tomwantstosee
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Instead of masturbating while he´s asleep- why not masturbate together? Can be a huuuge turn-on...
Masturbating with boyfriend asleep next to me...
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icandothis
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Tom,
You're right. . . mutual masturbation though is a whole delightfully different experience. Of course we've done the mutual thing in bed, but I also love it when it's unplanned and happens someplace unexpected.
We've had quite a few days of warm, beautiful weather lately and have taken advantage of it by taking late afternoon hikes . . .we've found a beautiful secluded spot that overlooks a little stream where on occasion we've enjoyed the quiet and solitude as we've self pleasured and masturbated each other, once or twice ending in nice, quite un-rushed sex . . . It's been a while since the last time, but even now just thinking about watching him masturbate for me outside like that gets me moist!
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we both masturbate in bed and its never been a problem. 
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Sunday morning, reading this in bed on my iPad. Wife next to me, sleeping very soundly. Been a few days. After waking up, wife may ask me if I had a party with Bubba.
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A few years ago, on a Saturday morning, I woke up and looked at my wife. She was laying on her back and I could see the blanket slightly moving around her waist. Her eyes were shut and her lips slightly parted. I was on my side just inches away. I didn't say anything. I just watched through half-closed eyes. The blanket was moving faster. I could see her shoulders and upper arms stiffen and her eyes squeezed tighter shut. There was an almost inaudible gasp. She went rigid, then her muscles seemed to relax. I didn't say anything that morning. A couple nights later, during foreplay, I told her how hot it was. She told me she didn't know what I was talking about. To this day, she's never "fessed up." It's kind of strange, because she usually does herself with a vibe while I watch and whisper erotic fantasies, before we have sex. I don't push her on the subject anymore, but it stays with me and I frankly use it to masturbate to even now.
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I often jerk off while my girlfriend is sleeping next to me. One of my favorite things to do is cum on her while she's sleeping... Sometimes she'll wake up and we'll continue to play, other times she won't. But when she eventually does wake up, she'll usually have 1 of 2 different reactions. If she's in a PMS kinda mood, she gets upset, othertimes she just laughs it off, and I'll usually have a really good night with her the next night.
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Hell no have fun. Doesn't matter if you wake him occasionally.
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Been there. Done that. Got divorced.
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Just do it....hell, I would roll over and help out if I woke up - or perhaps just lie next to you and stroke my cock, looking deep into your eyes and talking dirty 
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Lol
i masturbate next to the hubby, whiles hes asleep
all the time
He's a heavy sleeper
Have had occasion to wonder the same thing ...
One time, taking care to be quiet and mostly still, (distracted by the thought that she might wake up and feel left out or something worse, you never know), then eventually exploding intensely way beyond expectation, she rolled over into my shoulder and said, "Thank You", (for letting her sleep). I'll always remember the tone of her voice then, completely grateful and loving, like when given a precious gift.
Self sex is safe sex, if you want a little on the side...
One time, taking care to be quiet and mostly still, (distracted by the thought that she might wake up and feel left out or something worse, you never know), then eventually exploding intensely way beyond expectation, she rolled over into my shoulder and said, "Thank You", (for letting her sleep). I'll always remember the tone of her voice then, completely grateful and loving, like when given a precious gift.
Self sex is safe sex, if you want a little on the side...
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I don't blame you! That sounds incredibly erotic. (And well-described, I can almost picture it myself...)
I'm another bloke who has pretended to be asleep while overhearing his girl pleasuring herself. It was almost noon and I was sleeping in -- she was sat on the floor beside the bed, for some reason. Perhaps not to wake me? It was exciting, and I think she knew I knew, and it may have spurred her on... I never brought it up with her, though. Maybe I should have done.
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I love and sometimes look forward to feeling him next to me when I pleasure myself. Below are a couple of old posts that capture a few thoughts on masturbating while your partner is there and sleeping or pretending to sleep . . .
Oh my goodness . . . "neglecting" is hardly the way I would describe him. Long before I met him, early morning masturbation was something I'd always done and enjoyed. I like the early morning "me time", focusing on my pleasure. I love having him there next to me getting turned on by watching me, helping me masturbate or reaching for me to help him relieve his morning wood. I sometimes straddle his thigh and cum by rubbing my clit on his leg, he then lifts my hips and slides into me . . . delicious!
Masturbation is just another form of sexual express and gratification, it has very little to do with not being satisfied or being neglected . . .in fact, I find the more I masturbate, the more sex I want with him
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Maybe the question should be... would he get mad at you for masturbating period? My guess is no way! That said, if you accidentally wake him up, I'm sure he's not going to get pissed. In fact, he'll probably forgive you the instant he is alert enough to realize what happened and immediately jump your bones. Go for it!!
Now if he is the type of person who frowns upon masturbation, you may want to reconsider your relationship. I don't trust anyone who says they don't masturbate. Furthermore, I find it hard to believe that anyone a fellow lit member decides to date would be opposed to a little "routine maintenance"!
Now if he is the type of person who frowns upon masturbation, you may want to reconsider your relationship. I don't trust anyone who says they don't masturbate. Furthermore, I find it hard to believe that anyone a fellow lit member decides to date would be opposed to a little "routine maintenance"!
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I agree with others, society makes us feel like it's dirty or wrong to want to please ourselves. That couldn't be farther from the truth. I am sure your boyfriend would rather you please yourself then find pleasure in another man. While ina relationship, we don't always have the same "clocks" running in sync when it comes to our hormones. The key is communication and acceptance that we can't be everything to everybody. Enjoy my dear.
I agree with others, society makes us feel like it's dirty or wrong to want to please ourselves. That couldn't be farther from the truth. I am sure your boyfriend would rather you please yourself then find pleasure in another man. While ina relationship, we don't always have the same "clocks" running in sync when it comes to our hormones. The key is communication and acceptance that we can't be everything to everybody. Enjoy my dear.
icandothis
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I would love to be there, next to you so that I could watch and enjoy your "me moments".
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My wife and I encourage each other to handle things solo if one of us isn't feeling well, is tired, or if the other just wants some alone time to 'work things out.' It's a wonderful thing knowing that if I'm masturbating, I'm doing so with her approval and if she is - she has mine. Sometimes she helps me, sometimes I help her, other times she (or I) will watch, other times still it's a closed door affair. It's an incredible thing to not have to hide - something I never had until she and I got married. Very liberating to be able to share all that.
On the other hand, if you're just trying to be considerate by not waking him - just be quiet. I know it's tough, but everyone can do it. If that takes too much enjoyment out of it for you, go to the other room.
However you work it out, it's likely to be a good experience.
On the other hand, if you're just trying to be considerate by not waking him - just be quiet. I know it's tough, but everyone can do it. If that takes too much enjoyment out of it for you, go to the other room.
However you work it out, it's likely to be a good experience.
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bring it
heres what u should do.
totally masterbate
and make it loud and obnoxious
if he doesn't respond
find a new dude
or
wipe ur wet fingers all over his face
or put on ur panties, cum in ur panties and put those on his face
or go hardcore and masterbate over his head.
all of those i could deal with if i had trail in the morning
all of those sounds totes awesome
heres what u should do.
totally masterbate
and make it loud and obnoxious
if he doesn't respond
find a new dude
or
wipe ur wet fingers all over his face
or put on ur panties, cum in ur panties and put those on his face
or go hardcore and masterbate over his head.
all of those i could deal with if i had trail in the morning
all of those sounds totes awesome
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Masturbating with boyfriend asleep next to me...
Haha, serves him right, I say. And if the sound of you gently whimpering as you're getting yourself off doesn't make a dent, next time be sure to add something like, "mmmm....Oh (insert hot guy's name here)...that's it baby...mmmmyeah..." and if that doesn't work... you could have a problem.
My question though is why do you need to be discreet? If you messed up and meant quiet to not disturb him, then okay...but discretion in your bed with your guy - I'd have to second what GracefullyYours said - been there, done that, got a divorce.
No, masturbation isn't a sign a relationship is unhealthy. It's the sort of rules and boundaries and paradigm feeding them that indicates it's unhealthy. A solid and healthy tie that is open and both parties are mature about it would never, ever have one of them asking on a forum if it's "okay" to masturbate in the bed beside the lover who is sleeping. That's where the red flag comes in.
Haha, serves him right, I say. And if the sound of you gently whimpering as you're getting yourself off doesn't make a dent, next time be sure to add something like, "mmmm....Oh (insert hot guy's name here)...that's it baby...mmmmyeah..." and if that doesn't work... you could have a problem.
My question though is why do you need to be discreet? If you messed up and meant quiet to not disturb him, then okay...but discretion in your bed with your guy - I'd have to second what GracefullyYours said - been there, done that, got a divorce.
No, masturbation isn't a sign a relationship is unhealthy. It's the sort of rules and boundaries and paradigm feeding them that indicates it's unhealthy. A solid and healthy tie that is open and both parties are mature about it would never, ever have one of them asking on a forum if it's "okay" to masturbate in the bed beside the lover who is sleeping. That's where the red flag comes in.
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