Making myself "Sterile"?

[Ljbonobo]

Other so-called "natural methods" of birth control involve monitoring the woman's internal temperature very accurately over a period of time on a calendar that you also chart her cycle on. IF, and I repeat IF you do it extremely accurately and the exact same time of the day and everything perfect, you should see a small rise in her temperature just before she ovulates. The other method involves watching for the appearance of a mucus plug that signifies that ovulation has occurred. Both of these are not fail safes, and are difficult to do accurately and you should contact a medical professional (or the local planned parenthood) for more detailed information.

However, I agree with an earlier post, if she doesn't want to use condoms with you, then who else hasn't she used condoms with?

 

[drummer34]

Vasectomies are Free over here (Denmark). The worst part was after i had shaved of the hairs and lay ready for the surgery. The surgeon applied some desinfectant and WOW....... i shot up in the ceiling and yellled. He turned to the nurse and said "We really oughta get a desinfectant that doesn't sting that bad"
Other that that i did not have many problems. I was out playing the drums the day after allthough i DID have someone help me carry the things. and after a week everything functioned fine again.

 

[GreenCU24]

However, I agree with an earlier post, if she doesn't want to use condoms with you, then who else hasn't she used condoms with?

2 other guys. One being a boyfriend she had for a year and a half, and the other was a friend of hers, apparently they were both lonely one night... lol

 

[Jayashiangel]

Protect yourself and your partner.....

I think you need to stop and decide that what is most important...Sex is Sex but a baby doesn't go away very easy...Stop and look at all the options you have.. and decide what is best for you not just for her.....Use a condom and spermicide.. condoms alone are not 100% but remember it is up to you and her....so maybe you can not have intercourse but play a different way.. but erotic massages, etc.......just remember that oral sex is not safe either you can get things that way too.....maybe first you both need to get tested.....as see each others results.. just because she says she is clean maybe she isn't........but most of all do what you need to do.. and if that doesn't work use your HAND !!!!!!!!! Can't go wrong there...unless you do know what your doing...*wink*