Possible Bdsm Kink with GF

[Mrsinful]

Hi I recently lost a bet with my long term gf . We have lived together a while. If I lost the bet no more sex until marriage. Well I lost the bet and she has been walking around naked and teasing me. She was laughing while playing with my hard dick and said " I bet you so horny you wouldn't care if you got me pregnant ". Then she said she is tired of working and wants to be a stay at home wife. Then she stroked me some more and said " im glad you lost, I love torturing you. You know what you got to do "

So even though I don't have a cage , would this count as bdsm ?

 

[Boat1]

Hi I recently lost a bet with my long term gf . We have lived together a while. If I lost the bet no more sex until marriage. Well I lost the bet and she has been walking around naked and teasing me. She was laughing while playing with my hard dick and said " I bet you so horny you wouldn't care if you got me pregnant ". Then she said she is tired of working and wants to be a stay at home wife. Then she stroked me some more and said " im glad you lost, I love torturing you. You know what you got to do "

So even though I don't have a cage , would this count as bdsm ?

IMHO, she definitely has the signs of the mental aspect of it and it sounds like she LOVES the powerplay aspect as well...
If you're interested, I'd tell you to invite her to "roll with it!"
...just my two cents from the happiest male slave sub on the planet!

 

[Mrsinful]

Oh she is definitely going to " roll with it". Thank you for your kind reply.

 

[LtxGdss]

It’s denial hun, and it’s empowering. She is finding herself, and with that you are finding your place.

If it’s right for you both the denial dynamic will bind you closer rather than push you apart. Make sure you communicate and share your feelings on the experiences.

 

[Mrsinful]

Thank you for your kind response. She is definitely enjoying teasing me and it is hot. I enjoy it , She says im.not getting it until we get married.