Masturbation as Training?

Fenshae

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((posting this again...I messed up the first time, eheh))

Anyhoo, here's the thing. I'm a virgin, with the exception of one fingering, but I have been very interested in my sexuality for about two years now and this kicked off quite a bit of self-exploration. I have two vibrators and a vibrating dildo, and have trained myself how to orgasm both clitorally and vaginally (I'm one of the lucky ones) and am also capable of multiple orgasms and a vaginal-only orgasm.

Additionally, considering I'm single and adventurous at present, I'd be open to trying any sort of masturbation techniques that would simulate partner sex, and prepare me to have good positive reactions to oral, digital, and intercourse sex.

So in sum...does anybody have any suggestions for ways I could masturbate that would make me better at having sex, if and when the opportunity ever actually arises?

*silly little virgin newbie*
 
I'd think that any masturbation is very helpful. Knowing your body is great, and if you are open with how you do it, that's even better. Being able to show a guy how you make yourself cum will allow him to help you cum. So I'd say any practice is good practice.
 
First off, keep going ! Getting to know yourself is very helpful when it comes to actually having sex. I presume you're quite young, so I can tell you that the boys of your age will need every hint you can give them about how to pleasure you. Believe me, I was one them not too long ago.

I suggest (actually, my girlfriend does) you try looking at yourself in a mirror while you masturbate. It can create a feeling of being watched by someone else. That can be very intense.
 
I don't know if there's really any way to masterbate in order to perform better during sex. I think it's important to do so in order to know what you like, what gets you off, how you like to be touched, etc. The only suggestion I might make is to read up on Kegal exercises...I've heard that if you do these while having sex it can really stimulate not only you but your partner as well...

Hope this helps...
 
I dunno how helpful this is for sex later...

But I like to prolong masturbation for loooong times. I like to bring myself on the edge and then let myself cool down a bit and then again. To do that for hours. Sometimes I do that for hours on morning and then go to lectures and continue it again on evening. Sometimes I continue that even for couple days. Just idly touching all the time for example while watching tv :)
 
Masturbate 'cause it's fun don't we sometimes alone, soetimes with a partner, in the flesh or online - it's all part of the great big, wonderful pleasure are bodies are made for!
 
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