Mood and Sexual Intensity

[Ruby4Cox]

Does mood affect sexual intensity?

When I am happy, I seem to lean towards long sensual sessions, often with me taking control as much as I can.

When I am feeling down, I seem to prefer to get it rough, often doggy with hair pulled and spanked (submissive). I also become very "receptive" to sexual advances and flirting.

I feel there is a strong correlation between mood and intensity, at least for me. Does anyone else have similar sensations?

 

[ZfrkS62]

Frustration usually ends up feeding my primal hunger. Everything is more lustful than loving, including my noises. I also find myself caring much less about whether she orgasms during those sessions. If she wanted it to last she wouldn't shoot me down or make me wait for 2 plus weeks. She typically senses it and initiates when I'm peaking. The longer she waits, the more intense I'm going to be.

If I'm not in the happier headspaces, i usually have to concentrate just to stay aroused which slows things down considerably, but my enjoyment isn't really there as i also have to keep her engaged as well. So i have to divide my focus on my arousal, her participation, and her arousal. Doesn't always work out.

The best blend is when she initiates and is doing more than the bare minimum. Sensual intensity is up but the physical intensity is lower until she wants to switch from love making to fucking.

Angry sex isn't much of a thing with us. She might offer herself as a release if I'm irritated with something, but that's rare as I'm not typically interested in just jerking off in her because my stress level is up. Might feel good but doesn't help for more than a few minutes after.

 

[kingporus]

Yeah.. mood affect sexual intensity.
When I am stressed, frustrated, anxious or burnt out I prefer rough and hard fucking while in jolly mood it is passionate and slow fucking