Meeting a guy to suck my first cock tomorrow.

I had a similar experience with an older guy, made me stand outside his motorhome for a half hour while he quizzed me. I should have left, but he had told me he was 7" and had a hanging ball sack and he was pretty good looking. He ended up not able to get it up, not a very good package, and I felt uncomfortable the whole time. I left there thinking this is a waste of time, getting all excited over nothing. The next time was much better, although it took me several months to find the right guy. It takes alot of messaging and such to weed out the "wrong" ones and find a good guy, don't give up as it can be quite enjoyable when things go right.
 
My first experience was a spontaneous event. It made it so hot when the guy picked me up in a supermarket. I guess the internet has taken a lot of that spontaneous feeling away.

Maybe you should try and meet someone outside the internet. You know, the old fashioned way at a bar or just when you are out for a night, believe me it makes a difference.

I would suggest researching a city near you to find out where you might best find a bisexual or gay guy and spend a weekend there. This way if you are in the closet you won't have to worry about being found on your knees somewhere by a friend or relative.
 
Meeting a guy to suck my first cock tomorrow

The first time for me was a success. It was 20 yrs ago, so the details are sketchy in my memory, but I connected with a guy on the phone and we agreed to meet at a motel equi-distant between our towns. We met in a coffee shop of the hotel, talked very briefly - we were both very nervous. He had the room and we went there, decided to shower seperately and then meet on the bed naked.

I showered first and came out wearing a towel. He followed while I sat on the bed. He took a while and he finally came out and sat down. He finally confessed he could not go through with it - meaning he couldn't suck me off.

I thought, what the hell, I've come this far and I was not about to go home disppointed and empty-handed. I told him to lie back and I opened the towel and held onto his cock. He was very tense and excited. I went down on him. His cock was a nice size, a small curve, soft helmut and after I sucked him a bit, using plenty of wet lips and tongue on the crown of his cock and thrn running my tongue up and down the underside of his cock. He got excited very quickly, but couldn't look at me - kept his eyes shut very tightly. began to tighten up and finally came in my mouth. It was a good experience, although not reciprocal and it was over too damn fast. I should have made it last longer, gotten him to the brink and then asked him if he was still reluctant. Hindsight . . . . .

I have always wanted to find someone to 69 with and just to lie next to and play with each other. It is very erotic for me to think of myself naked, lying next to another guy, with his cock right there in my face and have the comfort to play with him as he plays with me.

Since then I have been in two long term relationships with women - including my wife of 12 years who is not interested in this sort of play. Since she is too important to me to jepordize our relationship, I have to enjoy the memory and read the forums.
 
sorry about the mixed feelings...

I definitely had mixed feelings after the first time... but I kept on craving cock now and then.... Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with and definitely be safe..... I love to fuck women and do everything to their beautiful bodies.. but there is just something so fulfilling in sucking a man's cock....


hmmmm... noticed a lot of Mid-Michigan men in here too.. what's up with that *L*
 
must be something in the water

fellow michigander here. waiting for my first time. i often think about exchanging blow jobs, getting fucked and doing the fucking. i'd love to meet up with a similar guy experienced or not. anyone interested?
 
Re: must be something in the water

diggem said:
fellow michigander here. waiting for my first time. i often think about exchanging blow jobs, getting fucked and doing the fucking. i'd love to meet up with a similar guy experienced or not. anyone interested?

Intersted in just getting a BJ--no giving??
 
Getting only?

>absolutly, what fun is receiving if your not giving too

I said you only get
 
my 1st. time was in a shower at the beach, early in the morning after a walk. He walked in as i was jerking-off, i tried to hide my hard-on but.... we ended up strokeing each other, then he came on my asshole as i spread my cheeks open, the best part was when he licked it off !! never seen him again,,, of course .......
 
Test For Echo said:
I met a guy on yahoo and am going to meet him and hopefully suck my first cock. I am nervous as hell but pretty worked up too.
Any advice, etc for me.


Well, brush your teeth, wear clean socks and underwear and look both ways before you cross the road.
 
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