'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real?

[waterkemist]

Another bump.

 

[PrettyKitty427]

about how many centimeters in is this thing? and how hard do i rub? and what's the best lubricant for anal play (not just for this but anal sex too)?????????????

 

[tiez]

and what's the best lubricant for anal play (not just for this but anal sex too)?????????????

There are lots of lubes, but of the ones I could find in my local store, I am using astroglide gel these days. Works much better than the KY Liquid did and the lube doesn't dry out as quickly. Good luck.

 

[Pure]

Pretty Kitty said, //about how many centimeters in is this thing [prostate]? and how hard do i rub?//

i'd say 8-10 cms. the length of a finger or a thumb shoved in about as far as possible. you will know, since it feels a bit like a (soft) walnut-sized object, and he will report a feeling like having to pee.

pretty hard, just short of what he finds painful. just watch for stuff coming out--not merely the clear pre-cum-- and do it that hard.

J.

note, trim your nails down far, smooth all edges, or use a cot or glove.

the thicker gels, like maxim, and id glide; but in a pinch, butter works quite well, just harder to clean up.

 

[PrettyKitty427]

how many fingers are suggested?

 

[Pure]

one strong one will do the trick; i.e., the thumb, first or second. one can go in farther. provided the anus can relax, and you can go in far enough, two fingers is not a problem.

 

[Pure]

note the gland lies to the front, toward the bladder, iow.

 

[James G 5]

note, trim your nails down far, smooth all edges, or use a cot or glove.

for very long nails, especially acrylics or extensions, a little tissue paper or a cotton ball placed in the finger of the glove so it coverd the nail is a good precaution

for those who don't know "cots" in this case are finger cots, sort of like condoms for your fingers, available at office supply stores (people use them for handling money & paper)

 

[Mr.G]

HOW HARD DO I RUB?

""PRETTY HARD, just short of what he finds painful. just watch for stuff coming out--not merely the clear pre-cum-- and do it that hard.""

Just a word of warning here. When you start to rub make it no more than a gentle caress. This is an INTERNAL ORGAN NOT a clump of buried nerves like the GSpot. If you start off "pretty hard" without him getting used to it you'll have to pull his head out of the wall above the bed following his reaction. NOT a good start.

Start VERY gently...get him passed the "gotta pee" sensation and then very slowly increase the pressure of the rub. You can circle, go side to side or back and forth. The thumb will be the most powewrful finger to use so be careful if / when you get wild that you don't get too forceful. Don't forget all this is being done thru the wall of the intestine which is NOT known for its resistance to rips and punctures.

My main point is start off slowly and gently or he'll never let you back there again. After a few times you'll know how hard and how fast to go hard and remember HARD is NOWHERE near as hard as one manipulates the GSPot. It's a whole differnt set of rules for the prostate.

My 2¢

 

[webber1998]

Re: HOW HARD DO I RUB?

""PRETTY HARD, just short of what he finds painful. just watch for stuff coming out--not merely the clear pre-cum-- and do it that hard.""

Just a word of warning here. When you start to rub make it no more than a gentle caress. This is an INTERNAL ORGAN NOT a clump of buried nerves like the GSpot. If you start off "pretty hard" without him getting used to it you'll have to pull his head out of the wall above the bed following his reaction. NOT a good start.

Start VERY gently...get him passed the "gotta pee" sensation and then very slowly increase the pressure of the rub. You can circle, go side to side or back and forth. The thumb will be the most powewrful finger to use so be careful if / when you get wild that you don't get too forceful. Don't forget all this is being done thru the wall of the intestine which is NOT known for its resistance to rips and punctures.

My main point is start off slowly and gently or he'll never let you back there again. After a few times you'll know how hard and how fast to go hard and remember HARD is NOWHERE near as hard as one manipulates the GSPot. It's a whole differnt set of rules for the prostate.

My 2¢

And I agree with your 2 cents worth too !! Better to start off easy and gentle ... work you way harder.... He'll know when it is just right !!!

 

[Pure]

Mr. G: //Just a word of warning here. When you start to rub make it no more than a gentle caress. This is an INTERNAL ORGAN NOT a clump of buried nerves like the GSpot. If you start off "pretty hard" without him getting used to it you'll have to pull his head out of the wall above the bed following his reaction. NOT a good start.

Start VERY gently...get him passed the "gotta pee" //

Sounds like Mr G has never been to a urologist without time to wait ten mins for a sample. The organ is not an eyeball; it's pretty hardy.

 

[Mr.G]

Without getting into a pissing contest here but...

RE: "Sounds like Mr G has never been to a urologist without time to wait ten mins for a sample. The organ is not an eyeball; it's pretty hardy."


You don't have any clue what you're talking about, do you?

 

[PrettyKitty427]

hey mr. G...in lieu of only a bump how about a question..you seem knowledgable...whats the point of warming liquid?

 

[Mr.G]

Hey Pretty- thanks for the bump

"...whats the point of warming liquid?""

I dunno. Safer than gasoline is my guess.


Just kidding

I take it you're referring to the new KY lube that feels warm when it meets ummm "delicate" tissue. I'm not sure because all the umm delicate tissues I've ever stuck my tongue in have felt like li'll furnaces already. Even HOTTER after a good Gspotting too. WHO needs warm? My guess is everybody will try it ONCE and go back to the regular or corn starch or udder grease or whatever else worked for them before...

I just hope they've tested it sufficiently so we don't have any nasty surprises down the road...and when I say "tested" I don't mean spraying it in some bunny"s eyeballs for 6 months to see if it caused cancer.

On a side note I have heard that GOLD BOND body powder causes INTENSE burning if it makes its way into a vagina - haven't heard about back doors and I haven't tasted it so... just warning tho. If he has GOLD BOND BODY POWDER on his dick and he has normal intercourse it'll likely feel like some creeps' poured BENGAY / A535 up yo snatch.

 

[PrettyKitty427]

you're fucking hilarious! why would someone have gold bond on their dick LOL

 

[Pure]

I think one reason for the bad tempered remarks is that the thread never got clear on two different extremes --and there is a lot of in between territory.
1) As a means of control, the woman 'milks' the man, without his having orgasm. The fluids are drained so to speak. indeed, if the same stories as I read, are being referred to, the aim is to induce and or maintain frustration; or at least avoid satisfaction.

2) The woman stimulates the prostate as a means of inducing orgasm or heightening it (more quantity). OR as a means of extending (in time) the orgasm.

Issues of speed, pressure etc. depend on the goal.

I only know of the 'extension' idea through reading, and gather it depends on not ejaculating or losing fluid.


J.

 

[snickertease]

I don't suppose there is any way to approximate this without anal play...

(It's ok... you can call me repressed if you need to...)

 

[James G 5]

you're fucking hilarious! why would someone have gold bond on their dick LOL

because he was using it topically to treat a scrotal fungus (there are Athelete's Foot-type fungi that afflict male genitalia...go ahead, ask me how I know)

 

[Pure]

Snicker said, "I don't suppose there is any way to approximate this without anal play...

(It's ok... you can call me repressed if you need to...)"

You can't exert pressure on the prostate from outside. (So there are only two ways in, without cutting, to access it). Possibly, maybe, you could 'milk' --drain the fluids-- imo, i.e., achieve some some of flow or ejaculation without orgasm.

As to extended orgasms; haven't had one, but they say the methods need not involve the anus.

For the prostate contact, if you're repressed, I'd say, once you know the landscape, a long stiff implement (not too hard), say a foot long, e.g., a silicone dildo, could be used, so your hand wouldn't be near the anus.

 

[Enodia]

I'd LIKE to try this on my boyfriend, but he has issues about his butt (or any butt for that matter). NOTHING to do with homophobia, though. He is obsessive-compulsive about cleanliness, and, well, the butt isn't overly clean in his opinion. Oh wel....

 

[snickertease]

Not a cleanliness issue... I have a little distaste for that, but can get over it... I just don't like the sensation of having anything up my butt. I've tried it for partners before and it's never done anything for me.
Likewise, I've tried anal sex with women, some of them really got off on it, but it doesn't "feel" right to me...

oh well... doesn't stop any of you from enjoying it

 

[mgouker]

When I first went to see my urologist she "milked" my prostate. Under those conditions it wasn't erotic. In fact, it was a bit disturbing to see liquid being pumped out of my penis from the inside without even having an erection.

I don't mean to stymie the erotic bend of the conversation, but a counterpoint is important here. It is the situation that creates the erotic charge, not the action. There are a hundred things I'd rather do in bed than have my prostate "milked". If my partner wanted to do it, I would want to trade for something _REALLY_ good.

As an aside, gentlemen, I highly recommend having a female urologist - not only are they more sensitive, but they have smaller fingers!

;^)

 

[Owlz]

BUMP!

 

[raverboi27]

I'm new here. But, I have to say I have tried this and it REALLY WORKS! My god, I sounded like I was speaking japanease I was so worked up. Luckly for me, my girlfriend is totally into exploring it.

 

[PrettyKitty427]

because he was using it topically to treat a scrotal fungus (there are Athelete's Foot-type fungi that afflict male genitalia...go ahead, ask me how I know)

indeed, why DO you know this?