Married Posters

[_pebbles]

Re: Re: I agree

So I have good sex, frequency is decent ... I really, really need more. Seeing as others have it far less frequently, I should really shut up and be grateful. But I want more, need more, dream of more, more, more. I'm on overdrive. Sometimes I wish these feelings would just shut off before I find a lover and really get myself in trouble.

I was in a large public place last night. A group of men whistled at me. Made me smile, tiny chills. My mind wandered to if any of those men would think of me later while they were masturbating. Bad girl, right?

AMEN! It really sucks to have a hot lovelife fizzle down to almost nothing in the coarse of a few years. Why is it that I always seem to be the one trying to get the ole sexlife jumpstarted only to end up disappointed in the end?

 

[zukethecuke]

Re: Re: Married Posters

I went to a swap club a couple of times and there were a lot of couples there who flirted with other people, swapped a little spit, maybe got spit on the tender parts, but then went off and played with each other. I think it really rev'd things up for them to want and be wanted by other people but that being with each other was a reaffirmation of their bonds. Kinda: "Here, look at me, I am a totally awesome fuck, now hubby/wife, come fuck me."

There's an adult theater/cocktail lounge (pretty sleazy, but it's what's available) in East St. Louis where I see that sort of thing a lot. Sometimes it's full swap, sometimes single guys are invited to assist, but a lot of times it's the guys watching their wives make out with each other (and occasionally some genuine lesbian labia licking) before settling back with their own partners. Some couples just watch everything and do nothing till they get home.

If Voyeurgirl can find a spot like that in her home town, I encourage her to check it out.

 

[Chi-Guy31]

Re: Re: Re: I agree

So I have good sex, frequency is decent ... I really, really need more. Seeing as others have it far less frequently, I should really shut up and be grateful. But I want more, need more, dream of more, more, more. I'm on overdrive. Sometimes I wish these feelings would just shut off before I find a lover and really get myself in trouble.

I was in a large public place last night. A group of men whistled at me. Made me smile, tiny chills. My mind wandered to if any of those men would think of me later while they were masturbating. Bad girl, right?

I think it's actually pretty healthy to have these fantasies, it certainly helps ones own libido and acceptance of yourself as an attractive, sexual person. And I am still right there with you on your statement of still needing more, dreaming for more sex. You probably still have more sex than I do in marriage (as I said it has never been more than twice a month, sometimes once a month, due to my wife's low libido), and I am wondering if I will hit a crisis point of simply seeking out another lover.

 

[looking4fun]

I hear you pebbles, frequency is not my problem. It's the passion & variety that I miss & lust for so much.

Quickies are great but can leave you just wanting more. I use to look at my wife & think about all the things I wanted to do with her sexually. Now I look at her & think about all the things I may never get to do. But when I look at other women I think of all the things I would love to do or try with them. I have the hope that they might be open to anything.

When it comes to sex my wife is very vanilla, but I want a banana split with 3 different kinds of ice cream with 3 different toppings. Covered with whipped cream & 3 cherries.

 

[propmaster69]

My wife has no idea that I post here and if she did she would flip the fuck out. we have hardly any sex life at all, maybe once twice a month if I'm lucky and she never wants to try anything new. so needless to say I'm a cronic masturbater.

 

[Chi-Guy31]

I feel your pain, propmaster, it's a sad state of affairs we're in. And not as if I don't really enjoy masturbation, cause I really do, but when you live with someone who you are supposed to be intimate and sexual with and it is so infrequent, it really affects every aspect of the relatioship. It causes a great emotional disconnect, leading to much tension and misunderstandings. I wish I could share all of my sexual sides with my wife, but I am not sure that will ever happen...

 

[propmaster69]

preach on brother. I dont dare tell my wife about my sexual thoughts. She's very conservative. It's very hard to stay faithful as my job brings me into contact w/ many women. I try to use these boards as an outlet for my frustration, but it's hard not to cheat. I got married in 98 and coincidenly haven't had a blow job since 98.

 

[Chi-Guy31]

Holy moly, propmaster, that sounds terrible! My wife and I have been married since 2002, but have lived together since May2000. Blow jobs have been rare on my side as well, she has never voluntarily given me one, and often when I ask politely during sex or we are in the 69 position, she just works my cock with her hands. I don't want her to be scared to try, fearing I might not enjoy it, I just want the effort, the reciprocation since I do all that I can to make her feel good.

As far as other outlets, my eyes have been wandering for sure, but I have not acted on the impulse yet...

 

[mysterion]

I know that story. I think there was one back before we were married in 2001.
She is not unhappy about being on the receiving end, but she never volunteers to reciprocate.

Sigh. It is something I miss. Previous GFs were really into them.

Now I can only get them in my imagination thanks to some lit buddies.

 

[_pebbles]

Re: Re: Re: Re: I agree

Great - so I guess I'm a very, very healthy girl. I still feel like I'm searching and wanting that one thing to just click with a guy I bump into at Wawa or 7 Eleven. You know, eyes meet ... casual flirting, unintentional *cough* skin contact...

I think it's actually pretty healthy to have these fantasies, it certainly helps ones own libido and acceptance of yourself as an attractive, sexual person. And I am still right there with you on your statement of still needing more, dreaming for more sex. You probably still have more sex than I do in marriage (as I said it has never been more than twice a month, sometimes once a month, due to my wife's low libido), and I am wondering if I will hit a crisis point of simply seeking out another lover.

 

[mickyp123]

I'll take the title of lusty little devil

The waterbed thing, that's punishment? puhleeeze ...

Actually Pebbs i did know a couple that got a water bed for the sole purpose of improving their love live, and it cost $2000

 

[mysterion]

I miss that too. Don't get me wrong, I am deeply in love with my wife. And we do have moments like that, especially after taking care of our baby.

I just miss the initial flirt and chase a bit too. The uncertainty, the anticipation. Nowadays, there is some uncertainty, but when you are married the wondering if tonight will be the night is more depressing than exciting.

 

[njguy1002]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: I agree

Great - so I guess I'm a very, very healthy girl. I still feel like I'm searching and wanting that one thing to just click with a guy I bump into at Wawa or 7 Eleven. You know, eyes meet ... casual flirting, unintentional *cough* skin contact...

let me know which Wawa you want to be bumped into lol

 

[CaLadyInRed69]

I had been parusing the lit site long before I finally showed hubby the Lit story site..... from there, he is on his own. He has not ventured yet to the forum, but if/when he does, I hope he enjoys himself. I feel, personally, exploring my increased libido and desires by chatting with men, has definitely been benefitial to my marriage and sexual relationship with hubby.

 

[B0RN2nd]

I thought this thread was going to be about 24" x 36" posters(or other sizes) with pictures of married people on them.


Just kidding

 

[BBW luvr]

I chat without my lover's knowledge also; there's something so private and exciting about it....besides she doesn't share all my fantasies, etc. I love to play!

 

[jerryid]

Re: Re: Let's !

i hear there are places in philly where you watch others have sex.............you know of any?

Okay..we can do that...but I was thinking we should just have a nice dinner at first. You know, to get to know each other.

 

[jerryid]

Re: Re: Re: I agree

My mind wandered to if any of those men would think of me later while they were masturbating. Bad girl, right?

Well you don't have to wonder about me Pebbles. I printed out your photo and had it laminated
I love fantasizing about you while I indulge myself.
I can't wait until you make the plunge and then write about it on here !
By the way, I'd love to see in you in red, dark green or black. Those are YOUR colors ! If you want any help picking out lingerie drop me an email.

 

[HairTrigger]

I try to use these boards as an outlet for my frustration, but it's hard not to cheat. I got married in 98 and coincidenly haven't had a blow job since 98.

Hmmm -- sort of like the joke:

Q: Why is the bride smiling as she walks down the aisle?
A: Because she knows she's given her last blow-job...

 

[HairTrigger]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: I agree

Great - so I guess I'm a very, very healthy girl. I still feel like I'm searching and wanting that one thing to just click with a guy I bump into at Wawa or 7 Eleven. You know, eyes meet ... casual flirting, unintentional *cough* skin contact...

So -- where is this Exxon sign again?

 

[AV guy II]

Re: Re: Re: I agree

So I have good sex, frequency is decent ... I really, really need more. Seeing as others have it far less frequently, I should really shut up and be grateful. But I want more, need more, dream of more, more, more. I'm on overdrive. Sometimes I wish these feelings would just shut off before I find a lover and really get myself in trouble.

I was in a large public place last night. A group of men whistled at me. Made me smile, tiny chills. My mind wandered to if any of those men would think of me later while they were masturbating. Bad girl, right?

My wife has been in our front yard wearring her bikini top and has had a few hoots and hollers. It's a big boost to her ego, and I get all the benifets. Have you told your SO about that incident? I know its a big turn on for me to hear others want mine.

 

[iceracer]

My wife has no idea about this site but if she did she probably wouldn't care.She knows i search for adult stuff , but hey i'm male you know.Unfortunately are sex life sucks or doesn't suck as the case may be. We have an 11 month old son ,i work nights , she works days and her mother lives with us . just try to beat that lol
If anybody can figure out how to have sex in my house let me know i'm getting carpal tunnel

 

[AV guy II]

I hear ya. We have a 2 year old that is very demanding. I owrk graveyard shift, so I'm home only 2 nights a week. Our daughter just seems to know when my days off are, and she seems to stay up all night. I'm getting tired of my right hand too. If I do it with the left, it feels like another person....lol.

 

[iceracer]

Least i'm not the only one eh

 

[AV guy II]

Frustration isn't a strong enough word. When she's horny, I'm beat and visa verse. Does your wife play on LIT too?