Masturbating with boyfriend asleep next to me...

[OrelP]

OP, send me a PM. I won't wake up your bf either. And pay no attention to the status below my name claiming I'm a virgin. It might not be completely accurate

 

[Wataru_Gin]

OP, send me a PM. I won't wake up your bf either. And pay no attention to the status below my name claiming I'm a virgin. It might not be completely accurate

Lol! Nice!

 

[SpaceCowboy7]

So what if he wakes up? You have needs too and perhaps he needs to take notice of that. You do your thing.

 

[Leon_k]

why is this blatant assumptions : he (bf) must be neglecting her.
I'm sure some lurkers might even have sent the OPgirl some sex-invitations based on this assumption.
Men have stress, schedules, peaks, and fatigues.
Not everytime you can "perform" at a minute's notice.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Go to another room, where you an be super slow.

 

[vibes]

I would love to be there, next to you so that I could watch and enjoy your "me moments".

This comment totally inspires a "me moment" I would love to share with you

 

[sammiluvscock]

Lol, it is defo not wrong

 

[rockhardwaiting]

I wouldn't like to wake up to my wife masturbating next to me.. I don't know but it seems kind of like a slap in the face when you have a perfectly nice cock right next to you .. should at least attempt to get some cock play with your man first, no?? if you have no desire for your guy then do it somewhere else.. I know masturbating is good and all of that, I do it all of the time and sure my wife does to... but I don't want her to be there when I'm wanking it and I don't want to be there or hear her doing it.

 

[PhilGarlic]

girls

a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do!!!!

if you cant wake him up and fuck his brains out go ahead. If my wife woke me doing it I would help her out, and if I slept through, who's to know.

 

[boredVAwife]

I have done this more than once. It helps to have a king size bed if you don't want to disturb him. I actually have had some very intense o's this way because I went a lot slower so I wouldn't flail about. The buildup pretty much made me want to scream - which would have defeated the whole purpose. The hubs woke up more than once while I was at it and joined in one time but normally would just roll over and snooze. When he had to be up at 5am, I guess sex was not the first thing on his mind in the wee hours.

 

[Derya]

Good Morning,
I'm about to start my daily routine which is masturbating first thing in the morning before I get out of bed. My lover is here next to me (still sleeping). Often I am able to get off, but more often than not he will wake up and watch me pleasure myself or he will push my hand away and fuck me. regardless of how it turns out . . . I enjoy it.

Love this style and attitude; although for moi it's my 'sleeping pill' not my wake up alarm lol; if I had this pleasant a situation I'd certainly be attached and not single right now...well did have in last relationship but a lot else was not too good. Anyway to the original question nothing wrong with it at all and very considerate and a testament to your comfort as a couple in your togetherness.

 

[sammiluvscock]

I wouldn't like to wake up to my wife masturbating next to me.. I don't know but it seems kind of like a slap in the face when you have a perfectly nice cock right next to you .. should at least attempt to get some cock play with your man first, no?? if you have no desire for your guy then do it somewhere else.. I know masturbating is good and all of that, I do it all of the time and sure my wife does to... but I don't want her to be there when I'm wanking it and I don't want to be there or hear her doing it.

Sometimes all you really want, or are in the mood for, is a bit of self-intimacy. After all, you know your own body better than anyone else. Usually it is fine because you are by yourself anyway, but sometimes that thought can hit you when you are technically in the company of someone else. I think it is a difference between men and women, whereas men just want to cum, for women there is often an emotional, almost spiritual, need that sometimes is best looked after alone, rather than with someone else grunting away at you! Sorry, don't be offended, lol!

xx

 

[boredVAwife]

My hubs never really minded it. He was not wild about my owning a couple of toys but as long as I was in the bed and not jilling to a glbt thread - which he suspected but never saw - he was ok with it. I just seemed to always be more in the mood than he was. Then again I work 5-6 hours a day and he worked 10-12 most days.

 

[SweetErika]

If you got divorced because you like to masturbate... you had a shitty marriage and a shitty husband and it's best that you be done with both of them.

I'm betting that was Grace's point.

I must admit, I'm astonished to see such prudish attitudes on a smut board. So long as you're not a screamer, why shouldn't you masturbate in bed? People snore and talk in their sleep, does that mean they should do that privately also?

Which thread have you been reading? Because nearly every single response in THIS thread says it's perfectly fine to masturbate while a partner is sleeping. There was one dude who said he wouldn't want his partner doing such a thing, but almost every other reply points out that masturbation is healthy, relaxing and downright considerate if a partner needs their sleep and/or doesn't want sex for some reason.

By and large, the members who post in How To overwhelmingly support anything and everything that isn't blatantly harmful to oneself or others. You'd love to dress up like a kinky kangaroo and receive a good fisting from one partner while you're switching off between sucking cock and gulping down the piss of others? That's not my thing, but I'd be happy to give you any advice I have so your experience is safe and fun. Of course individual views vary widely in a huge, diverse community like this, and the posts here are going to reflect that, but if you take some time to observe with an open mind, you'll likely see "prudish" is definitely not an accurate descriptor for most of the members here. And if you don't, well, you might just be more comfortable in a different community... perhaps a true "smut board"*** where selective reading and snap judgments are far more pervasive would be a better fit for you.


***Most of us don't consider this a "smut" or "porn" board, but rather a diverse adult community that gives people the opportunity to discuss a wide variety of topics and connect in multiple ways. For instance, I've been fortunate to meet many others who appreciate reading and writing, have similar hobbies and interests, help me learn daily, have become great friends (offline, too), and, yes, also enjoy sexuality. I enjoy having the freedom to read and write about sex in a supportive environment, but there are many other topics that garner my interest and smut/porn, getting off or hooking up are decidedly not my main reasons for being here.

 

[ButtAnalMan]

Nice thread

 

[Hang0911]

You know I'm kinda new here and it just amazes me how many people don't "read" the OP. How many times does this lady have to say waking the poor boy is not an option? That's just kind of annoying to me. Anyway, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it, I find it to be a turn on. Or at least it would turn me on knowing you had done it with me laying there next to you being considerate and understanding. I'd definitely give you more ammunition for your morning sessions in my waking hours