Men who like chatting about their wives

It's interesting how common this one is among married men, especially men who have been married for a long time.

I think it's rooted, for many, in the wish that women were more like men when it comes to sexual spontaneity, initiation, insatiability. The idea that your wife is cut loose, fully embracing and enjoying her sexuality, without the baggage of marriage, is like a fantasy version of how we'd love her to be in our bed, too.

Just one piece, of course.

Thoughts?
 
Your profile identifies you as a swinger. Yet you say your marriage is open on her side. Does that mean you don't fuck other women?
My wife is free to pursue any kind of connection she likes with anyone, at any time, on her own initiative.

As with many married couples, she's more anxious and insecure about extending the same freedom to me. So I am in the position of deferring to her.

That said, I have gotten to enjoy having sex with other women (and men) in certain circumstances in which she feels happy, comfortable, safe, and in the company of people she enjoys and knows at least a little bit (think people we've met at an adult resort).

In my experience there are very few long-term marriages that go the other way, where the husband has freedom, and the wife is more restricted.

Thoughts?
 
My wife is free to pursue any kind of connection she likes with anyone, at any time, on her own initiative.

As with many married couples, she's more anxious and insecure about extending the same freedom to me. So I am in the position of deferring to her.th

That said, I have gotten to enjoy having sex with other women (and men) in certain circumstances in which she feels happy, comfortable, safe, and in the company of people she enjoys and knows at least a little bit (think people we've met at an adult resort).

In my experience there are very few long-term marriages that go the other way, where the husband has freedom, and the wife is more restricted.

Thoughts?
Historically it was more common in the past for the husband to have freedom, but the wife did not, and the wife had to tolerate it, if she knew, because of limited economic opportunities. However, that is changing. Now it can be the wife who has more freedom to explore her sexuality outside the marriage. Cheating can destroy a marriage, but acceptance, and even encouragement by the husband can strengthen a marriage.
 
In our earlier years we were swingers, swappers, had 3 somes and more somes. We had sex in adult couple theaters while people watched and totally embraced our sexual life. PM me with woth questions.😀
 
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