding that stuff on the web but this was going to be part of a birthday surprise.

If it helps what turns me on spanking, slapping, pinching, biting, control, light bondage, anal. Turn offs fisting, pissing, animals, genital torture

 

[zoe8]

Oh thank you. That looks perfect! Its at the top of my netflix queue >

 

[Roleplay_Mom]

Secretary had great potential, but I wasn't really into the way it ended.

 

[starflip]

Secretary had great potential, but I wasn't really into the way it ended.

I completely agree. I loved how it showed that he eventually broke her and that she was his, but the end made it seem as if they began their lives as a quaint little couple. What happened to the saddle and the spanking????

 

[KellysCrack]

If you would like to take it into an adult film Adam & Eve have a video called the surrender of O. it is light.

 

[zoe8]

I got Secretary and tried watching it... tension is building between the two of them and then the movie skips... and its a scence with her inspecting her reddened ass. Obviously I missed the spanking.

I'll look for that movie Kellys thanks.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I got Secretary and tried watching it... tension is building between the two of them and then the movie skips... and its a scence with her inspecting her reddened ass. Obviously I missed the spanking.

I'll look for that movie Kellys thanks.

Hmmm, the time I remember her checking her ass is after that first spanking.

And I definitely saw that. I'll never look at proof reading the same way again!

*grumbles about censored versions and decides to condone 'acquisition' of said movie through other means*

 

[WriterDom]

http://www.empflix.com/view.php?id=24498

that site has a lot in their extreme section. Some running over an hour.

 

[iluvyou3638]

have some porn.

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=72e4b797d8715874cdd5

 

[zoe8]

No, the movie was scratched for a scene and a half. I was so disappointed I didn't try watching the rest. Gonna return and get another.

 

[MasterTennessee]

Go to sexandsubmission website and download their free trailers. I think you'll purchase a membership after that.

 

[olsixrod]

Well, I followed the links and discovered Desirae Spencer. This lady is a class act. I've been letting my G/F watch the video's for ideas in our roleplay. We both very much enjoy them. I'm slowly introducing her to my dominant side. (My last G/F was a greedy pain slut, lots of fun to play with, but alas, we just couldn't live together,) So I'm going real slow and easy with this one.

Does anyone have links to more of this style video? I think they would be a very valuable training aid for both of us. Thanks.

 

[EttienneB]

My choices...

I'd suggest "Lust, Caution," the recent movie by Ang Lee who made "Brokeback Mountain."
I'd also suggest "The Lover," which is the autobiographical adaptation of Margurite Duras, when she was 14 in Saigon in 1928.
...and "Black Orchids."

 

[zoe8]

Lust, Caution is on netflix instant play. I'll watch it tonight. I couldn't find Black Orchids but The Black Orchid... is that what you meant?