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[smallgirl]

it wont make him happy he will only find something else to complain about or try to take away from you to control you.

i have to agree with you there. my thoughts exactly.

 

[koalabear]

its a huge load, being responsible for his happiness. a person cant make you happy, only you can do that for yourself. im really afraid we are too far gone...unless one of us gets a miracle and changes.

make yourself happy first, if not, then you can't make those around you happy.

 

[Fflow]

peace and quiet.

I'm sorry... My question existing within the context of our conversation about relationships. What do you want from the relationship you're in? What would your ideal relationship feel like?

 

[smallgirl]

I'm sorry... My question existing within the context of our conversation about relationships. What do you want from the relationship you're in? What would your ideal relationship feel like?

thats what i want...peace and quiet. no arguing. i could handle the rest if there was no arguing.

my ideal relationship? being able to be me and accepted for it. i dont ask for much.

 

[frdrcnjohn]

I have found that if a person is unhappy with themselves no matter what you do they are not going to be happy but then they have control over you and they will drag you down with them and then nobody is happy and both loose self respect and self esteem then it take a very special person to help you get these back. It is not a good road to follow it takes too much of a toll and some people get real hatefull then a lot of work to get back to being yourself. smallgirl choose a good path ,you are well accepted on lit and believe you have many freinds here

 

[texasace]

its a huge load, being responsible for his happiness. a person cant make you happy, only you can do that for yourself. im really afraid we are too far gone...unless one of us gets a miracle and changes.

Hi, lil' darlin... it appears that you have received some very sound support and advise.
As one of the others said... I don't think it's your sexuality as much as his need to control

I will add my age old advise... "Nobody has a right to steal your feel good..."

 

[tcwild100]

its a huge load, being responsible for his happiness. a person cant make you happy, only you can do that for yourself. im really afraid we are too far gone...unless one of us gets a miracle and changes.

If that's really what you feel, then your conclusion (that the relationship is too far gone) is no doubt correct. Unless you both want to fix things, it won't happen.

Hang in there doll.

 

[frdrcnjohn]

well said texasace bravo

 

[Fflow]

thats what i want...peace and quiet. no arguing. i could handle the rest if there was no arguing.

my ideal relationship? being able to be me and accepted for it. i dont ask for much.

I sometimes forget just how fortunate I am to be in the family I'm in. My wife and I have conflicts, but rarely, and we work really hard to resolve them quickly, and with kindness and respect. Our daughter, who is now 16, has grown up in this environment, and is fairly even-keeled. Even when I get bent out of shape, she's pretty understanding, and I always apologize for over-reacting.

 

[mandbc1]

Imagine being diagnosed with a life threatening illness, that you had 1-2 years to live would you stay in the relationship that you are?

Would you stay as your life force ebbed away or would you break free of your bonds and dare to be all that you could be with the time you have left?

Life is meant to be lived, its not about how much you have but what you do with it!

 

[skirt_chaser]

Yessss!!

Perky nipples to suck on, smallgirl, with a nice ass I'd like to spank!! Heck, I'd enjoy watching porn with you and seeing what happens <wink, wink>!!

Thanks for sharing your lovely and sexy body. Your hubby doesn't appreciate what he has with you ... as so many other of us men here would.

 

[skirt_chaser]

Your hubby sounds like a control freak. Nobody should treat you like this. Life is too short not to have that peace and quiet you're wanting so much. The arguing is not good for you. You'd be happier on you own and I'm sure lots of people would accept you just as you are. Many of us on Lit accept and enjoy you for yourself...

 

[frdrcnjohn]

when it is time to move on or repair what ever , it is your happiness at stake and i believe yo will make that choice in your heart or you allready have and want to justify your choice. your happiness and safety is the only choice you can make

 

[smallgirl]

my thanks

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[Idigsoftclams]

everyone has been so nice, and so helpful on one my rare days when im down. this is my way of showing thanks. enjoy.

Sorry to hear you're having troubles.

You are gorgeous!!! I hope that makes you feel better.

 

[frdrcnjohn]

class act woman

Thank you , you are beautiful smart and any man should be proud to have you on there arm I know i would

 

[dave001]

everyone has been so nice, and so helpful on one my rare days when im down. this is my way of showing thanks. enjoy.

Thank you smallgirl, for sharing yourself with us. Your really a hot, sexy woman...

 

[smallgirl]

Thank you smallgirl, for sharing yourself with us. Your really a hot, sexy woman...

thanks, it picked my mood up, hope it helps everyone else...

 

[frdrcnjohn]

you have that wrong smallgirl you are the one who pick us up thank you

 

[smallgirl]

you have that wrong smallgirl you are the one who pick us up thank you

you are welcome.

 

[frdrcnjohn]

If you are smiling then maybe we have picked you up a little , but you do realy pick us up look at all the people adding to you thread sweet lady

 

[smallgirl]

If you are smiling then maybe we have picked you up a little , but you do realy pick us up look at all the people adding to you thread sweet lady

i noticed that...i have very very few days when im down. this was the worse, by far, ive had in a good long while. nice to know im wanted somewhere at least..

 

[frdrcnjohn]

You want to come here ,it can be arranged , you are more than wanted you are desired

 

[skirt_chaser]

Looking Lovely

Lovely pics, smallgirl, you sure perked me up ... and you know how!!! I'd so love to suck those perky pink nipples and smack your ass. Do you have a preference? You're always welcome in my inbox. Your pics made my fingers very sticky!!!

 

[frdrcnjohn]

I believe that if a man can make a woman smile he can open the window into her heart and that gift is the best reward smile smallgirl