Male chastity with cock cages

I have been practicing I guess, wearing it more and keeping it on longer
 
going to bed caged so I will be caged fist thing when I wake
 
They should make little guillotine cock cages so if they get hard, a spring loaded guillotine chops off the offending part lol
 
I'm thinking of buying my first cage, my wife has no interest. Should I?
So without a context this cannot be answered in a one line answer. Do you and your wife currently have an active sex life together. If so then thats a good start as you should be able to discuss your shared sex life with what you both enjoy and would like to enjoy. If you are doing this solo then that's a different story. Just some context with myself - I've been mainly in a sexless marriage for years and only recently sharing stuff with her about some of my kinks - slow progress but getting there. I bought a cage without her knowledge but had the backing of a good online friend from here. I then started to message her about the way I was feeling then dropped the cage in there. That caused an uncomfortable set of discussions that could have backfired badly - but it has pepped our sex life up a bit.

For you - why do you want a cage - she doesn't know yet so be aware that her mind won't be on it.

Do some research - I found a good blog on tumblr "themodernmarriage" - A beginners guide to male orgasm control. It might help you look into this. I took some of the advise and messaged my wife with the parts that I think are more for me and explaining how it may work with us. it has a section - Why - which is worth a read.

You could buy the cage to try out see how it feels before you go down any locked road - but from all the advice I have read it works better if your partner is included and you have already thought about why you want to lock your cock up.

Women will question why you want to stop access to the thing you want to be pleasured.

Just my waffle thoughts.
 
My wife doesn't know about my cage. Wish she did and have me locked for Locktober....mm
I always leak when wearing my cage...
Hi Dave,

Check on my earlier reply to "oneforall".

But when i looked into this - I found a good blog on tumblr "themodernmarriage" - A beginners guide to male orgasm control.

I bought a cage just coming into October myself - then have since told my wife.
I am self locking - she hasn't quite got into it and hasn't any interest in being a keyholder. Difficult for me to give advice when I can't report a full success story - but she seems more comfortable that I wear one.

Will see where it goes for me but if you can look at why you want one and some how share that with your partner then it might help. But if it's not their thing they do not have to follow it - I would try things that my wife would suggest but she doesn't think about such things.
 
The very first time he wore it was on a Sunday. He went to church with it on. I actually didn't know until we were on our way to the church, and he told me. It's kind of a long story, but I tried to put it on him the night before, but he got an erection, and I couldn't get it on him without being afraid I might hurt him. (Oh, how times have changed!) The next morning, without me present, he was able to put it on.

Let me tell you, sitting in church, surrounded by so many "exemplary" people and knowing I had my husband's penis locked up was like...wow! It was insanely arousing!

I tell him when to put it on, and he knows it will be a day or two or three before I will let him out. He still has to do the grocery shopping and stuff like that. I like to make him wear it when we go out or visit friends or have friends over.

I like making him wear it. I like it a lot.
Following some of the chat here and yes thats what I would love my wife to buy into. I have way more horny moments / thoughts than her but she could lock me and tease and know I can't do anything until she is ready. I'm not into having mine locked for a long period - but would love it if she asked me to lock knowing that I'm not off stroking myself silly without her knowledge.

Damn feeling horny and locked as I type this.
 
OMG I can't unsee that! Just concerned though that the sound you are using doesn't look that clean.
I'd love my wife to try teasing me with a sound but have experimented i the past and it does sting a bit so hats off for getting it in deep. Just be careful you don't want an infection.
Don't worry it is regularly washed with disinfectant before insertion. My PSA [ PROSTATE SPECIFIC ANTIGEN = 1.44. DANGER LEVEL = 4.04] so no worries I fo Not hv Prostate Cancer!!! @68 yrs that's a Bonus ++
 
Following some of the chat here and yes thats what I would love my wife to buy into. I have way more horny moments / thoughts than her but she could lock me and tease and know I can't do anything until she is ready. I'm not into having mine locked for a long period - but would love it if she asked me to lock knowing that I'm not off stroking myself silly without her knowledge.

Damn feeling horny and locked as I type this.
I've read your comments in this thread. I know how your wife feels. I used to be her.
 
Only a couple weeks till December. I wonder if my wive will find something for December. We have locktober, no nut November maybe Denial December? Who knows

  • Jerkless January
  • Fuckless February
  • Meatless March
  • Cage-ril
  • Ney for May
  • Jizsless June
  • July Deny
  • Lockgust
  • Sexless September
  • Locktober
  • No Nut November
  • Denial December
 
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Hi everybody, we are a couple, Anke and Tom, from Germany and we practice male chastity with cock cages. We would like to talk and exchange our experiences with others. Posts and answers will be done by one of us, sometimes me, sometimes Tom. Tom is caged permanent and never inside. Permanent means 24/7 everywhere in his daily life situations. For the beginning I have choose a pic of one cage I like very much. I can tease his locked dick very easy and you can see his arousing as his cock tries to escape out of the cage
Sent you a note in the conversation area on this site, sort of like an email, but they call it a conversation.
 
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