Lit Chat people Vs. Lit Forum people

[CurvyButterfly1978]

@CurvyButterfly1978 you are my inspiration.

i enjoy making guys cum w my dirty talk in PMs.
but only recently did someone want me to watch.
sounds like chat + signal is the way to go for quick action.
slower PMs have worked well for me and have advantages.

Get it girl!! It's so much fun to watch them stroke and twitch to your voice, commands, temptation of you possibly showing something..****!!

 

[fitfidelityfifty64]

Get it girl!! It's so much fun to watch them stroke and twitch to your voice, commands, temptation of you possibly showing something..****!!

Saying you're not going to give it up, making us work for it, is so hot...then the payoff, amazing. Hearing a woman is almost enough...but seeing anything, a thigh, feet, is so good especially if she wants to see me stroking.

 

[Beholders_Eye]

I am a long time Lit member. For years I spent my time mostly in the chat rooms and it's only recently that I started to explore the forums.
I couldn't help but notice that Lit members are divided into two distinct groups: those that only interact in the chat rooms and those that only interact in the forums. In my experience there is little overlap.

Do you agree with this observation and why do you thing that is? Do you ever visit the chat rooms?

I think there is a third group: those who only read and write stories in the story section of Lit. I enjoy reading selected stories when I am in the throes of lust...

 

[JudyOfOregon]

I think there is a third group: those who only read and write stories in the story section of Lit. I enjoy reading selected stories when I am in the throes of lust...

yes indeed. for years i only read stories, uninterested in anything else.
joined to publish my 1st story, and then a second. always looking for
the likes, scores, comments. then the forums/threads & PMs.

 

[StarGazer58]

I tried chat first and really had a bad experience.people were very rude, like making fun of my name and implying I'm a prostitute.

I got mad and called them out and their friends piled on. I tried to stand up for myself and a moderator told me to stop arguing or I'd be kicked out.

I tried again a few days later, and everyone just ignored me and I was completely invisible.

I stsyed away from Lit entirely for months. Recently I tried Forum and it's been wonderful!

Yes, chat and forum people are different. Forum people are mostly normal and nice, while chat people are rude pigs.

Wow, I never would have thought that people on chat would be like that. Guess I have not been on chat enough to see that happening.

 

[StarGazer58]

Get it girl!! It's so much fun to watch them stroke and twitch to your voice, commands, temptation of you possibly showing something..****!!

Interesting. I don't mind a woman watching me masturbate but if she is not participating with me, that is not nearly as much fun. I want to hear her as her passion grows, I want to know she is as aroused as me. Someone barking commands at me does not seem like much fun. If I am showing, then she should be showing too.

 

[athelticguy04]

i've never tried the Lit chat only been in the forms. always open to talking to women and making new friends

 

[CurvyButterfly1978]

Interesting. I don't mind a woman watching me masturbate but if she is not participating with me, that is not nearly as much fun. I want to hear her as her passion grows, I want to know she is as aroused as me. Someone barking commands at me does not seem like much fun. If I am showing, then she should be showing too.

You would be amazed the number of times a man just hearing my voice, not barking commands, but gently coaxing to have them stroke their cock for me, set the pace, complimenting them on the length, girth, pre-cum dripping from the tip, gets them off with minimal showing myself. But luckily I am all for showing and joining in as I enjoy it as well - to each their own...

 

[AlwaysInTrouble]

I've enjoyed this thread and it's spawned a few corollary questions I want to throw out to the group:
1. Do you use the same Lit Handle in Chat and the Forum? (I want to know who to look for!)
2. What Rooms do you frequent?

I eat my own cooking so here are my answers
1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts; Humiliation/Degradation; Consensual Non-Consent; MILF Next Door; Secretly Slutty; Phone Fun; Dom/Sub Den

 

[lovemaster]

I've enjoyed this thread and it's spawned a few corollary questions I want to throw out to the group:
1. Do you use the same Lit Handle in Chat and the Forum? (I want to know who to look for!)
2. What Rooms do you frequent?

I eat my own cooking so here are my answers
1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts; Humiliation/Degradation; Consensual Non-Consent; MILF Next Door; Secretly Slutty; Phone Fun; Dom/Sub Den

1. Yes
2. Detailed Roleplay, No Limit Girls, Anal Angels, Hotel Bar Seductions, Curvy Girls, the occasional audition/casting themed room, and more...

 

[CurvyButterfly1978]

I've enjoyed this thread and it's spawned a few corollary questions I want to throw out to the group:
1. Do you use the same Lit Handle in Chat and the Forum? (I want to know who to look for!)
2. What Rooms do you frequent?

I eat my own cooking so here are my answers
1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts; Humiliation/Degradation; Consensual Non-Consent; MILF Next Door; Secretly Slutty; Phone Fun; Dom/Sub Den

1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts, Curvy Girls, Woman Who Watch Men on Cam...especially the last but have developed long term sexships with some from the Chat side. Several now have my Google Chat handle. I have also dipped my toe in a few other rooms but not enough to recommend them yet...

 

[MiaBabe23]

I found chat to have a lotta excitement and fun that’s much more infrequent on the threads, although it can happen
The difference here I guess is that you get the a more rounded sense of people. There are those I’ve considered flirting with, but then seen something unsettling that you wouldn’t have ever seen in chat, and also fun things I’ve discovered about others that wouldn’t otherwise have been apparent

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts, Curvy Girls, Woman Who Watch Men on Cam...especially the last but have developed long term sexships with some from the Chat side. Several now have my Google Chat handle. I have also dipped my toe in a few other rooms but not enough to recommend them yet...

I’ve never hung out on chat. But if you are a regular there, maybe I should.

 

[mobleedzblue]

I’ve never had success getting chat to work, so I’ve barely explored it.

 

[hugh_jarce69]

I've enjoyed this thread and it's spawned a few corollary questions I want to throw out to the group:
1. Do you use the same Lit Handle in Chat and the Forum? (I want to know who to look for!)
2. What Rooms do you frequent?

1. Yes. (Never considered people would use something different)
2. Secretly Slutty, UK Room, Hairy Pussies, Stockings & Suspenders, Huge Tits.

Occasionally I’ve been in the CD/TV room where some of the friendliest people can be found.
And Masurbating Now is always a good experience

 

[Deepdesrp]

1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts, Curvy Girls, Woman Who Watch Men on Cam...especially the last but have developed long term sexships with some from the Chat side. Several now have my Google Chat handle. I have also dipped my toe in a few other rooms but not enough to recommend them yet...

For me yes - I started out on chat before working out that there was a forum that you could join and be able to message people.

Tended to go in the Horny Moms or Women that like porn pages as they were quite populated and i tend to converse easier with women of a similar age. But I do switch (if thats the right word) between being the driver and the receiver. Depend on my horny mood.

I'm currently exploring using my cock cage to lengthen out my days without orgasm - but would love to have some sort of femdom ish experience but I'm not a pure sub - if that makes sense.

But yes have made some good chat connections and longer DM message connections - although quite a few fade out with time.

 

[asxymann68]

On chat: Christian Wives; Women who like porn; 60 plus. All VERY hit and miss. Can be fun, can be pitifully quiet.

 

[EndCreditsPart2]

Forums are better for getting to know someone, a slow burn. Chat is better for something fast and furious that might not ever happen again.

I like the Playful Questions room. It's chill.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

On chat: Christian Wives; Women who like porn; 60 plus. All VERY hit and miss. Can be fun, can be pitifully quiet.

I'm going to give it another shot. But I have found that, whenever I go to any of their chat rooms, it is overwhelmingly male. More so than here, even. But here, you can spend time reading messages and reach out to the women you find interesting or intriguing for some reason.
Not that I always get responses, but I have had some success initiating conversations and every once in awhile, we click and have some fun.

I tried the 60 plus room. There was one name that sounded like it was a woman, but so many men. Can't figure out how to get a conversation started.

 

[hugh_jarce69]

I'm going to give it another shot. But I have found that, whenever I go to any of their chat rooms, it is overwhelmingly male. More so than here, even. But here, you can spend time reading messages and reach out to the women you find interesting or intriguing for some reason.
Not that I always get responses, but I have had some success initiating conversations and every once in awhile, we click and have some fun.

I tried the 60 plus room. There was one name that sounded like it was a woman, but so many men. Can't figure out how to get a conversation started.

Be careful of those females who seem keen to chat. They usually flounce into the room with “PM to chat”
All good so far, you might think. Pretty soon what they mean is “ask all questions & I’ll reply with one word answers - possibly every 5 minutes”

My best advice is to read the profiles first. They’ll give you some clues as to what to chat about or how not to approach. Some will happily tell you to fuck off before you’ve asked.
Can’t be easy for women on there as sometimes it can be like a swarm around them if they ever say hi in the room

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

@JudyOfOregon I have been reading stories here since the beginning. Its been 8 weeks since I started engaging with the Chat and Forum...Chat came first and I joined a room, was bombarded with offers, picked a few I liked and watched two guys cum via separate site links. You use Chat to procure the lover and another service to get the payoff Cam Chat session. I am a true whore and have done multiple rounds in a night, letting the room as a whole know I am interested in lots of friends, what I am willing to contribute as far as the Cam, will I watch, will I speak and comment on the show, will I show myself? And then the world is my playground...they are literally lining up and eating out of my hand at that point. And because I am an exhibitionist and voyeur I get off on it so much. Now for others start slower, find the room you like, introduce yourself and be honest about what you are interested in. Too many people try to play it coy or too polite. Chat to me is more like walking into a bar and saying "I'm looking to get fucked, anyone interested?" Decide on Chat text, or voice or video messages or full cam experience and find someone with a similar interests. I read profiles so I risk getting booted a few times but its worth it to me to pick the ones I will enjoy or am immediately turned off by, certain preferences I'm not into. It takes experimentation to get it right but I've probably seen 30 + guys cum for me in the last two months and actively participated with most of those. Worth it for those willing to make the effort.

You certainly are offering some inspiration for getting to understand Chat.
What third party site do you use for your cam session?

 

[Niartila_22]

I started just on the forums, but when I eventually worked out how to use the chat rooms I do enjoy going on there as well. Usually just to finish my evening off the chat rooms are definitely a lot more… intense

 

[Niartila_22]

I've enjoyed this thread and it's spawned a few corollary questions I want to throw out to the group:
1. Do you use the same Lit Handle in Chat and the Forum? (I want to know who to look for!)
2. What Rooms do you frequent?

I eat my own cooking so here are my answers
1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts; Humiliation/Degradation; Consensual Non-Consent; MILF Next Door; Secretly Slutty; Phone Fun; Dom/Sub Den

1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts; Humiliation/Degradation; Consensual Non-Consent; Secretly Slutty

 

[ElvieG]

I've enjoyed this thread and it's spawned a few corollary questions I want to throw out to the group:
1. Do you use the same Lit Handle in Chat and the Forum? (I want to know who to look for!)
2. What Rooms do you frequent?

I eat my own cooking so here are my answers
1. Yes
2. Subs/Slaves/Sluts; Humiliation/Degradation; Consensual Non-Consent; MILF Next Door; Secretly Slutty; Phone Fun; Dom/Sub Den

1. Yes
2. Secretly Slutty, Asian Women, Anal Angels

 

[crazysexywants]

@JudyOfOregon I have been reading stories here since the beginning. Its been 8 weeks since I started engaging with the Chat and Forum...Chat came first and I joined a room, was bombarded with offers, picked a few I liked and watched two guys cum via separate site links. You use Chat to procure the lover and another service to get the payoff Cam Chat session. I am a true whore and have done multiple rounds in a night, letting the room as a whole know I am interested in lots of friends, what I am willing to contribute as far as the Cam, will I watch, will I speak and comment on the show, will I show myself? And then the world is my playground...they are literally lining up and eating out of my hand at that point. And because I am an exhibitionist and voyeur I get off on it so much. Now for others start slower, find the room you like, introduce yourself and be honest about what you are interested in. Too many people try to play it coy or too polite. Chat to me is more like walking into a bar and saying "I'm looking to get fucked, anyone interested?" Decide on Chat text, or voice or video messages or full cam experience and find someone with a similar interests. I read profiles so I risk getting booted a few times but its worth it to me to pick the ones I will enjoy or am immediately turned off by, certain preferences I'm not into. It takes experimentation to get it right but I've probably seen 30 + guys cum for me in the last two months and actively participated with most of those. Worth it for those willing to make the effort.

Where have you been when I’m in chat?!