*sigh*
Lilly, you and your marketers are hell-bent on giving me a coronary. Product specs, gotta have this marketability factor, gotta look like this, gotta have this button, why doesn't it look like this, why doesn't it do this...
So I'm still at work at 6:30 in the evening.
That's it?
Good question - but first I must clarify something. I started this thread because I was about to turn 40 and we all know what happens as we age - Time starts to move across the body and things start to fall to the floor and lines crawl all over the face - it happens to everyone. I wanted to capture my body at this phase in my life before it all falls to the ground. Because I am a nice person, I decided to share it with the world. If I didn't already have confidence, I wouldn't be here.
Now that we have that cleared up.... Everything I am about to say is based on "general" info and sterotypes. I realize it might be different for you...
People in their 20's are starting out looking for love. All the dreams and possibilities that come with love are new and exciting and you feel like you can tackle anything.
People in their 40's are usually just coming out of Divorce. They are not so stary-eyed about love and relationships. So they approach the entire dating process differently. We tend to have more of a criteria set in mind for those we choose to date. We also know ourselves better and what we want (and dont want)
Women in their 20's want to get married... They want a wedding. I can't tell you how many woman I have talked to that "dream about their wedding day", but they never really give any thought to the marriage they want.
Women in their 40's have been married - or in long term relationships. Most of us have children we are raising (now alone), and that in itself will put that much more pressure on any man who wants to be in our lives. We are picky.
Men in their 40's usually are not the full time parent. They have more free time, they are well established in their careers and have time and energy to date for "fun" or casually.
Me personally, I never had children (by choice) and I am a widow of only 2 years. So the whole dating thing is really a chore for me right now. I had a person who knew me better than anyone - so trying to date and start all over seems like work right now. And we all know how much I love work
. And as always U SMOKIN HOTTT!!!
Also I require no drama and financial independence as well. 
And good sex.Wait, how do i get in on this? Hmmm,( maybe i can convince endlessnameless that he has the wrong address, ya that should do it! Then lilly and I will leave before he figures it out! ) are you a fan of the theater by chance Lilly?
Good question - but first I must clarify something. I started this thread because I was about to turn 40 and we all know what happens as we age - Time starts to move across the body and things start to fall to the floor and lines crawl all over the face - it happens to everyone. I wanted to capture my body at this phase in my life before it all falls to the ground. Because I am a nice person, I decided to share it with the world. If I didn't already have confidence, I wouldn't be here.
Now that we have that cleared up.... Everything I am about to say is based on "general" info and sterotypes. I realize it might be different for you...
People in their 20's are starting out looking for love. All the dreams and possibilities that come with love are new and exciting and you feel like you can tackle anything.
People in their 40's are usually just coming out of Divorce. They are not so stary-eyed about love and relationships. So they approach the entire dating process differently. We tend to have more of a criteria set in mind for those we choose to date. We also know ourselves better and what we want (and dont want)
Women in their 20's want to get married... They want a wedding. I can't tell you how many woman I have talked to that "dream about their wedding day", but they never really give any thought to the marriage they want.
Women in their 40's have been married - or in long term relationships. Most of us have children we are raising (now alone), and that in itself will put that much more pressure on any man who wants to be in our lives. We are picky.
Men in their 40's usually are not the full time parent. They have more free time, they are well established in their careers and have time and energy to date for "fun" or casually.
Me personally, I never had children (by choice) and I am a widow of only 2 years. So the whole dating thing is really a chore for me right now. I had a person who knew me better than anyone - so trying to date and start all over seems like work right now. And we all know how much I love work
Ooh. I wanna ask all the fun questions!I seriously love when you post things like this. Completely non-sexual, just your personal thoughts and opinions. I like knowing more about you! You're such a cool chick. You should do a Q&A or something!
Hi Lilly, sorry for your loss even if it has been awhile ago. Moving forward don't settle, you deserve a guy that will lay the world at your feet and than ask if you want anything else. Only the best for the best
Well, of course. *strikes a cool pose and flicks back his hair all cool like* lol the only one I seriously couldn't do is the grill thing. However, I can fix your car so I figure it to be a good trade-off.
Wait, how do i get in on this? Hmmm,( maybe i can convince endlessnameless that he has the wrong address, ya that should do it! Then lilly and I will leave before he figures it out! ) are you a fan of the theater by chance Lilly?
I seriously love when you post things like this. Completely non-sexual, just your personal thoughts and opinions. I like knowing more about you! You're such a cool chick. You should do a Q&A or something!
Ooh. I wanna ask all the fun questions!
You should have a Q&A too, SB.
Oh be careful what you wish for! I have an opinion about everything - and I'm always right.
Not meant as a send-off, just the "re-entry" into the dating scene, sorry!!That sounds like a send off - I'm not going anywhere! lol. But thank you for the sentiment.
Careful there! You are close to loosing your Lurker status!
You know what they say about appearances!
I would only a pick a man who knew it.
No man! They make good handlebars!
Thank you - welcome to the thread!
See... this is what I'm talking about. I come back into my thread to find all these sexy men quietly sitting in the corner discussing how fabulous I am. Just makes me want to roll around on all of you.
What a series and wish I was there to hand you the towel when you got out lolI don't think so. And I've never faked a sarcasm in my life.
See... this is what I'm talking about. I come back into my thread to find all these sexy men quietly sitting in the corner discussing how fabulous I am. Just makes me want to roll around on all of you.
's to your hand*
lily this are super pictures. Very arousing
Missed you!Absolutely stunning! The photo effect makes your features almost dream-like. I know what will be in my head tonight...
*gentle
Just found out that a major project got cancelled at my work, so I might actually get to sleep between February and August.
Stunning photos! I sent you a special PM, but have some tissues ready when you read it.
Got it, already replied to it. Keep up!
