Men Who Like it Rough

I love it rough, physically and mentally, but I definitely need some intensely sensual interaction too. I do not see these as being mutually exclusive in any way, but I think some people tend to view things more as an either/or. I think for me, it's more exciting of the roughness is somewhat of an unexpected change of pace, rather than than the norm. A little bit of variety to add some spice
 
I love it rough, physically and mentally, but I definitely need some intensely sensual interaction too. I do not see these as being mutually exclusive in any way, but I think some people tend to view things more as an either/or. I think for me, it's more exciting of the roughness is somewhat of an unexpected change of pace, rather than than the norm. A little bit of variety to add some spice

Thanks naughtymind, I definitely encourage incorporation of all those facets. Makes things more layered and intense :rose:
 
Yes. Having a woman take control is incredible. I find it isn't easy to find because the women I have dated aren't used to it and feel awkward about taking control. I am always willing to try it out with them if they are willing. I don't expect it to be perfect but think it is great for both of us if it works out.

Excellent :rose:
 
I love being strung up with no control and have a FM use me flogger my favorite but anything works
Any takers
 
Ok I must admit I pretty much stole that concept from another thread, lol.

It seems like a common question that men like to ask about women, so why not turn the tables?

And as far as my definition of 'rough' goes, it's not necessarily about the physical treatment. I think it's just as sensual when a man enjoys some psychological roughness or domination. Perhaps not specifically demeaned or humiliated, but reminded of who's in charge. That can be done tastefully and oh-so-memorably :rose:

Happy Easter all 🐰

Sounds amazing. Reading this turned me on so much!
 
Not much into being demeaned or humiliated but I do periodically enjoy a woman sitting on my face and having a good 'grind' with some hair pulling. Being used solely to bring her pleasure until she is quite finished.
 
Not much into being demeaned or humiliated but I do periodically enjoy a woman sitting on my face and having a good 'grind' with some hair pulling. Being used solely to bring her pleasure until she is quite finished.

Demeaning or humiliating someone isn't my cup of tea :rose:
 
i enjoy it rough mainly giving but i also like being on the receiving end as well. my ex wife and i were enjoying our adult time and she was soo worked up that she scratched my back which ended up bleeding a little bit which did not stop me at all. i like to choke and be choked she was a smaller girl so even when she tried choking me i would push forward on it and say harder. Of course i liked holding her hands together so she couldnt move. Ass smacking etc for being physical. Otherwise i would say things like you like being my little slut but i would never demean her or mentally abuse her. So yea i can go either way.
 
i enjoy it rough mainly giving but i also like being on the receiving end as well. my ex wife and i were enjoying our adult time and she was soo worked up that she scratched my back which ended up bleeding a little bit which did not stop me at all. i like to choke and be choked she was a smaller girl so even when she tried choking me i would push forward on it and say harder. Of course i liked holding her hands together so she couldnt move. Ass smacking etc for being physical. Otherwise i would say things like you like being my little slut but i would never demean her or mentally abuse her. So yea i can go either way.

Flexibility is good :rose:
 
Flexibility might return over time

When you tire or get bored, switch???

Still debating getting Edge 2 with WiFi control. Thinking handsfree is a myth even with online help
 
It's very hot having a lady take control. Verbal humiliation is such a turn on for me. Talking about picking up other guys at the bar too.
 
It's very hot having a lady take control. Verbal humiliation is such a turn on for me. Talking about picking up other guys at the bar too.

Just the perfect amount of dominance and control, metered out to suit both parties, accordingly :rose:
 
the perfect kind of rough

I've never been drawn to intense pain or humiliation, but I'm not sure anything can top the greedy gleam in a partner's eye when she decides she's ready to take her time making me hers...

The sting of a belt against my ass? Maybe, if it turns you on (I am nothing, I suppose, if not an explorer, and I like to let a partner revel in what she wants most), but it's not what I crave in my quiet moments of fantasy.

Now, if you were to take that same belt, loop it around my throat, and lock eyes with me as you slooooooowly tighten it? Now you're speaking my love language.

I find that the subtlest moments of physical roughness can unlock a psychological experience of vulnerability that I'll never, ever be able to find enough of.

But just because there's never enough, that doesn't mean we have to stop trying, does it?

Please?
 
I've never been drawn to intense pain or humiliation, but I'm not sure anything can top the greedy gleam in a partner's eye when she decides she's ready to take her time making me hers...

The sting of a belt against my ass? Maybe, if it turns you on (I am nothing, I suppose, if not an explorer, and I like to let a partner revel in what she wants most), but it's not what I crave in my quiet moments of fantasy.

Now, if you were to take that same belt, loop it around my throat, and lock eyes with me as you slooooooowly tighten it? Now you're speaking my love language.

I find that the subtlest moments of physical roughness can unlock a psychological experience of vulnerability that I'll never, ever be able to find enough of.

But just because there's never enough, that doesn't mean we have to stop trying, does it?

Please?

Nicely illustrated daydreamer :rose:
 
I feel like this ties heavily into seduction. There are women who are simply beautiful and then there are those who are seductive. I dont mean seduction so much in the sense of showing skin or the like. More so in the sense that some women can infer a whole host of desire by simply giving a particular look. They demand attention and a recognition of their beauty. Those women may not be one's particular "type" but can cause you to do things you wouldnt normally. These types are extremely attractive to me.
 
i love to give up control, to let a dom women have their way, get freaky.
make me do what she really wants..
 
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