For regular couples- what's your usual sex breakdown?

[drobert44]

Starts with kissing then sucking her tits and blowing on her nipples, then down to lick and kiss her thighs and work up to her wet pussy, swirling my tongue until she has her first orgasm. Next she pushes me on my back and starts sucking my cock. She climbs on for a cowgirl ride, but likes me to finish doggy with a hard pounding while playing with her tits then grabbing her hips. After I cum, I push her down on the bed and lick my load out of her wet pussy. Through the whole session we’re talking about our fantasies, mostly having another guy so she can suck his cock while I’m fucking her.

Well done, Mike!

 

[Sappho_CGN]

What's your typical "quickie?"

We run together our own small firm ... standing, leaning me against a wall or rarely on a office table (wetting documents is a bad idea ...)


What's your normal "have some time" sex?

Normal vanilla in the bedrooom or a bit more planned at the weekend - if it is sure that the children not be able to intervene - with me in lingerie or leather with highheels or boots, handcuffs, flogger, champagne, ice ...

Where and how much do you both usually cum?

He prepares me with hand, tongue, fingers; I have often by this an orgasm before him; sometimes then together with him as it turns me on feeling him coming in me ... that works not regularly but this is not so important.


How is your "Special time" sex different?

A "special time" would be an organised event, a threesome in a hotel ... or rarely a party.;or he taking me in a "dark room".

Most used sex toys:

handcuffs, clamps, leather-restraints, dildo

 

[NakedStoryLover]

... I've started interrupting the procedure by pulling out and going down on her until she cums before re-inserting and pounding out another one. She's found that extremely hot and naughty. Especially last time when I broke from doggy to eat her out from behind. I intentionally slipped my tongue up to her asshole but didn't linger. I'm trying to see if her horny side will allow some exploration....

So hot! Thanks for sharing. I'm working my waybthrough this thread and edging, so may see an update later.

 

[dingdongditchding]

What I like. Making out, touching all over. Undo her shirt buttons, take off her shirt and bra, My shirt comes off. Touch, and kiss her boobies. My hand down her pants. Her pants off, all my clothes off. Her panties stay on for now. I touch her thru her panties, take them off and start to LICK and SUCK her pussy. Lick her until he CUMS all over my face. She pulls me up and we make out. Then I put my cock inside her, fuck until I cum. Rest and do again. 2nd time around, she sucks me and I go down on her again. She can ride my face. He cum filled pussy (by me).

 

[dingdongditchding]

What's your typical "quickie?"

We run together our own small firm ... standing, leaning me against a wall or rarely on a office table (wetting documents is a bad idea ...)


What's your normal "have some time" sex?

Normal vanilla in the bedrooom or a bit more planned at the weekend - if it is sure that the children not be able to intervene - with me in lingerie or leather with highheels or boots, handcuffs, flogger, champagne, ice ...

Where and how much do you both usually cum?

He prepares me with hand, tongue, fingers; I have often by this an orgasm before him; sometimes then together with him as it turns me on feeling him coming in me ... that works not regularly but this is not so important.


How is your "Special time" sex different?

A "special time" would be an organised event, a threesome in a hotel ... or rarely a party.;or he taking me in a "dark room".

Most used sex toys:

handcuffs, clamps, leather-restraints, dildo

hot!

 

[dingdongditchding]

Well done, Mike!

clean her out, same here I would do it

 

[aziegmann]

Extended play gets fun. Usually when we have had a few drinks. Extra foreplay of similar sort. Maybe get a dice game out to leave things to chance. Last night we got the dice out and it was fun. He rolled “spank” and “lips” so he straddled my torso and spanked my mouth with his hard dick. Then I got out my butt plug and he played with my ass and plugged me and then we slowly fucked for a bit so he could admire the plug. Took a break for some kissing then back to fucking. Reverse cowgirl for the view and then he pinned me down in prone and fucked me hard and painted my pussy with cum. I then clean him off with my mouth and then he played with my cummy pussy for a few minutes then I got my vibe and I get my orgasm. That typically takes an hour or more. After we always go get a snack together.

Quickies are hard and fast and I’m just looking to get filled with cum. 5-10 min total of getting me wet and then filled up. That’s usually in the morning before work.

We have sex 1-2x per week on average. Some weeks we skip all together. Others it’s 4-5 times. Just depends on hormones, stress and time.

During these sessions, do you share fantasies with each other (a threesome or foursome, for example, or another scenario) or all the activities are focused in only both of you?

The same question goes to everyone here who answered this topic.

 

[aziegmann]

Usually, it starts with a bit of preparation on her parts: makeup, sexy lingerie, high heels, some wine, and music. One time she even wore nipple pasties, which had me insanely turned on before anything even began. Sometimes, before all that, it kicks off in the shower, where we start making out and touching each other in all the right places.

Once everything’s set, we begin with kisses and caresses, holding each other close. I slowly work my way across her body, pulling her hair gently while running my hands over her lingerie. That stage lasts about 10 minutes. She loves it, especially when I focus on her tits, tracing circles around the nipples while she’s still dressed.

Then I ease her bra down until the first nipple is exposed. I start caressing it slowly, right before teasing it with my tongue. From there, I alternate between kisses, circular licks, and gentle bites, which makes her start to tremble. Then I repeat the same on the other one, aiming for the same reactions. Spending around 20 minutes like this usually drives her absolutely crazy.

Once I suggested she imagine it as if two tongues were on her breasts at the same time, but she didn’t go for it and just asked me to keep doing what I was already doing. Maybe it’ll take some time for her to get more comfortable letting her imagination flow and start fantasizing.

Question for the women here: Is it common to react negatively to something new in bed, even when you’re really turned on?

After she’s fully worked up, she naturally moves in a way that tells me she wants oral sex. We usually spend about 15 to 20 minutes like that, until she starts squirming after coming once or twice. That’s when she begs, almost desperately, for penetration.

From there, we try all sorts of positions—though not always in the same session. Sometimes she just wants missionary. Other times she wants doggy style. Or she’ll climb on top, facing me, and I’ll take the chance to play with her breasts again. We go on like that for as long as we can.

Almost every time, we end up getting more intense, going deeper inside her, because that’s how she’s learned to orgasm again, but in a much stronger way. When that moment is to come, she always lets me know she’s close, almost like giving me a signal so I can match her rhythm and finish with her. When it happens, it feels magical between us.

It’s pretty common for our sessions to last at least an hour and a half.

Even with all that, I still haven’t found an easy way to get her to talk about fantasies during sex. She really lets herself go, but there’s still that barrier—it hasn’t yet become as natural for her as the sex itself.

Any tips? Feel free to send me a private or public message. It’s up to you. Any help will be appreciated.

 

[Shanes_OralOrations]

Usually, it starts with a bit of preparation on her parts: makeup, sexy lingerie, high heels, some wine, and music. One time she even wore nipple pasties, which had me insanely turned on before anything even began. Sometimes, before all that, it kicks off in the shower, where we start making out and touching each other in all the right places.

Once everything’s set, we begin with kisses and caresses, holding each other close. I slowly work my way across her body, pulling her hair gently while running my hands over her lingerie. That stage lasts about 10 minutes. She loves it, especially when I focus on her tits, tracing circles around the nipples while she’s still dressed.

Then I ease her bra down until the first nipple is exposed. I start caressing it slowly, right before teasing it with my tongue. From there, I alternate between kisses, circular licks, and gentle bites, which makes her start to tremble. Then I repeat the same on the other one, aiming for the same reactions. Spending around 20 minutes like this usually drives her absolutely crazy.

Once I suggested she imagine it as if two tongues were on her breasts at the same time, but she didn’t go for it and just asked me to keep doing what I was already doing. Maybe it’ll take some time for her to get more comfortable letting her imagination flow and start fantasizing.

Question for the women here: Is it common to react negatively to something new in bed, even when you’re really turned on?

After she’s fully worked up, she naturally moves in a way that tells me she wants oral sex. We usually spend about 15 to 20 minutes like that, until she starts squirming after coming once or twice. That’s when she begs, almost desperately, for penetration.

From there, we try all sorts of positions—though not always in the same session. Sometimes she just wants missionary. Other times she wants doggy style. Or she’ll climb on top, facing me, and I’ll take the chance to play with her breasts again. We go on like that for as long as we can.

Almost every time, we end up getting more intense, going deeper inside her, because that’s how she’s learned to orgasm again, but in a much stronger way. When that moment is to come, she always lets me know she’s close, almost like giving me a signal so I can match her rhythm and finish with her. When it happens, it feels magical between us.

It’s pretty common for our sessions to last at least an hour and a half.

Even with all that, I still haven’t found an easy way to get her to talk about fantasies during sex. She really lets herself go, but there’s still that barrier—it hasn’t yet become as natural for her as the sex itself.

Any tips? Feel free to send me a private or public message. It’s up to you. Any help will be appreciated.

Sounds like the right way to do it. Drive her nuts and she'll keep coming back for more!

My wife too is very reserved when it comes to sharing her fantasies or discussing branching out. I've successfully pushed several things over the years with lots of time, patience, and making sure she really felt rewarded for letting me try new things with her. Gotta make the experience hot for her too. Since she doesn't share her own fantasies much I've also spent a lot of time, just exploring different things with her and watching her reaction to gradually help her find out what she likes.

This is how we got her seriously into nipple clamps, butt plugs and even a bit of online sharing her. Definitely she did not start out thinking she'd like any of those things.

 

[gtnlynn]

Once in bed, I strip off her nightie, leaving panties on, kiss her deeply while squeezing and fondling her boobs, Kiss and suck her boobs while rubbing her through her panties, slipping her panties to the side and easing my hard cock into her wet pussy (just a thing to help her remember her college days when she kept her panties on while being fucked by her fwb's), pull out and let her suck her juices and my precum off my cock, pull off her panties, love on her pussy with my mouth and tongue until she is almost cumming, she yells "fuck me!" when she is ready, and I start fucking her hard. She usually cums first, and then I shoot my load into her. Afterward, we lie side by side while I gently rub her clit. I increase the pressure until she has a second, milder orgasm. Then we just cuddle.

 

[Mrbingo1976]

Question for couples in longer term relationships that still enjoy regular sex. I assume like us you do a variety of things depending on the mood and time, but I think most of us have a typical sexual routine and I want to share ours and ask about yours! I kind of want pie charts and bar graphs here, but I'll try text first.

What's your typical "quickie?"

10-15 minutes: first half a mix of kissing, touching and oral trade off.
Second half usually a quick missionary or cowgirl with vaginal orgasm, focus on getting it done with a quick orgasm each because we have stuff to do! Sometimes she doesn't cum, but that just means she'll be in the mood again sooner!

We rarely do quickies- probably less than 20% of our sex.

What's your normal "have some time" sex?

Usually prep with showers, make up and a sexy outfit/lingerie for her. Usually something that can mostly stay on the whole time but doesn't impede access to her breasts or groin.

Lasts 45-90 minutes typically

We commonly switch back and forth between what we do in order to edge each other multiple times, but the total time in each activity usually breaks down a bit like this:

10-20% kissing, caressing, fingering, making out in various positions. She likes having her hair gripped tightly and her head pulled firmly around to expose wherever he wants to kiss her. We also tend to kiss a lot during intercourse in face to face positions.

20% breast play: rubbing, kissing, pulling, licking, nipple biting and sucking. Starts gentle but gets pretty rough when she gets going.

50-70% oral. The longer we've been together, the more oral makes up a bigger and bigger percentage of our sex play. Oral itself is probably split by time 55% on her, 45% on him, but there's usually a lot of 69 as well, and frequent eye-contact-tit-fuck breaks are common during our blowjobs.

20-30% Vaginal intercourse: Of that, 50-60% in cowgirl variations (her favorite), 30% missionary and 10-20% doggie/other.
We can get the intercourse a bit longer when we break it up with going back to other activities to give me a break from the tight squeeze for a bit.

Of course we do other positions and play from time to time, but the above is a good breakdown of a "normal" sexual encounter for us.

Where and how much do you both usually cum?
Most often we both cum during vaginal sex and nearly simultaneously (within 30 seconds of each other)

Her: 1-3 orgasms (2 is typical)
50-60% cowgirl, 30-40% missionary, 10-20% oral/fingers/toys

Him: 1 orgasm (sometimes 1.5...)
40% cowgirl, 30% missionary, 10%- doggie, 20%- oral/facial/tits

How is your "Special time" sex different?

For Her: Much the same as our typical, but usually with proceeding back/thigh and face massage. Very heavy time spent on breast and nipple stimulation, usually nipple clamps/elastics for most of the encounter, and one or more butt plug insertions, with her biggest one inserted before she orgasms. Minimal if any BJ time (more likely the hornier I make her), and lots of pussy licking. Usually she cums 3-4 times. He cums too because she likes to finish riding his cock nice and hard. Usually lasts 1.5-2 hours.

For Him: She gets heavily dolled up (hair, makeup, outfit and shoes), and he films an extended blowjob spanning 3 to 6 different positions. Some breaks for kissing, titty and pussy licking so her jaw doesn't get sore. Mostly cock and balls licking, tongue teasing, progressing to vigorous head bobbing, some hair pulling, and a bit of genuine face fucking. 90% end in very messy facials, with the occasional in mouth or on tits finish. Finish up with some photo time to admire his paint job, sometimes a bit of cum kissing, then clean her up and add the footage to our home collection.

Most used sex toys:
1- Nipple clamps of various types
2-Butt plugs (mostly for her, he tries them at times too)
3- Vibrators/dildos

So that's us. Love to hear comments or feedback. Tell us about your sex patterns!

i like how you break it down to percentages !! lol all good but made me laugh . from a guy who’s denied pussy and gives oral..

 

[Deepdesrp]

I'll be brief, pardon the pun.
1. light fondling that usually leads to a finger orgasms with several "highs" for her. (5 minutes)
2. manual attention to me which involves some oral on her part (3 to 5 minutes)
3. 30% of the time the manual attention results in a jack off
4. 70% is a 2 to 4 minute missionary position culminating in an orgasm for me.
5. lastly her fairly immediate trip to the bathroom to expel what little cum that was ejaculated.

Total time 10 to 15 minutes max.

No

1. CIM, like NEVER!
2. Oral clean up I would love it if she would move up and allow me to get her off again as I lick her clean
3. tender kissing

This was similar for me.
Recently though I have been sharing some of my horny thoughts (which she is not a fan of) but after agreeing to be more adventurous before step 5 she has me lick her pussy out after I have cum. Thought she would never agree to that - but that can be quite a mess - so I've obliviously got to practice more.

Then its onto step 5 for a clean up before going back to bed

 

[Deepdesrp]

So hot! Thanks for sharing. I'm working my waybthrough this thread and edging, so may see an update later.

Oh love eating her out from behind - and getting my tongue deep in her ass as I finger massage her pussy and clit

 

[Wonderer67]

Spoons position from behind is our go to. Almost all of our sex starts in that position.

It’s best and easiest For her.

We often branch out to other positions once she’s cum once and gotten really wet. But 95% of the time we start in spoons.

Then branch into other positions.

Standing Missionary is prob the 2nd most popular. Our bed is the perfect height for fucking.

Recently, doggy stable is another hot position we’ve been doing more of lately.

Female superior and reverse cowgirl are maybe 10% of the time but my favorite. It makes my wife squirt like crazy and I get so turned on by it and being underneath her.