looking for help in masturbation

[wetkittengrl]

I feel like I am so lost in the world of masturbation, I'm 18 and I'm always terribly horny and I am bi, but I was wondering if any women had helpful detailed descriptions on how they get off so I might try them on myself. I'm craving a massive orgasm.

 

[artsmom]

I recently had an explosive orgasm using a vibrating dildo inside me and another vibrator on my clit. It took a little while to come, but when I did, WOW! My husband said he has never heard me come that loud before!

 

[horsie_gurl]

Okay what i do is read something or visualize in my head who i want to be there with me and mostly its just my fingers on my clit...maybe a dildo in my pussy but not the whole time. Sometimes i almost act out the sex with the dildo and whatnot. But like i said mostly my fingers on my clit. When i get closer to orgasm i pull my legs back and then push out with my inner muscles like when you are trying to pee and then i keep up the clit massage. when i cum when im pushing out its so much more intense.

 

[SweetErika]

I feel like I am so lost in the world of masturbation, I'm 18 and I'm always terribly horny and I am bi, but I was wondering if any women had helpful detailed descriptions on how they get off so I might try them on myself. I'm craving a massive orgasm.

I'm thinking a lot of us would like to hear what you've already tried first.

Otherwise, we may assume you're a (likely teenage) male masquerading as a woman to get fodder for masturbation.

 

[wetkittengrl]

I'm thinking a lot of us would like to hear what you've already tried first.

Otherwise, we may assume you're a (likely teenage) male masquerading as a woman to get fodder for masturbation.

I use my showerhead but I swear there has to be a better feeling, I aslo use a vibrator inside me, but it never gets me off, same with it on my clit.

 

[SweetErika]

I use my showerhead but I swear there has to be a better feeling, I aslo use a vibrator inside me, but it never gets me off, same with it on my clit.

How about a vibe on/around your clit, with plenty of lube?

Be aware that all vibes are NOT created equal. While a straight one in your pussy might not do anything, one with a good curve on your g-spot may be explosive. Something that takes AA/AAA batteries or doesn't provide focused stimulation usually won't do much for me, whereas a more powerful and focused vibe can give me better orgasms than anything else.

Trial and error is why I always read lots of reviews, find ones from women who say they like similar types of stimulation, price shop and shop on eBay. I usually choose well after a good amount of research, but it's no big loss if the toy isn't exactly what I need.

The only solution to your problem is creativity and a lot of exploration. Experiment with lubes, different positions, rhythms, movements, toys and fantasies (and/or stories). Once you figure out some of the things you really like, you can seek new ways to enhance, vary and replicate those feelings.

 

[PertPerth]

It took me years to learn how to orgasm, you just need to figure out what works for you.
I agree with all the other posts. One other thing that really helps me is to breathe - or pant rather! I also find that squeezing my pelvic floor muscles as tight as I can increases the strength of orgasm.

p.s. Vibrators have never done it for me

 

[M's girl]

Same here, vibrators and dildo's are nice additions but will never make me orgasm; still need my fingers for that. I'm lucky in that I never had to learn how to orgasm so I have no idea about what I'm doing and others don't which makes it hard(er) for them to cum.

Being relaxed (and making sure you are undisturbed), not feeling guilt and accepting that what seems to work for other women does not necessarily has to work for you are good things to start with....

 

[Guest]

showerhead and vibes

I use my showerhead but I swear there has to be a better feeling, I aslo use a vibrator inside me, but it never gets me off, same with it on my clit.

just like in sex, if you tease yourself first, delay your own orgasm until you can hold it no longer, you might get very different results. Vibrators work much too quickly. In the process of learning to delay things, you will become more aware of what you like, what works for you, and voila - you have more options

Happy hunting!

Maharat

 

[hugginbare]

needing help

First I would need to know more about you, age breast size, nipple type, clitoris protrusion and so on. The wheare your hot spots. Masturbation to orgasm is like making bread. There is a lot to do before puttiing the bread in the oven.....You need to be in the mood, in the right place, and work up to a massive orgasm......A good friend could help you here if you aren't too shy..
Let me know How I can help, I am a guy, and we were invented to cause orgasms and to service women properly.....

 

[SweetErika]

First I would need to know more about you, age breast size, nipple type, clitoris protrusion and so on. The wheare your hot spots. Masturbation to orgasm is like making bread. There is a lot to do before puttiing the bread in the oven.....You need to be in the mood, in the right place, and work up to a massive orgasm......A good friend could help you here if you aren't too shy..
Let me know How I can help, I am a guy, and we were invented to cause orgasms and to service women properly.....

You're kidding, right?

If men were invented to give women orgasms, many of them are useless.

And, if someone else is doing the stimulation, it's not masturbation now, is it?

 

[Eilan]

Masturbation to orgasm is like making bread.

Only when I have a yeast infection.

 

[hugginbare]

You're kidding, right?

If men were invented to give women orgasms, many of them are useless.

And, if someone else is doing the stimulation, it's not masturbation now, is it?

Well hey don't blame us guys that try to satisfy our companions for the shortcomings of those that only seek their own satisfaction. And yes, some women are useless also. Luckily I occasionally find a women that appreciates my efforts and responds in kind.
AS far as someone else doing the stimulation, NO, I meant you had to supply your own stimulus to get your juices flowing [pun] before you could really get off on your fantasy. That my sweet young thing is known as masturbation!

 

[princess4u]

my latest favorite toy for masturbation is the spin-brush toothbrush -
on my clit - i find the texture is perfect on my wet or lubed clit -
it's particularly nice in bed at night when i want to cum quickly before
going to sleeep ~

 

[M's girl]

...... Luckily I occasionally find a women that appreciates my efforts and responds in kind.

I would like to know how you define that ....

 

[hugginbare]

princess with a toothbrush

Oh my, to be a tooth fairy......I would love to see that, but arent the bristles kinda tough on your tender little clit? Can I use the brush after you???

As far as returning in kind, giving head to get head is not unheard of, I think it is a fair exchange. The main thing is that both parties need to have a tantric orgasm, simultaneously is great, but not always possible. I take pride in satisfying my partner, I feel it is very selfish and unfair to have a wham-bam-thankyou-ma'am and leave a woman hanging. If I can bring her to a mind-blowing, tooth-rattling cum then it is super good for me, I just have to hang on and go with the flow.

 

[Scuba_Steve69]

Books??

I know I am a guy but......I learned alot of my basics from reading books and then, put it to use and expand on what you learned.

This is a good one if you are interested.

https://paydotcom.com/r/9497/BlueFender/1306950/

 

[Scuba_Steve69]

wow......I'm supprised this went dead so fast.....

 

[__amy__]

Hey,

I agree with all the other posts, but the only thing I would say is to make sure you very lubricated, as for me this make everything all the better, and make it all the more sensitive. So I say the wetter the better!

This is just for me though, just keep trying and make sure u have fun doing so, and im sure you will amaze yourself soon!

 

[Immobile]

I always make sure I'm in a warm, comfortable room. Who wants to be cold, right? Being young as you are and when I was the same age, I was still learning a lot about my body so I wanted it to be real quiet with nobody home, or with blasting music in my room with the door locked. I especially liked doing it in front of a mirror then.

But now I prefer the the shower. I lie on the tub floor while the shower water is aimed at my crotch. I lift my head up from time to time and watch my fingers rub my clit. I start off very relaxed, very slow and in a circular motion and just let my mind wonder. It gets me off every time, but of course I must think about the last most exciting sexual experience I had with my partner.

I also like reading erotic stories or looking at porn before I do, but most of the time I don't need it.

 

[__amy__]

I especially liked doing it in front of a mirror then.

that’s always a good idea, I find it heightens your senses when you can see it as well as feel it, and it gives you a good chance to explore your own body as well

 

[hugginbare]

is it true??

Do girls/women actually masturbate or is it all a scam? I've never seen it and can't believe it it. Women can have any guy they want, anytime. I can see why us guys jerk off about women, but why do women have to?

 

[Eilan]

Do girls/women actually masturbate or is it all a scam? I've never seen it and can't believe it it. Women can have any guy they want, anytime. I can see why us guys jerk off about women, but why do women have to?

Women masturbate because they'd rather do that than have to depend on receiving orgasms from men like you.

Sorry, but you wanted to know.

 

[Reba67]

Do girls/women actually masturbate or is it all a scam? I've never seen it and can't believe it it. Women can have any guy they want, anytime. I can see why us guys jerk off about women, but why do women have to?

You're kidding me, right? "I've never seen it"??? And why on earth would anyone SHOW you with an attitude like that?

Why do guys jerk off? Women have the same kind of reasons....why do you think you're so special? Where do you get off saying that women can have any guy they want? That doesn't make any sense at all. And besides, why should a woman have to wait for a man in her life to have an orgasm.

 

[princess4u]

Do girls/women actually masturbate or is it all a scam? I've never seen it and can't believe it it. Women can have any guy they want, anytime. I can see why us guys jerk off about women, but why do women have to?

i know you must be kidding with that question.....

we don't masturbate because we have to, we masturbate because we want to ~