Making love or Fucking?

[Nicole]

LMAO @ Beebeeblue, but I'm so innocent you should know that

I still say fucking is better, I can't go for this slow romantic type, take me and take me now

 

[Beebeeblue]

--Standing at the door of Lit taking collections for Nicole to fly to the states and get her ass laid--


You need help honey... Ill do what I can.

 

[Nicole]

Oh thank-you Sweetie, thank-you.

{{{{{{{{{{{{Beebeeblue}}}}}}}}}}}}}

 

[Beebeeblue]

Oh thank-you Sweetie, thank-you.

{{{{{{{{{{{{Beebeeblue}}}}}}}}}}}}}

NOw dont go getting all mushy on me. I help out when I can.

 

[Coltrane]

excellent question that covers the range of sexuality

Making love and fucking both have their place and time. Both are wonderful, no, beyond wonderful.

Making love can be tender or funny, but it's always intimate.

Fucking is physical, driven by desire, the desire to give and receive pleasure.

*sigh*

BOTH, yes, both... *s*

 

[lickerish]

You can fuck the one you love... and it still feels like making love, and that's a nice feeling because u can fuck fuck FUCK! like mindless beings, and then gently take care of each other afterwards... hmmm uninhibited, wild, care-free, mind-blowing (or something blowing) fucking awesome sex, just because you are confident and trust your S.O.!

But if u don't love 'em, it's just fucking. Get laid, get up, get dressed, get gone. No fun.

Well, thats MY story and I'm stickin' to it...

 

[Skibum]

I know there is a difference, and I know it is an important difference, but I'm damned if I can put it into words. It has to do with the level of emotional involvement you have with your partner. Maybe fucking without love is just another form of masturbation.

 

[*Lazer*]

Fucking is mindless. Making love is mindful.

 

[DriveSouth]

Gotta agree with Nicole on this one...

Sometimes MS. South and I make love, slow, sensual, sensitive ...

But other times she wants no part of that kind of sex and we simply fuck, like we haven't done it in weeks, fast, furious uncontrolled, uninhibited.

 

[Nicole]

Thank-you Drive South. I always knew you could make love while Fucking.

Not everyone is into slow and sensual. Give me good hard rough sex anyday.

To Make Love and to Fuck are two different things, and like Skibum said no-one will ever be able to put in words the difference because, lets face it, Making love and Fucking are two different things to EVERYONE, no-one will ever agree on the diffrences.

Mind you it all feels good right, so go on then go Make Love or Fuck your other half Get outta here and go surprise them

 

[DriveSouth]

We like it both ways here, slow and soft and sweet sometimes and panty rippin' rough at others.

 

[teresafannin]

I think my sweetie & I have the best of both worlds. We make love for hours & it is wonderful. We also have straight on fuck sessions, where we want it & we want it NOW. I haven't been with him in a few weeks & am looking forward to tonight, almost as if it were the first time. My last romantic evening got derailed when he had to work late, that is not going to happen tonight. Romance tonight, who knows what tomorrow? Nicole, you know I wish you guys the best, when I win the lottery, plane tickets for everyone!!!

 

[Nicole]

Thanks Teresa, I would do the same for you, I really would

Go have fun tonight, I guess we won't be seeing you around then GOOD, and if we do then I guess something went wrong with his work again

{{{{{{{{{{{{Teresa}}}}}}}}}}}}} You go girl *giggle*

 

[GuyJD]

THIS IS AS I'VE SEEN IT SINCE I WAS A HORMONE RAGING TEEN-AGER

What to you is the difference between making love and Fucking, or do you even see a difference?

MAKING LOVE: This is sexual intercourse between a man &
woman who love each other.
HAVING SEX: Sexual intercourse between a man & woman who
may not be in love with one another but like
each other as friends or mere acquaintences (i.e., one night stand). Could include ex-boy-
friend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife.
FUCKING: Sexual intercourse between 2 people who has no in-
timacy for each other. This could also include
ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife, if the
couple prefers to have sex for the mere pleasure
rather than the love or emotions.

 

[brazenblaze]

Making Love: caressing, stroking, slow..sensual

Fucking: Hard, fast, furious ....rough.

Perfection...Making love then fucking then making love again!!!

 

[cheekyminx]

Re: I think the difference is this:

MAKING LOVE: Soft lustfull moans!
FUCKING: Loud animalistic screams!

MAKING LOVE: Strawberry Scented Candles Burning!
FUCKING: Any lights are fine..just do me now!!!

MAKING LOVE: Scented bubbles in a candle lit bath!
FUCKING: Hands holding the faucet while your head hits the tiled shower wall!

MAKING LOVE: The cool satin sheets!
FUCKING: The plastic sheet with baby oil poured all over it!

MAKING LOVE: The smooth jazz, barely echoing through the room!
FUCKING: Heavy metal music, rocking almost as hard as the bed!

MAKING LOVE: Your sweetie whispering in your ear..."oooohh god you feel soooo good"
FUCKING: Your lover whispering in your ear "Ooooohhh god, what did you say your name was...you feel soooo good!

couldnt agree more...lol at the last line.

 

[GuyJD]

WELL ACCORDING TO MANY OF THE WOMEN WITH WHOM I'VE BEEN.....

I will never understand: Why do women say that they want to be made love to, but during a heated orgasm they constantly screams out....FUCK ME, BABY...FUCK ME HARDER? YES, FUCK ME SWEET DADDY...?
The world may never know the answer to that one!!! (LOL)

 

[Beebeeblue]

thats what being a woman is all about...keeping you men on your toes.

 

[Nobody Special]

I remember a thread like this a wile back, but hey My views on it has not really changed.. Some of the answers here are close to what I have said and some comparisons are not really comparisons but can be in both piles of Making Love and Fucking.

Now First of all Making Love, can involve and usually does involve... FUCKING.. Tho you don't need to Fuck, or have SEX (No Matter What Positions, Locations, How Hard or How Soft) to Make Love.. Making love is the ways of intimitly showing your significant other that you love them by sharing feelings and becoming one with our Significant other.. Most of the time Sex and Fucking is involved but can also just be Cuddling and watching a movie with each other..

Now Fucking, tho it can be part of Making Love, is just the Physical action of having SEX..

Now Making love is not Having Sex or Fucking and Fucking is NOT Making Love.. If you havn't ever made love to any one then it is even harder to comprehend this concept.. but once you have made love to some one you will know that what I just said is just brief discription of what the feelings are..

Now One thing that a lot of People get confused on is Confusing Sex For Love.. another is the kinds of Sex with just plain Fucking and Love.. Like I said Before You don't need to Fuck (or have Sex) to be Making Love, But Making Love can Lead to the Best Fucking (or Sex) that you have ever had..

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[NWIA lady]

3 kinds

fucking = no feeling at all (one night stands)

sex = one person with feelings for the other or just friends

making love = when the 2 of you are truely in love

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Fucking: your passion is for the fuck
Making love: your passion is for the lover

After the last post I think I'll add . . .

Having sex: there is no passion, you just go through the motions

 

[MinkSoul]

Having sex: there is no passion, you just go through the motions

kind of like masturbating, but, instead of using your hand you use eachother...

 

[Mortto56]

Personally I have my times when I want to make love,and then there is times when I just want a "WHAM-BAM-THANKYOU MAAM!" type fucking.

I enjoy both.

Nice romantic evening in a motel room,with candles,drinks,toys,and my fine wife.
Rubbing each other with warm body oils,and licking,kissing each other.
Sliding up and down one another,from the slickness of the warm oil.

Then there is:
Walk in the door from a hard day at work,see the ol'lady standing in the kitchen,grab her,and put her on the floor,pull her pants down,and just start fucking away.We can do that now,now that the kids are grown up and gone.

So does that make me a "middle of the road" kind of guy?

 

[SweetCherry]

Well, I think it means your wife is a lucky lady who has the best of both worlds, Mortto!

 

[Mortto56]

Well, I think it means your wife is a lucky lady who has the best of both worlds, Mortto!

"Well Thankyou!"

I try to do my best to please her,and she does her best to please me.
Thats how we've stayed married 24 years.