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Maybe I need to find a little slut like you to *convince* me...
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Maybe I need to find a little slut like you to *convince* me...
deadpoolit
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also if shes married also that thrill of knowing that when her husban is going at it with her I was there first and did her better
1sweetlover
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It's all it is, just sex...exciting sex.
CuteBrat
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EnglishEm
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I totally disagree with that. Cheating on your partner is a terrible thing to do. If your partner agrees that you can have sex with someone else, that's fine but to go behind their back and think it's okay, because it's unemotional sex is wrong.
As for men not being capable of being monogamous...again I disagree. I've been with my husband for 23 years and I know he has been faithful...how?...because he has never gone anywhere without me and work isn't a place where he could cheat either...You probably don't believe me but...(shrug)...
1sweetlover
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We're everywhere...waiting for sexually aggressive men to take us!!
*raises hand*...I'm here!!
brickroadray
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We're everywhere...waiting for sexually aggressive men to take us!!
haven't found one in mass yet...
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deadpoolit
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it would be worth the drive just to look in the eyes while she swallows the first large load
*nods*
Until recently, I had done a whole lot of fantasizing, but had never once slept with another lady other than my wife (she was actually my first and only)...until a couple months ago, when we decided to start having an open marriage, basically joining the swinging lifestyle.
Since that happened, I've had sex with two other ladies, multiple times, (and she was with their husbands too) and i have to say, it's actually very refreshing to show up at a lady's house, knowing you're only there for one reason, and nothing else. The sex is totally different...much more wild and free. And of course, it is a huge ego boost and a big turn on to know that you are attractive to other women besides your spouse...sometimes, when you're married, you tend to forget that about yourself.
Gotta say, our sex life has improved exponentially too...the ladies that like us married guys aren't the only ones that like the idea having something another lady "owns" per se...sometimes the wives get off on other women wanting their husbands too. *chuckles*
~Wyld
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Nothing personal, but the guy willing to just keep hitting the same pussy for 23 years, and never going anywhere on his own...isn't the kind of guy I would be interested in being with in the first place.
deadpoolit
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walk in her door and shes got a suprise for you a friend just for you to enjoy with her or at the bar have her pick up a girl just fun to watch her work
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1sweetlover
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Well, I wasn't offering him to you so...
Kind of got a chuckle out of that one Em...
deadpoolit
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well em if its not what your in to and not what he is in to thats great and I will applaude you for your own sense of morals and think you for informing the rest of us
EnglishEm
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The fact that you're doing it with each other's consent is the most important thing...I'm glad you're enjoying some new found excitement!
brickroadray
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yeah my problem is my wife would NEVER go for this - she'd divorce me first...
EnglishEm
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You're right, I do have strong morals...don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to preach or convert, just voicing my opinion...I'm a very open minded person and as I said earler, if you both agree to have sex with other people, that's great...I just think it's awful when one partner finds out that their loved one has been cheating...
deadpoolit
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yea really
Well, if you'd told me a year ago, if I would be into the Lifestyle, I would have laughed, but have to say, it has been a lot of fun for both of us so far, and has actually brought my wife and i closer together, surprisingly.
~Wyld
You're right, I do have strong morals...don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to preach or convert, just voicing my opinion...I'm a very open minded person and as I said earler, if you both agree to have sex with other people, that's great...I just think it's awful when one partner finds out that their loved one has been cheating...
I was actually in that boat, Em....I had never cheated, but my wife strayed, and screwed another guy behind my back. It wasn't the sex that hurt me...she was only 17 when we first met, and I could see her being curious as to what it'd be like with other guys, cause I felt the same, wondering what it'd be like with other women...but it was the fact that she'd lied to me and tried to hide things.
For awhile, thought the marriage was going to be over, but we worked things through, and we found something that, thus far, is seeming to work for both of us.
~Wyld
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So it comes down to the question....are you going to let your wife dictate to you how you can live your life? Does that sound particularly appealing to you, or how things ought to be?
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That's great that you 2 can be open, explore that and enjoy it.
deadpoolit
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some people dont have that option plus our way really makes your heart pound
brickroadray
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i was actually referring to the open marriage thing - in response to your question though, no to all 3!
