'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real?

[jamies20052]

That's a common experience. My wife couldn't find mine the first time that she tried either. There's a few things to know. First, become familiar with the general anatomy. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate has some informative diagrams. Understand that the diagrams are a general guide, and the position varies a bit from man to man.

Second, the prostate swells with prostatic fluid and becomes firm during arousal and before orgasm. The more turned on you get him before you start searching for it, the firmer it will be (and easier to find). Try it during a BJ, when he's close to orgasm.

Lastly, because of it's proximity to the bladder it's easier to find when the bladder isn't completely empty.

The prostate is a delicate gland, and you have to be careful not to bruise it. You may have to press a little aggressively to find it, but once you have then use only gentle strokes of your fingers.

Yeah, when my wife did it the first time it was a little hard to find. By the last time we did this i was able to cum without any penile stimulation at all, and it was crrrazy. Sends such a great sensation throughout your entire body.

 

[juvare]

That's a common experience. My wife couldn't find mine the first time that she tried either. There's a few things to know. First, become familiar with the general anatomy. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate has some informative diagrams. Understand that the diagrams are a general guide, and the position varies a bit from man to man.

Second, the prostate swells with prostatic fluid and becomes firm during arousal and before orgasm. The more turned on you get him before you start searching for it, the firmer it will be (and easier to find). Try it during a BJ, when he's close to orgasm.

Lastly, because of it's proximity to the bladder it's easier to find when the bladder isn't completely empty.

The prostate is a delicate gland, and you have to be careful not to bruise it. You may have to press a little aggressively to find it, but once you have then use only gentle strokes of your fingers.

Ah, that might be the problem. I know where it should be, I know what it should feel like, and I know how to touch it but when we made the attempt it was after we had sex and he had already cum. Mostly we were just playing around and experimenting. Thought it would be a great way to get him hard and ready to go again. For some reason I also thought it would be similar to my Gspot. Aroused or not, you can definitely feel the nerve cluster. Next time we will try it when he is already hard and ready to go but hasn't got off yet.

Thanks!

 

[ButtAnalMan]

Nice thread

 

[sugra]

I have tried a couple times, and it feels so good. But I have a hard time doing it to myself.

Would love suggestions on how to milk myself.

 

[greenjacobin]

It makes a great punishment, if a woman stops just before ejaculation occurs and provides no more stimulation.

It makes a great reward if a woman knows how to do it right.

Consequently, it can be used, to great effect, for behavior modification.

 

[thinkmanthink]

I have tried a couple times, and it feels so good. But I have a hard time doing it to myself.

Would love suggestions on how to milk myself.

Lay on your side and get something about the size of your finger but with a handle to make it easier to reach. Insert it and start checking things out. Once you find the right spot, just keep stimulating it until something cool happens. Worked for me.

 

[sugra]

Lay on your side and get something about the size of your finger but with a handle to make it easier to reach. Insert it and start checking things out. Once you find the right spot, just keep stimulating it until something cool happens. Worked for me.

Suggestions on household items? I have dildos at my disposal, but they are all too large.

 

[sugra]

Finally just bought a toy....
Holy crap! I came about 3x the semen I normally do, it just kept coming out.

Thanks for all the advice and information.

 

[thinkmanthink]

I LOVE my toys... Glad it all came out well! I've used so many items. One of the best for me was getting a new plunger with a plastic handle, preferably one with curves or bumps in the handle. Removed the plunger part, wrapped it in a condom and went to town. Cheers!

 

[Mr.G]

Toys

Just a word of warning. If you are just getting started with prostate massage I suggest fingers (with no long finger nails) so that you can BOTH feel the pressure required. The prostate IS a very sensitive internal organ so treating too roughly will feel a little like getting kicked in the nuts and very very sore later.

It makes sense that using fingers you can feeel the pressure required. You can feel how it fills with fluid and becomes quite hard. You (the gut) can feel that pre-cum feeling build and even if you feel very little early on that feeling WILL begin to happen as your partner continues her massage - especially if there is a nice BJ happening at the same time.

There is much discussion in the TRY THIS thread about how close some aspects can come to BDSM stuff. Orgasm denial or actually giving orgasms as a punishment or taking her past where she is comfortable as long as this is a mutually agreed upon "game" and not just domination.

With the prostate stimulation this same thing can happen. A feeling of imminent orgasm can be held over by reducing stimulation. As the just about to blow feeling recedes then she can start again and repeat this over and over again until he is going nuts. For full control she should have him firmly TIED DOWN. On the other hand once the prostate massage is a known feeling and stimulation commences there are few things that will bring on a fast and very very intense orgasm like this type of stimulation. Variety is the spice of life so enjoy the "research."

 

[Mr.G]

Bump

I don't understand why this thread gets lost all the time. The technique is one of the greatest ... evaaaa !!

 

[VaGentleOne]

Mr. G I want to thank you for carrying on this thread. One day I hope to enjoy such attention....

 

[Mr.G]

BUMP ... again

You're welcome. I consider this THE GSPOT thread for men.

Sadly many men are too freaked out by anything to do with their butt to ever enjoy or have their lover explore this.

How many women have found this to be true or are most women too shy or staid to even suggest this let alone just trying it with their man. What was the reaction to any who "just DID IT" ??

 

[klippert]

I dated a cpl of girls years back....that did this to me long before I new it had a name....One, a nutty broad...took it to another level. Rimming me....stroking long and slow....pulling down, the feeling of her trying too pull my cock off... sucking my balls, fingering me....Damn, I miss those days.....

 

[Mr.G]

Funny, isn't it?

That some girls take to sex like a piggie to mud. The others hold back, are worried we might think poorly of them if they do something kinky, feel somehow purer if WE make them do something "dirty" even if they enjoy it too.

With some I suppose it is genetic but for most it is trust issues, self-esteem, religious or other repressive childhoods where sex - ANY SEX - was considered dirty.

Those few "ALL IN" girls are a gift and ya ... some great memories there too.

 

[MR.GGG]

Nice to see

some of the "mainstream" sex advice articles delving into the forbidden. We've had fun with this for years. others are just discovering. Encourage them.

http://www.getfrank.co.nz/dating-romance-relationships/sex/discover-the-p-spot

 

[psyche]

Suggestions on household items? I have dildos at my disposal, but they are all too large.

Buy a small vibrator, it will be worth it's weight in gold! Enjoy.

 

[psyche]

You're welcome. I consider this THE GSPOT thread for men.

Sadly many men are too freaked out by anything to do with their butt to ever enjoy or have their lover explore this.

How many women have found this to be true or are most women too shy or staid to even suggest this let alone just trying it with their man. What was the reaction to any who "just DID IT" ??

Most of the men I have been with have been very open to this. The best lovers, men and women, are relaxed and open about exploring and having fun while having sex.

 

[PixelHound]

Yea, I just bought one of those Aneros massagers- ABSOLUTELY worth it. Incredibly intense and very fulfilling orgasms. I've always had an extremely distracting sex drive and orgasms from it manage to keep me clear headed longer than anything else.

It takes a one or two sessions to figure it out, but once you do, it's addicting.

Very curious about how fucking with it in is... Need to hit the ol'goth club and wrangle me someone busty and latexy to find out.

 

[LaChica]

Would have it try it out someday if he allows

 

[batguy78]

Well, its been long enough I guess. I have been reading this thread for awhile now and obviously was interested in it. I am pretty much open to most sexual experiences... i mean if it feels good, why not? So I'm lucky that my girlfriend is also open to these types of things because when I brought it up she liked the idea.

As a beginner to this experience we made some mistakes along the way. I had only one previous experience regarding this and all the girl did was slide her finger into my ass as I was coming. It felt great and kind of piqued my interest. Hence me finding literotica.

My girlfriend and I tried several times to find the right spot resulting in me telling her to stop. After a while, I found I didnt need her to relax me as much due to my ass getting used to her finger. One night we decided to try it again and I felt her finger hit a spot that gave a different sensation, similar to my urethra being massaged. I felt this might be the right spot so I told her to concentrate on that.

After about 10 minutes my body started shaking pretty much uncontrollably, my heart rate sped up, I could feel my come pushing its way up through my urethra but I did not see any pre-cum. I have a feeling this was happening because my girlfriend was pushing consistently on my prostate thus not allowing it to come. The feeling was intense because I had no control over what was happening to me.

She started stroking my cock and pushing a little harder on my prostate which made the feeling more intense. After about 20 mins or so I felt a intense pressure starting to build up, started at the base of my balls and pushed its way up through my cock and out. It oozed out slowly, not a explosive orgasm like some have stated in this thread, but it lasted for about 20-30 seconds. There was alot of come and I had absolutely soaked the bed with sweat. It was pretty amazing. Since then it seems to get better and better.

This is a long winded post I know but I wanted to share my experience with you all. I have heard some people say that they can instantly have another orgasm but I need my girlfriend to take her finger out of my ass because its way too sensitive. I would love to have more orgasms but maybe we need to try different approaches.Anyways thanks for reading

Bat

 

[just4friends]

thanks for writing!

.Anyways thanks for reading

Bat

I hope you keep it up and report whether you can improve your results.

 

[Mr.G]

Agreed

Not only posting updates will keep this thread "alive" but others can see that it can take multiple tries to get the desired effects. ALL of us are different and due to hormones and stress etc we aren't even turned on by the same things on a day to day basis so posting tries, attempts, improvements and different techniques will show and encourage others to keep trying on those nights when you both feel the need to deviate into the kinkier than usual.

 

[myselfn505]

Wow!

I am totally open to this and I would absolutely love to try it. I'm really turned on by the thought of a woman helping me.... YUM!!!

 

[kfoster1515]

This is a great thread! I can't wait to try it...now I just have to convince him it's a good idea.