Male bisexuality and the Kinsey scale

[mywife4othermen]

I was curious about the test so I took it and scored a 0. Of course I have had sex with two transgender women but I consider them women. Even after I went back and answered a couple of the questions differently considering the transgender women as men, I still scored a 0 which kind of surprised me.

I am a 2. I am orally-bi but only (?!!?) on a limited basis i.e. with a couple of other men who were about to fuck my wife or who had just done so. I have indulged in mutual masturbation and fondling with another man while talking about my wife and using her panties as play-things. I love MMF sex but gay porn does nothing for me and I still, for some reason, find it hard to see a male gay couple walking down the raod holding hands although I have absolutely no objection to it.

 

[Escierto]

I am a 2. I am orally-bi but only (?!!?) on a limited basis i.e. with a couple of other men who were about to fuck my wife or who had just done so. I have indulged in mutual masturbation and fondling with another man while talking about my wife and using her panties as play-things. I love MMF sex but gay porn does nothing for me and I still, for some reason, find it hard to see a male gay couple walking down the raod holding hands although I have absolutely no objection to it.

I don’t mind seeing a gay couple holding hands but it makes me nauseous seeing a gay male couple engaged sexually or even kissing on television. A gay female couple - oh hell yeah.

 

[bobb64]

i scored a 4. i prefer sex with a man but do not want a full time relationship with them.

 

[Iwanttwo]

Growing up I would have scored a 0, totally straight. I had several crushes on guy friends, but never put 2 and 2 together. I was in denial and scared of being gay. Several years ago a gay friend helped me explore my feelings and curiousity. I knew I had a crush on him and looked forward to seeing him and talking, and looking into his beautiful eyes. I finally got up the courage and gave him a blowjob. I loved it, especially him cumming in my mouth. We then kissed, and I felt happier and more comfortable with him than I ever felt with a woman.

I’m now a solid 5 on the scale and feel so much better now being honest with myself.

 

[Uggg]

I found it really interesting reading people's comments in this thread...

So many men expressed the sentiment that they are just into men for the sex and prefer women for emotional attachment.

That surprised me as I feel quite differently, I really crave an emotionally intimate relationship with a guy. I would say the desire for emotional intimacy was greater than that for sexual intimacy.

I think my background has programmed me to always be on guard around guys, there has always been some kind of an element of competition or rivalry and now I can't really completely open up with men.
I haven't (yet) found a guy I can comfortably drop all my walls for but it is something I desire.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Scored a 1... guess not surprising
Results can be self determined on tests like this

 

[pussycatmeowth]

I scored a 4.

I do think some of the questions may not have that much influence though. The sexuality of your friends for example. I don't have many gay friends, but it doesn't change the fact, that I find some guys attractive and would enjoy having sex with them, as I do with women too.

Porn however, I think can be a much more reliable indicator.

An example of this. If someone had put two magazines in front of me. One full of pictures, of big curvy women, big boobs and asses to match, the other one cover to cover, featuring guys with huge penises. Now I'm told I can only look at one of them, most times I'd go for the big cocks, but some days I'd choose the big ladies.

I know this is a crude sort of methodology, but I play ideas like this, through my mind quite often.

So I think the 4 was a fair score, overall.

 

[Astroman72]

I took the test twice, and both times got a "2", and that's pretty accurate as to how I see myself.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

I feel the same

I found it really interesting reading people's comments in this thread...

So many men expressed the sentiment that they are just into men for the sex and prefer women for emotional attachment.

That surprised me as I feel quite differently, I really crave an emotionally intimate relationship with a guy. I would say the desire for emotional intimacy was greater than that for sexual intimacy.

I think my background has programmed me to always be on guard around guys, there has always been some kind of an element of competition or rivalry and now I can't really completely open up with men.
I haven't (yet) found a guy I can comfortably drop all my walls for but it is something I desire.

I think I would add the term of "vulnerable" with the emotional attachment. I also seek a close relationship with a man where we can be emotionally intimate, but also allow ourselves to be vulnerable with another man.

 

[Hardnippled]

Bi or gay

In the area of romance:

Men--- '0'
Women--- '10+'


In the area of physical sex:

Men --- '10'
Women --- '10+'

I can totally agree with this I've had experience with both and that's how it feel to me. 50 single fit I lake to chat pm me for my kik if interested

 

[Mqoi]

I got a 3.

I tend to look at someone's personality first, then their gender. That said, I tend to find most guys are assholes when it comes to relationships so things usually don't go far with them. But i still find a lot of men attractive until I get to know them better. But that goes for a lot of women too.

 

[1kelevra]

I say fuck what others feel about putting sexuality in boxes. Sometimes I like men because I like the power between to men, I definitely love oral, don't care if this I eating pussy or sucking cock.. I like anal, but here the real thing wins as dildoes is a totally different feel.

People can be attractive in their personality in the exact same way as they can be unattractive. Really don't care what sex they prefer as long as they include me if I'm attracted to them.. my wife and have had sex with a guy/guy couple and we both loved it, both in and out of bed, these guys where amazing, neither of us four thought about anything else than enjoying our selves.

 

[SuperSissy]

I'm a 4. I think it was wearing bras and panties as much as possible.

 

[Dkskier]

Gender neutral

No surprise for me. Pretty much always have been aware of attraction to both sexes. At a younger age. Only topped at glory holes, and dated women so as to "hide" my sexuality. By early to mid twenties, sucked a couple cocks "experimenting". Convincing myself it was just cock attraction. Now in my late fifties. I am completely open as to my next relationship, both as to gender, and terms are concerned.

 

[bobb64]

took the test again scored 5 this time.

 

[haventdonethat]

Took the test and scored a 2 which surprised me. I thought it would be higher.
I will admit that most of my bi encounters have been with wives, and the other male was usually our very good, close friend. There was/is a mutual friendship between us that transcends the sexual aspect of our times together.
Although I use the “bi” terminology, I don’t really consider myself bi. Wish there was another term.

 

[newbie5063]

Test

Kinsey test, 3
A different test, 76% bi, 82% hetero.

 

[gcs2718]

I scored a 3. My attraction to cock goes back to pre-puberty while an attraction to the female form came with puberty. All of my emotional relationships have been with women and while I wouldn't completely rule one with a man out, it's not likely. At the same time I've probably had sex with three times as many men as women because my desire for cock is strong.

I knew the first time I ever heard the term bisexual that that was what I was. It was reassuring and comforting for me to know that there was a category I fit into. Before that, as a sex-charged adolescent, I was a bit confused about how I could be desirous of both sexes.

For quick and easy gratification a man is my first choice because it's just usually simpler, not that I haven't had some no pretense sex with women too. When I masturbate I more often think of cocks and how much I love being a submissive bottom for them.

That's my story, judge me as you will.

 

[WordsAreErotic]

I just took the test and scored a 2. It seems fitting.

 

[J1biboi]

I scored a 3. My attraction to cock goes back to pre-puberty while an attraction to the female form came with puberty. All of my emotional relationships have been with women and while I wouldn't completely rule one with a man out, it's not likely. At the same time I've probably had sex with three times as many men as women because my desire for cock is strong.

I knew the first time I ever heard the term bisexual that that was what I was. It was reassuring and comforting for me to know that there was a category I fit into. Before that, as a sex-charged adolescent, I was a bit confused about how I could be desirous of both sexes.

For quick and easy gratification a man is my first choice because it's just usually simpler, not that I haven't had some no pretense sex with women too. When I masturbate I more often think of cocks and how much I love being a submissive bottom for them.

That's my story, judge me as you will.

My story is pretty much the same as yours with the exception that I have had sex with a lot more women than men

 

[saintcero]

a 3 for the first time I took it. a 2 for the second time. the score may change depending on how horned up I am at the time of the test

 

[Susscrofa]

It's interesting that a lot of people on this thread are saying that when they were young, they identified as 100% straight in theory or at least in practice, but are now interested in exploring their bisexual side.

What I'm used to hearing from both people I know and biographies of famous writers, artists etc. is basically the opposite - people have bisexual experiences and experiment in their youth, and then settle into exclusively homosexual or heterosexual desires or behavior as they get older, presumably based on whatever their preference is (i.e. Kinsey 1's and 2's become Kinsey 0's, Kinsey 4's and 5's become Kinsey 6's). In contrast, several replies here are from people who started out as 0/1 and are now closer to 3.

Not sure where I'd stand, probably a 1 - have some attraction to men as well as to women, but while a man's physique and body has aesthetic and erotic appeal to me, actual homosexual acts do not.

 

[PFWilly]

Scored a 3, expected to be slightly closer to a 2, but whatever.

About 54 years ago, I told my future wife that I was a bisexual. Somethings never change, lol.

 

[Uggg]

I found it really interesting reading people's comments in this thread...

So many men expressed the sentiment that they are just into men for the sex and prefer women for emotional attachment.

That surprised me as I feel quite differently, I really crave an emotionally intimate relationship with a guy. I would say the desire for emotional intimacy was greater than that for sexual intimacy.

I think my background has programmed me to always be on guard around guys, there has always been some kind of an element of competition or rivalry and now I can't really completely open up with men.
I haven't (yet) found a guy I can comfortably drop all my walls for but it is something I desire.

I think I would add the term of "vulnerable" with the emotional attachment. I also seek a close relationship with a man where we can be emotionally intimate, but also allow ourselves to be vulnerable with another man.

Hmmmmn.... Yup, you hit the nail on the head... that word gives me shivers and quivers.

 

[LoftyCraig]

I found it really interesting reading people's comments in this thread...

So many men expressed the sentiment that they are just into men for the sex and prefer women for emotional attachment.

That surprised me as I feel quite differently, I really crave an emotionally intimate relationship with a guy. I would say the desire for emotional intimacy was greater than that for sexual intimacy.

I think my background has programmed me to always be on guard around guys, there has always been some kind of an element of competition or rivalry and now I can't really completely open up with men.
I haven't (yet) found a guy I can comfortably drop all my walls for but it is something I desire.

i completely agree with you.