'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real?

[A_Day_Dreamer]

I've read almost all this thread and can't wait to try on hubby. Lots of grreat info on what to do and feel for. When we get to it I'll have to post our results'

 

[eager2please177]

please do, let us know what he experienced as well please? some of the threads I read so far are all for it, your hubby is a lucky guy by the sounds of it

 

[bhurry]

You massage the mans prostate gland with your fingers or a dildo up his ass while you stroke his cock. chances are the first time you touch his prostate hes gonna squirt uncontrollably, but try it a few times and you will be able to learn how to control him so that he flows instead.

Just came accross this post. I wonder if you go into more detail how how to do this. My wife and I wpuld love to try this. Might spice up our sex even at 55 yrs.old. Any help would be great. Thanks Ben. Email bhurry@yahoo.com

 

[bhurry]

massage

I've read almost all this thread and can't wait to try on hubby. Lots of grreat info on what to do and feel for. When we get to it I'll have to post our results'

Try ehow.com. Type in massage prostate. great advice. We tried it. Still trying to calm down, wife was quite pleased.

 

[uptoplay2]

which article?

Try ehow.com. Type in massage prostate. great advice. We tried it. Still trying to calm down, wife was quite pleased.

they have a lot of entries (pun intended)

 

[shutter1975]

Hi everyone,

I just milked myself for the first time., OH MY GOD! It felt so damn good, I came 3 times and am just calming down, OH MY GOD! I would love to talk to some women about this. I think I may have to go do it again.

 

[beckettlee]

Gentlemen, have any of you experimented with milking and NOT enjoyed it?

NO NO NO NO!!!!! when I masturbate I have anal intercourse with a large toy, it makes me squirt just like some of the ladies I've made squirt during anal and vaginal intercourse, I squirt over and over till I'm soaked.I have 15 or 20 gushers (same fluid like milky water, or just clear) then I'm wore out, I then have a normal male orgasm all hands free continuing with the toy. I'm heterosexual and it's taken over 20 years of playing, experimenting and listening to my body closely to have this much fun. It's VERY WET, VERY WARM, VERY WILD!!!!!!!!!!

 

[valkyrie8]

Experimentation

My wife has done this on a number of occasions to me. While she is in the process of jacking me off, she will slip her finger into my ass when I finally cum it's much more intense.
But, as far as solo I have done this several times in the shower. I'll squat down and insert my middle finger into my ass usually all the way. I'll then start jacking, but when I get close to cumming it actually won't feel like it. It feels more like my whole pelvic area starts to relax and then it just flows. And I always cum much more than I would when just simply jerking off.
I've heard that a man's g-spot resides in the area between your balls and your ass. I guess that is the prostate.

 

[ZoeBird]

I've wanted to try this on my husband for a long time, but after researching it I found out that it is actually kind of dangerous. You can cause serious injuries to the prostate even if you didn't think you massaging too roughly. If there is anything wrong with the prostate, like there was cancer in it which you didn't know was there, a prostate massage can cause the cancer to spread all over a man's body. It can also cause blood poisoning if there is bacteria in the prostate.

It sounds fun and probably none of those things would happen to him if I did it, but I am too much of a worrywart to take the risk.

 

[LibraStud]

The one queston that seems to be repeated in here is , "Where in the rectum is the prostate?" Well kiddies it ain't In the rectum. It surrounds the urethra but it is best reached by rubbing the rectal wall towards the penis...in other words if you are on your back the finger has to aimed at the ceiling. The best way with a finger is a come here motion. Once found it can be a circular, up&down or back and forth movement. That doesn't matter. The most important points are NO LONG FINGERNAILS! and of course wash afterwards because yes, inside the butt is full of nasty bacteria. Any manipulation of the prostate should happen when you are very aroused and it should be slow and light to start. If you (speaking to women) have him in your mouth and you JAB his prostate expect his dick to punch out through the back of your neck! It is extremely sensitive until it is aroused.

Once it is aroused and whatever stimulation is being done to the penis thenthe speed and intensity will determine if he cums in one huge O or whether you can milk him over a period of time. The "milking" is a unique experience which is hard to achieve on the first attempt unless you know your partners responses REALLY well. You have to bring him to the point where he is about to blow his load while rubbing the prostate and then just hold him there at that point of arousal. His orgasm will then be stretched out over several minutes or longer. It is NOT the orgasmic feeling of cumming normally. It is different. Women can cum HUGE over and over. Our ability is to
stretch that feeling out over a long time IF it is done just right. It is a GREAT feeling but kinda weird at the start so hang in, experiment and let it happen. Try it a few times to get it right or do it better. Give her lots of feedback. It IS a technique that is worth getting it right.

The plus side to experimenting is that the prostate is massaged and that is a VERY good thing because prostates tend to go cancerous due to lack of stimulation. "MILK" your SO's prostate and he'll never have that problem!

I am making notes so that my love and I can enjoy this! Thanks

 

[EASY213]

I ran across this story here at Lit by accident when doing a search. In the story, the author describes his cock being 'milked' by a couple of ladies, which included prostate manipulation over an extended period of time. He describes his cum as oozing out in a steady flow, instead of shooting out all at once.

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=30848

This sounds wickedly interesting... I'd love to get some feedback. Has anyone else been able to accomplish this? The authors story is based on foot fetish, but my curiosity runs to the 'milking' concept in general.

Ladies: Have you ever done this? Is it done as described in the story?

Gentlemen: Have you ever been able to cum in this manner, flowing slowly, instead of shooting?

Re organism flow rather than squirt-Prostate has a muscle around it. When this muscle is flexed then you squirt, but if you control the muscle and overrcome the strong urge to flex it strongly, then you will cause the fluid to flow out.

 

[Susan1114]

I have filled my "learn something new today" rule.

 

[MoeDick]

Great thread I have known about the process but never able to get a lady to do it n me yet. Will have on my todo list though.

 

[Mr.G]

Unbeleiveable !!!

Well boys and girls ... just got back from a weekend in NYC with the most amazing woman. We had discussed this and the TRY THIS thread on many occasions and she had stated that she had never tried prostate massage. Without providing too many details (which wood be rude) she tried it. Due to her extreme INexperience the process was only fabulous! It was done fairly quickly which is an option of course - the slow torturous delayed style being the other one discussed here in numerous threads.

The result was a Heart beat that must have approached 300BPM, an absolutely delicious buildup sensation (which is the sensation which continues if you are doing the slow style) and when I came the sensation was agonizingly terrific. It felt like my spine was being sucked out it was THAT good. As described by others, it took me 10 to 15 minutes to be able to catch my breath and form intelligible words or sentences. She seemed pleased with her "handiwork" and I must say that her enthusiasm was THE major contributing factor.

I will state again for any noobies - this is easy for the woman to learn if she is eager to learn this technique. It really isn't complicated and it is also pretty damn easy for her to figure what feels good by your attempts not to thrash yourself to death in the process. I'm 56 and it was THE most intense series of spasms I have ever experienced during any orgasm at any point in my LIFE!!! It is SOOOO worth trying if you haven't. For those who have - both men and women (different perspectives) - they are simply nodding their heads reading this. "Yup, it's all that."

 

[Mr.G]

P- Massage

It's a pity that this procedure isn't more well known and widespread when it cums to taking your partner to the extremes of sexual satiation. The thread gets lost in back pages often and doesn't even get a lot of posts and that ain't right. Women should KNOW this just the same as men sould KNOW where and how to stimulate the GSpot.

Just sayin ...


*bump*

 

[bitslinger]

It's a pity that this procedure isn't more well known and widespread when it cums to taking your partner to the extremes of sexual satiation. The thread gets lost in back pages often and doesn't even get a lot of posts and that ain't right. Women should KNOW this just the same as men sould KNOW where and how to stimulate the GSpot.

Just sayin ...

*bump*

If a thread is sinking into the sunset of the back pages, there's probably a reason.

 

[MoeDick]

Very good education and should not be lost.

 

[SomeMight]

This is fantastic

 

[TDG]

I tried this once before but I believe I had my finger positioned in the wrong direction. I bought the hubby an Aneros and have yet to try it out. (His dad passed away last week so I didn't think it was the appropriate time).

I do believe that this would take his mind off things.

I am going to the drugstore for some of those finger cots and some extra lube and see where I "end" up.

 

[Dave-2223]

I just tried it with a curved slim vibe. I squirted a few drops of semen and it felt good. My question, do you come more after a few more attempts?

 

[SomeMight]

I tried yesterday but couldn't quite hit the spot!!!

 

[MR.GGG]

I think it is a little like "teaching" a GSPOT to work properly. The first time is kinda ... "WTF?" If you get her orgasming over and over and over again the "WTF ?" becomes obvious but it is still such a new and unusual sensation for them often it takes multiple attempts before they are comfortable with relinquishing THAT amount of control of their mind and body to your thumb!!

Once it is a known sensation the GSPOT orgasm can happen in the first two minutes or so and that's from a cold start so it IS something that takes getting used to.

My guess and from somewhat limited "research" myself I would say the same thing for prostate massage. The woman has to become comfortable with what she's doing, the pressure and angle needed, the most comfortable position for her to be in, what else she is doing to turn you on - handjob/blowjob- whatever, how LONG she wants to extend this ie. is she trying for a quick orgasm or an hour of prostate stim and THEN a final orgasm?

There are all kinds of factors involved and besides you HAVE TO vary what you're doing or even that will get boring after a while. It does take a while for you to be comfortable with whats happening and maximizing the sensation by giving her feedback. As you become more comfortable and your partner gets more adept at doing exactly what feels good / GREAT for YOU then the plumbing will respond accordingly and become more responsive to what is happening. The more your body becomes "tuned" to that the greater the response and of course the loinger it goes on for the more fluid will be released so yes, I'm sure you'll see a big difference between a one time attempt and what happens when this is an ongoing and perfected technique.

 

[kimv_314]

ive done this once before to my bf...i was jackin him off and stuck a finger in and gently massaged. he was tensing up and squirming and covered his face. lol, it was cute. i found it a turn on. he then made me quick cuz he was fixin to cum and he wanted to cum n my ass. grrrrr....im gonna try this out though. im gonna make him stay down and let me do the work, lol.

 

[Mr.G]

BoooM

Yes. Sounds good. Reverse the tables as it were. Instead of him cumin in your bum you can sort of come in his. The orgasm will be tremendous. If he objects then I suggest ROPE!!!

im gonna make him stay down and let me do the work, lol.

If you're going to control him then aim for doing this a loooong time. Torture him with it. Make him oooooze for a long time. When you let him / make him cum make sure he's positioned so he doesn't put out an eye. Good luck.

 

[sugra]

I am going to go and try this on myself right now. Thank you for the information.